I suppose the disconnect is that you guys have a vision of "what you want" which is aligned with "what you think/what you believe should be right" AS INDIVIDUALS/part of a subset of our culture ... while Silky, myself and others are more focused on practical application, navigation of existing laws, and understanding of not only the court system and how they function (to carry out the will of the majority), but also the direction society is moving.
IT'S A GREAT TIME TO BE ZOO - never before computers have we had tools and opportunities to feel as though we were part of a larger community. From resources and porn, to personal interaction, to - heck - just being able to have a place where we can be who we are (admittedly, behind a thin sheen of anonymity). These stirrings of being able to be recognized safely and interact with others have brought an awareness of and a hunger for more. To potentially be protected under the law, rather than targeted by it. This would be huge. Stepping beyond that, being able to live outwardly with our own tastes and appetites and not only not fear prosecution, but persecution as well.
But.
Our country has had 400 years of immediate history, with 200+ years of independent governance based around the idea that
life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness are inalienable rights. Globally, we have a written history spanning 5,000 years. And yet, tracked through time, legislation against zoos is increasing and tightening. Society-at-large – on a global scale – considers the acts that we feel natural and private and acceptable TO BE ABHORRENT to them.
And legal systems (plus the courts to enforce them) are the natural offshoot of the societies and their values from which they spring. We're in te minority... and this isn't a "live and let live" sort of existence. We're being systematically legislated against.
Look at Denmark, whose progressive and permissive attitude towards zooishness has been the hallmark for modern treatment of zoos. And yet, even they are tightening their legislation, and further criminalizing this expression of our sexuality.
Several of you in this thread have accused me of being everything from naive, fatalistic and pessimistic. I'd state that, instead, I was being realistic in the face of this rampant display of pollyannaism. The laws impacting zooishness and bestiality are increasing - rapidly, GLOBALLY. And not only do we face legislation at an unprecedented rate, our courts are also are becoming more and more clear in their treatment of zoos, as well as the crimes becoming codified to be more serious.
These actions reflect what the majority in our society feel is acceptable and want. And it's in direct opposition to how we feel and what we want.
And it's not going to change. Zooishness will always be a punchline, comedy, and criminalized.
The only realistic legal grounds upon which we have to stand is some play towards privacy, so long as NO harm is coming to our partners. Unfortunately, society's legal aspect has already deigned that sexual contact with our partners IS harmful, and that animals fall victim to
biblical prescripitions. And so, the 'privacy' we seek is - instead - seen as a furtive retreat into the shadows.
Friends, it has next to nothing to do with the animals... it has everything to do with how our culture feels about our sexual practices.