JazzyPaws
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
1- Risk: there is an inherent risk in meeting ANYONE online. On the internet I could be a busty 20 something blonde, or a 60 year old sailor with a wrinkly dick. You don't know until you meet me.
Which leads me to my main point, I could also be a person who is here to out, and ultimately get zoo's arrested. You just don't know. I could even be the police! There also a tie in that involves risk to our mates. You could injure them, intentionally or not, we don't know you. Getting caught could spell death for them.
Personal risks too, like losing your entire livelihood, spending time in prison, etc. When you desire to meet an owner you have to have an immense amount of respect for the chance they take on you.
2- Objectification: Sadly, what I've seen in this community, not limited to ZV, is that non-owners spamming for meets, also tend to have little respect for the animal, seeing it as just some fun they get to have.
You don't realize the time, effort, care, cost, and emotional investment we make with our mates. The thought of someone coming in to fuck my mate, and show him, or her, little to no respect is sickening. (This is an example, I personally do not share)
Not to mention those that don't understand that the animal has a say, and if they say no, tough luck buttercup. Or those that don't believe they need the owner's consent to even reach the point of getting the animal's, hint, you do, and attempting to circumvent that makes you vile, and unlikely to ever meet anyone. Setting aside the fact that you'll probably get hurt, I mean from the owner.
3- Being actually zoo: if all you wanna do is watch someone screw an animal, or screw them but not the animal, you're not a zoo, period. I don't care what your justification is, you need to, at the very least, have the desire or hope, to take that next step. You have to actually want to touch the animal intimately, to be actually a zoo.
Voyeurs are an even bigger risk, you have no experience nor do you want it, you got no skin in this game, which means us owners, are the only ones risking anything.
4- Sneaky Recording: Some people like to pull out their phones and record. I'm not gonna get wordy here, just read all the news articles of people caught, cause something got out, sometimes it's their fault, sometimes it's not. But this is another potential danger, we, as owners, have to weigh.
5- Conduct: your conduct on the forums is how some owners will vet potential "extras". Acting like a disgusting slut on the forums, does not help your case. There's nothing wrong with saying "oh that's hot" or getting a little slimy, on occasion, on porn boards, but if 80% of your posts make me wanna take a shower, I don't need to vet you in chat, you already did the work for me.
6- Respect: Firstly for our mate(s). You need to respect their mate(s), body language, stop and go signals.
Secondly for us, we let you into our home, at great risk to ourselves, to permit you an experience you are CERTAINLY not owed.
You're not entitled to our mates, we may permit you, and that commands a level of respect. And lastly, respect for the entire situation, and our privacy.
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At the end of the day, the only people that prevent you from meeting people, is often yourself. The internet is not this universal mask you can hide behind, more often than not, despite the anonymity, you've painted a picture of yourself, and in the very place you hope to meet someone, guess what, that's now your identity.
Conduct yourself with a level of respect. If all you came here for was porn, well, there's more than enough to get your rocks off, and you won't ever need to worry about this.
But if you're here to meet people, remember, how you act here is your identity to those you message on here. If you haven't got any luck, ask yourself why. Then ask, "Would you trust a person like you, with a mate you loved deeply, and would give it all to protect?"
Other Owners - Especially ones that do permit others, please share your reasons why you would cut a chat, not respond, or refuse to meet someone.
Which leads me to my main point, I could also be a person who is here to out, and ultimately get zoo's arrested. You just don't know. I could even be the police! There also a tie in that involves risk to our mates. You could injure them, intentionally or not, we don't know you. Getting caught could spell death for them.
Personal risks too, like losing your entire livelihood, spending time in prison, etc. When you desire to meet an owner you have to have an immense amount of respect for the chance they take on you.
2- Objectification: Sadly, what I've seen in this community, not limited to ZV, is that non-owners spamming for meets, also tend to have little respect for the animal, seeing it as just some fun they get to have.
You don't realize the time, effort, care, cost, and emotional investment we make with our mates. The thought of someone coming in to fuck my mate, and show him, or her, little to no respect is sickening. (This is an example, I personally do not share)
Not to mention those that don't understand that the animal has a say, and if they say no, tough luck buttercup. Or those that don't believe they need the owner's consent to even reach the point of getting the animal's, hint, you do, and attempting to circumvent that makes you vile, and unlikely to ever meet anyone. Setting aside the fact that you'll probably get hurt, I mean from the owner.
3- Being actually zoo: if all you wanna do is watch someone screw an animal, or screw them but not the animal, you're not a zoo, period. I don't care what your justification is, you need to, at the very least, have the desire or hope, to take that next step. You have to actually want to touch the animal intimately, to be actually a zoo.
Voyeurs are an even bigger risk, you have no experience nor do you want it, you got no skin in this game, which means us owners, are the only ones risking anything.
4- Sneaky Recording: Some people like to pull out their phones and record. I'm not gonna get wordy here, just read all the news articles of people caught, cause something got out, sometimes it's their fault, sometimes it's not. But this is another potential danger, we, as owners, have to weigh.
5- Conduct: your conduct on the forums is how some owners will vet potential "extras". Acting like a disgusting slut on the forums, does not help your case. There's nothing wrong with saying "oh that's hot" or getting a little slimy, on occasion, on porn boards, but if 80% of your posts make me wanna take a shower, I don't need to vet you in chat, you already did the work for me.
6- Respect: Firstly for our mate(s). You need to respect their mate(s), body language, stop and go signals.
Secondly for us, we let you into our home, at great risk to ourselves, to permit you an experience you are CERTAINLY not owed.
You're not entitled to our mates, we may permit you, and that commands a level of respect. And lastly, respect for the entire situation, and our privacy.
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At the end of the day, the only people that prevent you from meeting people, is often yourself. The internet is not this universal mask you can hide behind, more often than not, despite the anonymity, you've painted a picture of yourself, and in the very place you hope to meet someone, guess what, that's now your identity.
Conduct yourself with a level of respect. If all you came here for was porn, well, there's more than enough to get your rocks off, and you won't ever need to worry about this.
But if you're here to meet people, remember, how you act here is your identity to those you message on here. If you haven't got any luck, ask yourself why. Then ask, "Would you trust a person like you, with a mate you loved deeply, and would give it all to protect?"
Other Owners - Especially ones that do permit others, please share your reasons why you would cut a chat, not respond, or refuse to meet someone.
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