Married but alone in this ... you too?

[Jdoggy]

Ha! I can totally see myself in this type of situation someday. Are you still able to enjoy sex with your wife? I have been with girls but nothing compares to making love to my boy! No girl has ever turned me on like he does or felt SO GOOD around my cock! I don't think unless you've experienced it you could ever understand. He is always horny and ready to go whenever one of us is in the mood. Sometimes multiple times a day. Congrats on keeping it going for so long! That must be really hard. lol

Thank you for the congrats! ?

She has always turned me on but 99% of the time I imagine cumming in one of my dobies. I want children so a human female is necessary. (5 children). On the other hand. I'm paying her full attention when one of her g/f s are playing with us, then I get to disappoint both females at once ?

I will die with a passion for zoo. NO pussy has ever put me in the same trance tail hole does. When I slide up his warm asshole my eyes ROLL! I become another person mentally and generally only last 1 to 2 minutes. They've always got the zoomies on the way to the yard after i load their rear end?.

Just yesterday he met me at the car door after work. I was petting him and stroking his shoulders calling him a good boy and he was BRICKED up in his sheeth??

I'm right there with @Farmhand640 . We have willing side females to participate

 

[jwd135]

I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there.

I have the desire and have topped my previous male dane. If my wife knew, she would walk out in a heartbeat. Shortly after we were married, she caught me letting our pug lick me. She was pretty taken aback but eventually let it go. We didn't talk about it after that.

 

[Eevee]

Not actually married but in a steady relationship with my boyfried for nearly 6 years.

He knew I was into dogs even before we got together and was ok with it. In that sense, I guess I am very fortunate.

He tolerates it in theory, meaning he is ok with me watching porn of it and using canine dildos, but everything real is a big no.
That is why I am kind of forbidden to bring a dog into the householkd/ relationship.

It is a combination of him feeling it is morally wrong and being a bit jealous.
We have been to therapy and nothing really came out of that.

I love him and don't want to hurt our relationship, but I just can't get that need out of me...

 

[phillippe69]

I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there.

trust me your not alone with the dilemma, you really need to speak to your partner and see albeit in a diplomatic way wether he might have some interest in the subject,or come straight out with it and hope he understands,depending how strong your relationship is will determine the response or say nothing at all and discreetly have fun,if you do nothing this will be nagging away at you thinking about what you would love to be doing. female partners I've had pretty much all knew my interest and supported me.i wish you good luck don't hesitate to msg back for help in what ever way I can x

 

[phillippe69]

Not actually married but in a steady relationship with my boyfried for nearly 6 years.

He knew I was into dogs even before we got together and was ok with it. In that sense, I guess I am very fortunate.

He tolerates it in theory, meaning he is ok with me watching porn of it and using canine dildos, but everything real is a big no.
That is why I am kind of forbidden to bring a dog into the householkd/ relationship.

It is a combination of him feeling it is morally wrong and being a bit jealous.
We have been to therapy and nothing really came out of that.

I love him and don't want to hurt our relationship, but I just can't get that need out of me...

you won't get that need out of your system you might suppress it for awhile but it will always be there.i think it's jealousy from your partners point of view as he obviously feels you should be satisfied with him alone but your not! if he doesn't come to terms with your needs then your relationship will undoubtedly suffer and probably fail.to give you an example I love sex with girls/women but I adore anal sex on me and you can't beat real flesh as opposed to plastic so for me a relationship is with a female first and foremost which relates in a simular way to your situation x

 

[Jdoggy]

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[Lamington654]

Soon to be married but would never dare let my partner know, it would end it all for sure. Which always makes me think I’m in the wrong

 

[Locoluv]

I thought that would be the case in my relationship. I came out last Friday, with a great result, everyone is different, after 16 years I knew I was living a lie, so put my arse on the line.

 

[Jdoggy]

Soon to be married but would never dare let my partner know, it would end it all for sure. Which always makes me think I’m in the wrong

Same boat! If i had social media in the early 2000s like we do now i would never have married a non zoo.

I thought that would be the case in my relationship. I came out last Friday, with a great result, everyone is different, after 16 years I knew I was living a lie, so put my arse on the line.

Congratulations!! ?

Been with mine for 12 years, mentioned it once in a manner where I could pass it off as a joke and was met with a NASTY opinion towards it ?‍.

Can't throw her away now, she would get half of everything we've built together ?

 

[Roah]

Some time ago I plucked up the courage and talked about it with my wife, but her expression and her words completely removed the possibility "do you want a dog to penetrate me? I like animals, but I don't like that idea at all, I I'm so sorry" I love her and understand that one cannot have it all.

 

[Eevee]

you won't get that need out of your system you might suppress it for awhile but it will always be there.i think it's jealousy from your partners point of view as he obviously feels you should be satisfied with him alone but your not! if he doesn't come to terms with your needs then your relationship will undoubtedly suffer and probably fail.to give you an example I love sex with girls/women but I adore anal sex on me and you can't beat real flesh as opposed to plastic so for me a relationship is with a female first and foremost which relates in a simular way to your situation x

Thanks for the reply.

I think you are right, but what options are there if I don't want to leave him?
It is also not his fault at all and he does what he can to be a very good boyfriend otherwise...

The farthest he was willing to go was to allow me to have sex with a dog as long as it was not in our home and not our dog, but I think the chances for that to happen are zero anyway. Maybe that's why he even said it in the first place...

 

[Uvered]

Might cost me my marriage but I feel driven by the desire to be mounted and knotted.

Have you acted on your desires then? Or is the threat of your husband blowing up hindering you?

 

[jasonleaont6584]

Older male from Missouri here in the same situation, I cam here to maybe get to chat or meet like minded individuals.

