Hi, first sorry for my general quietness. I'm on this place about half of 2022 and it's my first thread. Sorry for my mistakes, english iss not my main language.
I used the search tool here and I saw various topics about "knowing if someone is into zoo" just in case, but i'm on a different situation and I need your advices.
So, let's try to sumarise this story but it's a bit long:
It's been a while since I enjoy with a girl who is part of a group of friends. Nothing about love because she is in a relationship and me too.
The more we talk, the more I want to get to know her, she intrigues me a lot, she is very open-minded. She doesn't seem to have any barriers, and we become strongly complicit.
We spend some time with dogs. She has a furbaby at home, I have one and some of our friends too. She can't resist a dog and seems as close to them as I am. really close.
What drives me crazy is that we are talking much more then before about dogs, and our conversations are moving Faster and faster on a slippery slope.
Recently, I think she discretly saw me languidly kissing a doggie when i was hidden and lonely in a room. I wonder if that's what started the topic.
Well, so I learned recently that she dared to test the private parts of her girl.
With her mother and me, she dared to say "I love teasing my dog. One day, I tried to rub her hole to see the face she would make." Simply like that! Like I said I just changed the paint in my living room !
Yesterday, we had a little more time to cuddle dogs and talk a little more intimately. A girl tried repitedly to snogg me, I took the opportunity to try to launch the subject with humor tone like "Hawww! she really likes me, look what she's doing she's cute. Luckily I don't let her! Whatever, I would be able to?".
She responded "Oh well, you know, I already tryed to stick my tongue out and let my girl do the job.".
What do you think I should do? Try to learn more about her and dare the subject more? Let her come? Find a more direct way to get a clear cut answer? I know I can trust her, she's a straightforward friend who always speaks her mind, and doesn't seem to have any boundaries. It would be the first person with whom I could discuss my non-tolerated love by society for doggies and other species but I can't be sure I'm right even though my instinct tells me let's go.
Have a nice day,
Thanks!
I used the search tool here and I saw various topics about "knowing if someone is into zoo" just in case, but i'm on a different situation and I need your advices.
So, let's try to sumarise this story but it's a bit long:
It's been a while since I enjoy with a girl who is part of a group of friends. Nothing about love because she is in a relationship and me too.
The more we talk, the more I want to get to know her, she intrigues me a lot, she is very open-minded. She doesn't seem to have any barriers, and we become strongly complicit.
We spend some time with dogs. She has a furbaby at home, I have one and some of our friends too. She can't resist a dog and seems as close to them as I am. really close.
What drives me crazy is that we are talking much more then before about dogs, and our conversations are moving Faster and faster on a slippery slope.
Recently, I think she discretly saw me languidly kissing a doggie when i was hidden and lonely in a room. I wonder if that's what started the topic.
Well, so I learned recently that she dared to test the private parts of her girl.
With her mother and me, she dared to say "I love teasing my dog. One day, I tried to rub her hole to see the face she would make." Simply like that! Like I said I just changed the paint in my living room !
Yesterday, we had a little more time to cuddle dogs and talk a little more intimately. A girl tried repitedly to snogg me, I took the opportunity to try to launch the subject with humor tone like "Hawww! she really likes me, look what she's doing she's cute. Luckily I don't let her! Whatever, I would be able to?".
She responded "Oh well, you know, I already tryed to stick my tongue out and let my girl do the job.".
What do you think I should do? Try to learn more about her and dare the subject more? Let her come? Find a more direct way to get a clear cut answer? I know I can trust her, she's a straightforward friend who always speaks her mind, and doesn't seem to have any boundaries. It would be the first person with whom I could discuss my non-tolerated love by society for doggies and other species but I can't be sure I'm right even though my instinct tells me let's go.
Have a nice day,
Thanks!
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