Reconscope
Supreme Citizen of ZV
Professionals have standards.
Well if you are in fact broken, I hope some time and lots of lube can fix that someday.I love eating ass, both giving and receiving, but penetration just doesn't do anything for me. I only did it for her enjoyment so I guess I just realized I faked enjoying it...lol
You're absolutely rightDefinitely feel like there's a huge mental aspect to it. Anal that is, and also the labels that we put on it being "gay" or whatnot aren't helpful unless they are helpful to enjoy yourself.
I have accepted I want to be a part of the zoo life through my relationships and with a long-term partner but in the capacity of being not much more than the help while they are pleased by the beast and take any dominance or power I usually had and get to watch someone I care about be pleasured better than I could ever do for them. And navigating how to turn that into a normal relationship outside of that room.
I read and reread your text because I'm not sure I understand it well (My English is not perfect)On the same hand though, I have been sexually bi sexual most of my life with men and women, although only ever dating women but go both ways sexually. On top of that while not being an outright dominant personality but always having wanted to take the lead and the power of control during sex, I have accepted I want to be apart of the zoo life through my relationships and with a long term partner but in the capacity of being not much more than the help while they are pleased by the beast and take any dominance or power I usually had and get to watch someone I care about be pleasured better than I could ever do for them. And navigating how to turn that into a normal relationship outside of that room. And it’s a massive challenge but still leaves me with no desire to submit on hands and knees and have my gspot bashed into submission either. But I’m gonna go ahead and suggest perhaps I’m an outlier
I wonder though, why exactly do we view receiving pleasure on all fours as being dominated? Especially if you may be receiving the bulk of the pleasure. Why are some positions subservient and others domineering. Is it submissive to be receiving the secondary pleasure even if you are requesting it?On the same hand though, I have been sexually bi sexual most of my life with men and women, although only ever dating women but go both ways sexually. On top of that while not being an outright dominant personality but always having wanted to take the lead and the power of control during sex, I have accepted I want to be apart of the zoo life through my relationships and with a long term partner but in the capacity of being not much more than the help while they are pleased by the beast and take any dominance or power I usually had and get to watch someone I care about be pleasured better than I could ever do for them. And navigating how to turn that into a normal relationship outside of that room. And it’s a massive challenge but still leaves me with no desire to submit on hands and knees and have my gspot bashed into submission either. But I’m gonna go ahead and suggest perhaps I’m an outlier
We have a billion years of instinct boiling in us to make us sexual creaturesI wonder though, why exactly do we view receiving pleasure on all fours as being dominated? Especially if you may be receiving the bulk of the pleasure. Why are some positions subservient and others domineering. Is it submissive to be receiving the secondary pleasure even if you are requesting it?
Evolution and the affect our genes play on our psyche is very strange. I’m sure there is plenty that our social environment molds though too.We have a billion years of instinct boiling in us to make us sexual creatures
And in the distant past, the man was the dominant and the woman the submissive and these are genes that are still ingrained in us even if we have started to evolve since then.
Ok correct me if I'm wrongYeah look, I don’t honestly think I have an answer. At least not a yes or no. I’m not into being humiliated sexually or otherwise, and not particularly interested in usually being submissive. Always taken a big interest in my partners sexual satisfaction and finding out what their body likes best and always getting them off to get me off. But I was with my for a good few years and we had a great sex life before delving into zoo full noise for two years and I knew after the first two times he mounted her and only knotted one of them that he was going to be more enjoyable for her and could see her body reacting physically to him and specifically his knot and I assume the swelling of it inside her. I could make her cum in a couple minutes but I didn’t often leave her out of breath and quivering arms and legs. That bastard would have her shaking before he’d even got his knot tied off biting her lip and usually hardly touching her clit and she’d orgasm most times then and if he decided to stay tied off in her more than a few quick minutes she’d usually work herself up to another one particularly enjoying him when he’d pop out of her. I just didn’t have the tool to be able to leave her shaking on her hands and knees out of breath oozing his fluids and leaving her gaping and watching it slowly close up, something I wasn’t capable of and something her body happened to respond very well to
What is your attachment to zoo life, I mean what do you like?Oh essentially, I thought it was still going okay and we still had regular sex alone. Enjoyable but well, just standard in comparison. Neither of us considered the shift that would naturally come from physical pleasure in terms of her emotional capacity. I think it was clouded through a lot of confusion about how deeply she could feel for him and we ended up going seperate ways quite abruptly. We were too inexperienced and not well enough studied and it was the right call. But those two years I never didn’t enjoy getting to watch her enjoying herself so much and is what I would still ideally like to have with someone else and keep zoo incorporated in my life
Id look at it as a primitive defence instinct. Being in all fours, if danger comes, the one thats in the most “dominate” position can react the quickest to any and all threats. The one in the most submissive position cannot defend themselves as easily if something dangerous were to show up.I wonder though, why exactly do we view receiving pleasure on all fours as being dominated? Especially if you may be receiving the bulk of the pleasure. Why are some positions subservient and others domineering. Is it submissive to be receiving the secondary pleasure even if you are requesting it?
That’s a very interesting point. I could definitely see where you’re coming from with that one and it makes sense.Id look at it as a primitive defence instinct. Being in all fours, if danger comes, the one thats in the most “dominate” position can react the quickest to any and all threats. The one in the most submissive position cannot defend themselves as easily if something dangerous were to show up.
Yea thats about the only reason i can see positions as dominating or not.That’s a very interesting point. I could definitely see where you’re coming from with that one and it makes sense.
In a state of survival, like being a caveman for instance, even during sex you cannot let your guard down. In todays world its a different story.Might be protecting vital organs with your back but those organs are the last ones you’re thinking of in this instance, and you girls that know how to get yourselves in the best spot for your dogs are exposing your most sacred part of you to the world painting a target on that hole and making it as exposed for your boy as you can. I’m gonna say you can argue for it being a submissive positions for your reproductive organs
Well, shit, you've definitely given me something to think about with what I've been wanting.whatever we decide on, can I start just telling people that’s why my relationship fell apart, and not have to tell anyone else I helped trained our dog to please my girlfriend sexually and he was so good at it, he out fucked me by so much that we ended breaking up? Coz I’m down for that
Id say, as hard as it may be, keep moving forward. Looking back only hurts more. I was married to someone i didnt click with a couple years ago just so i could make it work. (She didnt know about this side of me either and i doubt she wouldve have like it very much.)so i understand how much it hurts to look back. The only thing you can do is focus on what makes you happy. That will eventually bring someone That can share the happiness with youwhatever we decide on, can I start just telling people that’s why my relationship fell apart, and not have to tell anyone else I helped trained our dog to please my girlfriend sexually and he was so good at it, he out fucked me by so much that we ended breaking up? Coz I’m down for that
I think unfortunately we all have our burdens carriedwhatever we decide on, can I start just telling people that’s why my relationship fell apart, and not have to tell anyone else I helped trained our dog to please my girlfriend sexually and he was so good at it, he out fucked me by so much that we ended breaking up? Coz I’m down for that
I don't find it pleasurable.
for a man,,,
as much as a women.
I hope it's okay to ask but how did you and your ex get introduced to the zoo life? From reading what you said it makes it seem like it wasn't planned at all. What happened that brought yall into it?Exactly! I tried to move on and leave the zoo lifestyle behind completely too but it is the sort of thing that is hard to replace or chase with something short term I think so, still have all that in the rear view but back here as a start point. It’s either that or I screen everyone I see in public for paw tattoos but make sure it’s not only for a deceased pet, but I think as far as time management goes here is a good place to start