 

[jimboemtb]

I know the feeling my wife would loose it if she ever found out as well

 

[upgrayeddd]

I think my situation is worse than most people in that it doesn't stop just at zoo stuff, or even sex for that matter. Our relationship has always been incredibly rocky and she is super controlling and down right abusive sometimes. We don't have all that much in common in general really. That's all a long story though.

My wife is pretty damn vanilla and I will never get to enjoy 95% of what all I'm into, including my favorite fetishes like beast and watersports. She knows slightly about the watersports thing but thinks it is gross and it only ever gets brought up on rare occasions just to make a jab at me. She has no idea to the extent I actually like it.

She barely even tolerates me being bi and even had a panic attack when she found out a few months into dating me. There is zero chance of her being OK with beast stuff.

I'm curious about the people who have said they went to couples counseling about it though. Like I can't imagine how awkward that must have been. And what was the therapist's take on it?

 

[case_f99]

My wife knows but has absolutely no interest in it. I’ve been very open to her about everything and she hasn’t left me so I guess that’s good. I still can’t help but hope one day her Curiosity gets the best of her and she try’s it.

 

[phillippe69]

Thanks for the reply.

I think you are right, but what options are there if I don't want to leave him?
It is also not his fault at all and he does what he can to be a very good boyfriend otherwise...

The farthest he was willing to go was to allow me to have sex with a dog as long as it was not in our home and not our dog, but I think the chances for that to happen are zero anyway. Maybe that's why he even said it in the first place...

so have you had sex with a dog away from your house with his blessing?

 

[Eevee]

so have you had sex with a dog away from your house with his blessing?

How would I actually go about it?
There are not many options.

Fencehopping would be a really bad one.

And there is always the 0.01% chance of getting to know a zoophile dog-owner who is willing to 'share' - but going by my own sad attempts and the countless unanswered requests by other males on here, a snowball in hell has better odds.

(Any advice / other ideas would be greatly appreciated xD )

That's why I think my boyfriend allowing me this is more or less on the basis that he knows it wouldn't really be possible anyway.

 

[jackBristol]

My husband would freak out if he knew of my animal desires!!

I sometimes struggle understanding how would they not get aroused by the thought but I respect that we are not all made the same. Anyway, keep it up gorgeous you're divine in your desire! ?

 

[jackBristol]

Not actually married but in a steady relationship with my boyfried for nearly 6 years.

He knew I was into dogs even before we got together and was ok with it. In that sense, I guess I am very fortunate.

He tolerates it in theory, meaning he is ok with me watching porn of it and using canine dildos, but everything real is a big no.
That is why I am kind of forbidden to bring a dog into the householkd/ relationship.

It is a combination of him feeling it is morally wrong and being a bit jealous.
We have been to therapy and nothing really came out of that.

I love him and don't want to hurt our relationship, but I just can't get that need out of me...

It is a great relationship if he has accepted you and your desire. He is a good boy. Well done for respecting each others ?

 

[Handsome]

My husband would freak out if he knew of my animal desires!!

Ofcourse he would. Do you have the possibility?

 

[phillippe69]

How would I actually go about it?
There are not many options.

Fencehopping would be a really bad one.

And there is always the 0.01% chance of getting to know a zoophile dog-owner who is willing to 'share' - but going by my own sad attempts and the countless unanswered requests by other males on here, a snowball in hell has better odds.

(Any advice / other ideas would be greatly appreciated xD )

That's why I think my boyfriend allowing me this is more or less on the basis that he knows it wouldn't really be possible anyway.

 

[phillippe69]

in order to organise a meet wether on your own or maybe with a likeminded accomplice (maybe me lol) you would need to be flexible regarding travel which would possibly include an overnight either on the way to a meet or on the return ,both you and I seek the same thing and believe it or not arranging to meet a couple as a "couple" isn't that hard but I guess a lot depends on wether your bf is sincere about you doing your own thing.i must emphasise and no disrespect to you I'm only interested in k9 or stallion I seek nothing else,so if you can get a night out to do your thing you may well be helping me do my thing too at least you wouldn't need to travel alone somewhere think about it and try to let me know.there is also paid work available too if that interests you(face hidden)

 

[annieFL]

Ofcourse he would. Do you have the possibility?

The possibility to do what ?

 

[annieFL]

in order to organise a meet wether on your own or maybe with a likeminded accomplice (maybe me lol) you would need to be flexible regarding travel which would possibly include an overnight either on the way to a meet or on the return ,both you and I seek the same thing and believe it or not arranging to meet a couple as a "couple" isn't that hard but I guess a lot depends on wether your bf is sincere about you doing your own thing.i must emphasise and no disrespect to you I'm only interested in k9 or stallion I seek nothing else,so if you can get a night out to do your thing you may well be helping me do my thing too at least you wouldn't need to travel alone somewhere think about it and try to let me know.there is also paid work available too if that interests you(face hidden)

Where are you ?

 

[riderxtyle]

Might cost me my marriage but I feel driven by the desire to be mounted and knotted.

Such devotion mmm

 

[k9-forever-lover]

haven't been married since 1996.. and have enjoyed every day since

 

[Handsome]

The possibility to do what ?

To enjoy a male dog

 

[Doggygrrrlsex]

My girlfriend and I are getting married till the end of the year and she knows... Well since we met in a chatgroup about Zoophilia that's pretty obvious ^^

Yeah, when I was young and single I pretty much only dated people actively trying to get me dog walking and pet sitting jobs that wanted to experience k9 too. I'd hate to marry someone not into zoofilia. Congratulations on your wedding! So proud when zoos hold out for the good stuff. Marriage isn't easy so why complicate it with sex lies.

 

[annieFL]

To enjoy a male dog

I’d love to !!!