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Just be honest with people

aragos32727 said:
I know exactly what you mean. Happens on here, happens on other dating sites, and sadly happens in real life with friends even. Like if you're not interested in me or interested in talking to me just tell me. But at the same time it's a lot less work to ignore someone. And a lot less hassle, how many times have you heard horror stories about people losing their mind because somebody isn't interested in them.
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Me. I've personally been on this road many times as that dumb fool that lost his mind because the many women I was interested in had absolutely NO interest in me. I'm an example of the type of scumbags you were describing. I've fell into the deep end so many times I've lost count.

Now, don't think for a second that I'm accusing you of anything, I just feel it's right that I have to concede this part of myself.

The thing I now keep asking myself is this:
Is me being such a scumbag means that I am a terminal case?
 
MareButtUddrrLovrr said:
Me. I've personally been on this road many times as that dumb fool that lost his mind because the many women I was interested in had absolutely NO interest in me. I'm an example of the type of scumbags you were describing. I've fell into the deep end so many times I've lost count.

Now, don't think for a second that I'm accusing you of anything, I just feel it's right that I have to concede this part of myself.

The thing I now keep asking myself is this:
Is me being such a scumbag a terminal case?
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I'm pretty sure that I never use the word scumbags. Because I've been on that road too. You think things are going well and then nothing.
 
No, I know you didn't use the word. I just felt it was appropriate for me to bring up the word.
 
@aragos32727
I apologize for my outburst, it's just been...
I haven't quite developed an appropriate response to being reminded of traumatic experiences with unrequited romances.
 
aragos32727 said:
I know exactly what you mean. Happens on here, happens on other dating sites, and sadly happens in real life with friends even. Like if you're not interested in me or interested in talking to me just tell me. But at the same time it's a lot less work to ignore someone. And a lot less hassle, how many times have you heard horror stories about people losing their mind because somebody isn't interested in them.
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I don't know any horror stories of men going nutz after getting turned down by women, it's not really something you normally talk about lol, but I have tried having women going completely nutz on me a few times after having declined them, even in circumstances where they have 0 "right" to be angry like she was married and I weren't still it can be like that fun bubbly friend you had that's always around but maybe touching you a bit much just get's transformed into Dracula in a skirt, only she doesn't suck blood as much as try and chop your soul into tiny little bits and slurp it up through a straw in her drink of vengeance. Some get high as a kite on that shit and will stop at absolutely nothing to go on another bender once hooked. So assuming there is a Dracula in disguise for every secret Dracuella I can't blame anyone for not being forthcoming pressing that red button.

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Hadock said:
I don't know any horror stories of men going nutz after getting turned down by women, it's not really something you normally talk about lol, but I have tried having women going completely nutz on me a few times after having declined them, even in circumstances where they have 0 "right" to be angry like she was married and I weren't still it can be like that fun bubbly friend you had that's always around but maybe touching you a bit much just get's transformed into Dracula in a skirt, only she doesn't suck blood as much as try and chop your soul into tiny little bits and slurp it up through a straw in her drink of vengeance. Some get high as a kite on that shit and will stop at absolutely nothing to go on another bender once hooked. So assuming there is a Dracula in disguise for every secret Dracuella I can't blame anyone for not being forthcoming pressing that red button.

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I didn't say men. Women are included.
I too have experienced the aftermath of a woman not understanding what platonic means.
 
Hadock said:
I don't know any horror stories of men going nutz after getting turned down by women, it's not really something you normally talk about lol, but I have tried having women going completely nutz on me a few times after having declined them, even in circumstances where they have 0 "right" to be angry like she was married and I weren't still it can be like that fun bubbly friend you had that's always around but maybe touching you a bit much just get's transformed into Dracula in a skirt, only she doesn't suck blood as much as try and chop your soul into tiny little bits and slurp it up through a straw in her drink of vengeance. Some get high as a kite on that shit and will stop at absolutely nothing to go on another bender once hooked. So assuming there is a Dracula in disguise for every secret Dracuella I can't blame anyone for not being forthcoming pressing that red button.

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If you're looking for a feminine variant for "Dracula," it would be "Carmilla."
 
Maybe because owners get sick of people waiting them going I want to fuck your animal I'll give you money to fuck your animal I will do anything that you want sexually for me to fuck your animal. Will you get the ones who talk to for you know two or three hundred messages and then they vanish and don't want to talk to you because you don't want to invite them to your farm. In some cases it's taking me over 3 years to be invited to people's farms.
If you start out hey I see you have a mare I want to fuck mare I can fuck your mare? There is not going to be reply on that or if you write one sentence of hi how are you? There's not going to be a replay on that one either. I get sick of people writing one goddamn message thinking that you want to open their farm their house or whatever so you come in and fuck their animals.
 
aragos32727 said:
[Carmilla]The name of the Countess of Bathroy
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hmm, just not sure she cut's mustard!
Searching google images for Carmilla just come up with girls hugging and stuff, maybe kissing in a way that would in no way be allowed 200 years ago:eek::eek: :eek: :ROFLMAO: But kissing girls, even though such a thing is so very taboo, are just not representative of the bloodlust of a scorned woman.
Carmilla is entirely too vanilla :devilish:
 
ReddestRocket said:
theres been a few people now that ive messaged that just ignore my messages now and its like just tell me if i went to far or was annoying or whatever. id rather you tell me then just ignore every msg afterword, how hard is it to be a decent human being
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Unfortunately people don't....I cannot tell you how many times this has happened to me it's a fact that you just gotta expect and brace yourself for. The decent thing is second nature. Not everyone is like that of course but I would say a good 75% of my conversations end that way.
 
Hadock said:
hmm, just not sure she cut's mustard!
Searching google images for Carmilla just come up with girls hugging and stuff, maybe kissing in a way that would in no way be allowed 200 years ago:eek::eek: :eek: :ROFLMAO: But kissing girls, even though such a thing is so very taboo, are just not representative of the bloodlust of a scorned woman.
Carmilla is entirely too vanilla :devilish:
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Actually.
Carmilla was from a novel nearly 20 years before Bram Stoker released his novel "Dracula."
en.wikipedia.org

Carmilla - Wikipedia

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