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Just be honest with people

True which is fine but i also see from their profules ttat they have been on after i msg them so they r choosing to ignore
 
theres been a few people now that ive messaged that just ignore my messages now and its like just tell me if i went to far or was annoying or whatever. id rather you tell me then just ignore every msg afterword, how hard is it to be a decent human being
Yea bud, this is a common thing.

Don't take it personally, you must understand you are talking with a human.

When b-forum was up and running our group would get messages from ppl saying I want(_ insert__) and then never hear back.

It seams a lot of zoos want this so bad but yet fall short when meeting time comes.

I used to get a lol upset as well.
Now... I/we(our group) have basically everything we want zoo wise.

So now when I don't get a response I just say to myself: well I got what I want, I tried to help you... Oh well.....NEXT.

I have helped a few women with pony, seams they get what they want, now they been there done that... And don't get a thanks.

I guess in their minds, it was payment enough to get to help them accomplish their fantasy.

Even thou it more than likely wouldn't have happened if I hadn't helped them.

Just anouther think I chock up to being related to humans.

If I find a cool, concistant zoo lady one day.. Awsome. If not.. I have my dog's/equines.
Nuff said
 
I have a load of messages from people who can't be bothered to make out a profile and who just say "hi" and nothing else. Nothing about themselves, no form of introduction or anything. There are only so many hours in the day so replying to those kind of messages are usually the lowest priority from my point of view.
 
I have a load of messages from people who can't be bothered to make out a profile and who just say "hi" and nothing else. Nothing about themselves, no form of introduction or anything. There are only so many hours in the day so replying to those kind of messages are usually the lowest priority from my point of view.
True. I really need to see at least a little something on that profile, some semblance of activity, having replied to postings from others on their profile, a gentlemanly first approach...something.
 
Because of my lower-than-average standing, I've abstained from sending DMs to anybody...save for the very few that I trust. I will have to admit, it takes a bit of courage to send the first message to someone that is considered highly desirable; a truly great risk, as one does run the risk of simply getting ignored...or straight-out blocked.
 
Because of my lower-than-average standing, I've abstained from sending DMs to anybody...save for the very few that I trust. I will have to admit, it takes a bit of courage to send the first message to someone that is considered highly desirable; a truly great risk, as one does run the risk of simply getting ignored...or straight-out blocked.
That shouldn't happen to a guy on here who has approached a lady in a gentlemanly manner. If she is a hot woman, she has even more responsibility to use it without hurting someone, whether she's lesbian, straight or anything else.
 
That shouldn't happen to a guy on here who has approached a lady in a gentlemanly manner. If she is a hot woman, she has even more responsibility to use it without hurting someone, whether she's lesbian, straight or anything else.
I wish my personal history would agree with you. Even in the Armed Forces, those that were very attractive used their own looks as a method of screening partners; there were only 2 instances where extremely attractive ladies did become friends with me, the majority of which scoffed at me during introductions. One such person flat-out told me I wasn't "loaded" enough for her.
 
I wish my personal history would agree with you. Even in the Armed Forces, those that were very attractive used their own looks as a method of screening partners; there were only 2 instances where extremely attractive ladies did become friends with me, the majority of which scoffed at me during introductions. One such person flat-out told me I wasn't "loaded" enough for her.
That's bad. A girl like that should have been told, "If you were woman enough, I'd be loaded just fine."
 
That's bad. A girl like that should have been told, "If you were woman enough, I'd be loaded just fine."
X_X (spit-take laughter)
I wish I could have told her that...

She probably meant that I didn't have enough money to impress her.
 
You have a point. I always ask for an introduction from people. I get annoyed at the "Hi, can I see your pussy?" messages or the just plain rude ones where they don't even bother with a greeting. And if you ask them for an intro they just duck out like they have something to hide. They annoy me.
 
You have a point. I always ask for an introduction from people. I get annoyed at the "Hi, can I see your pussy?" messages or the just plain rude ones where they don't even bother with a greeting. And if you ask them for an intro they just duck out like they have something to hide. They annoy me.
That sounds like the norm.
 
theres been a few people now that ive messaged that just ignore my messages now and its like just tell me if i went to far or was annoying or whatever. id rather you tell me then just ignore every msg afterword, how hard is it to be a decent human being
I'm sorry that happens to you. That can't be a good feeling. Decency in your initial msg deserves at least a civil reply.
 
You have a point. I always ask for an introduction from people. I get annoyed at the "Hi, can I see your pussy?" messages or the just plain rude ones where they don't even bother with a greeting. And if you ask them for an intro they just duck out like they have something to hide. They annoy me.
Yes, and some of them wonder what YOUR problem is, or try to insult you.
 
I get the ones from guys who define a lesbian as a woman who hasn't met the right guy. Pretty insulting.
Even worse, they believe they are the guy who can make the difference. Pretty stupid.
Even, even worse, they believe all lesbians are actually bisexual and won't always admit it. Pretty moronic.
Fortunately, I do talk to a LOT of men in this site who are not this way.
 
With what few brains they have stuck in their zipper. It makes me appreciate the good ones even more.
Exactly! We are not just about fucking all the time! I like talking about rock music, food and just general stuff. I'm chatting with a lovely guy who likes talking about the animals around him. It makes such a change!
I am lucky enough to chat with some nice guys, and occasionally they inspire me to play!
 
reading some of these makes me feel really bad for female users here... must be real fun getting "send me a nude pic" from random ppl with like 0 post history.

all i got so far were two or three "Hi"s with no context or any other text from 0 posts accounts, guess just bots.
 
reading some of these makes me feel really bad for female users here... must be real fun getting "send me a nude pic" from random ppl with like 0 post history.
We are a minority on ZV, I get that, and we shouldn't set our sights too high, we ought to expect some of that kind of behaviour, but the well-mannered are outweighed by the crass and crude. It's such a shame, because there good guys on here too.
 
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