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How many are zoo exclusive?

are your zoo exclusive?

  • I'm zoo exclusive

    Votes: 445 33.5%

  • I'm not zoo exclusive

    Votes: 792 59.5%

  • I'm Involuntarily celibate - Incel

    Votes: 93 7.0%
  • Total voters
    1,330
Xetr0 said:
I have been zoo exclusive most of my life, right now I find it as a curse. I want to be able to have functional sex life with humans and a relationship, but it's hard when I have no lust for human sex and get 0 arousal. It has only happened a few times that intimacy alone triggered arousal with humans. Currently I'm trying therapy at a sexologist, but I feel it's not going anywhere. I still wear my ancient zeta pendant under my shirt; one thing is sure, I will never put my zoo pride away.
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i think many of us have been to the point of feeling like being a zoo is a curse. i hope you can find peace with it at some point, but as pinkstray said, it's usually a difficult journey towards self-acceptance. i second his statement that if you need to talk, many of us here are willing to listen.
 
juan_doe_drei said:
i think many of us have been to the point of feeling like being a zoo is a curse. i hope you can find peace with it at some point, but as pinkstray said, it's usually a difficult journey towards self-acceptance. i second his statement that if you need to talk, many of us here are willing to listen.
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Thank you for amplifying. This is a crucial point. If you are in crisis / emotional / entangled with these feelings, you NEED to know you are ok, your feelings are ok and how you came to be here is valid and important. Having someone to talk through can literally change your life. There are people who want to help. I am but one, but there are many others. This is/must be a safe space to be.
 
juan_doe_drei said:
i think many of us have been to the point of feeling like being a zoo is a curse. i hope you can find peace with it at some point, but as pinkstray said, it's usually a difficult journey towards self-acceptance. i second his statement that if you need to talk, many of us here are willing to listen.
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I don't have any issue about being zoo, I'm actually very proud of my sexuality, I feel it has made me a better person, being open minded and accepting of other people's differences, it's just the exclusive part I have an issue with. There are some people in my life I would like to have a closer relationship with right now and possibly in the future too and I don't want to end up alone when I get older either, mid-age is closing in on me. Going from being close and intimate with someone human over to sexual activities is like climbing Mt. Everest for me.

Also got the constant nagging from my family about getting a girlfriend. My older brother usually tries to get my attention to look at some hot girl walking past on the street, while in my I head I'm focused on the sexy dogs with fluffy butts walking past and identifying their genders. It equals constant lying about being asexual or some other excuse. I hate to lie.. ?

Nothing is constant in life, different needs arises, in my younger days I was happy sharing my life with my canine partner (he's not around anymore), the bond we had was magical and I couldn't think of any other way to have my life, but now I would like to have both a canine and human partner in my life.

I have some close knit zoo friends around to talk with, no worry about that. It's been a long long time since I've ventured out of their safe space and into the open, here I can share my experience and difficulties as a zoo exclusive to wider audience.
 
qweqwe said:
"semi exclusive"
when I had a woman, no exclusive (although mine was always the main thought, the woman knew that she was in second place, even though she didn't know all my connection with the mare)

when the mare was missing, together with work, almost the house and other problems, I had a nervous breakdown and shortly after I recovered, the woman left.

from that moment exclusive zoo, until another woman will not accept to stay with me, but giving up the first place.

with the mare have now I would say exclusive, since I want to try with someone else it must first be approved by her (she has the fortune of living in a big boss with other horses), I must say that I am very fond of her jealousy, despite her age advanced is respected by everyone (people included)
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Women will always leave you in your deepest time of need. Your lovely mare won't ever do that though!
 
I've been exclusive pretty much since puberty. Kind of known at a young age that I wasn't attracted to humans romantically or sexually. I was always drawn to dogs growing up and with the powers of dial-up internet, I quickly confirmed why.
 
My wife and daughter are zoo-exclusive.

What happened was my wife and I hooked up 20 years back at a party and living in a rural area you can guess what happened. Our parents dragooned us into getting married and we were never very happy together. Sex between us pretty much instantly dried up and I cheated on her pretty openly, she said she didn't care anyway.

After a while my wife found zoo porn on the internet and after some time decided to give it a try. We had a 2 year old English Mastiff named Samson at the time and she got him to lick her first and finally mount her. I noticed a change in her demeanor immediately, though I didn't know why until some time later, she was happy and much more fun to be around. I became much more attracted to her, but we only had sex once after that, my wife didn't orgasm and always turned me down after that. I figured she was having an affair, but I didn't have any right to object after all the cheating I had done so I left her alone. I eventually caught her having sex with Samson, thought it was so hot, and after I calmed her down assured her that I was happy for her to have sex with the dog if that's what made her happy. We moved into separate rooms and she has never looked at a man since.

My daughter is a bit more extreme, once she got much older my wife eventually let slip her activities with several dogs by that point and my daughter became interested in the zoo-lifestyle as well. She has her own dog, a Great Dane she calls Rocky, and he apparently took her virginity. Then after a year she started doing this thing where she would act like a dog, she had one of those butt-plug tails and paw mittens. She would apparently do this all day while her mother and I were at work, my daughter had failed her last year of high school and hadn't gone to college. After a few months of this she told us she wanted to do it full time, live as a dog. She didn't think she had any better prospects in life, I loved her to bits but I think she was right. My daughter isn't smart or attractive and she's very socially awkward and generally unhappy. Since she started this living as a dog lifestyle she, like when her mother became zoo-exclusive, is much happier.

So ya that's how the two women in my life became zoo exclusive and they are both much happier for it.
 
Haven't had any partners yet, but I've never felt anything close to love with a human like I feel when I'm with a stallion.
 
pinkstray said:
Personal well being is really important. Being Zoo can take a terrible toll and must not be underestimated. How one gets to this space can be an erratic / traumatic journey. For you who are struggling, we accept and acknowledge you as "you" You are ok. There is another important side of self acceptance and self respect. Reach out, we are here.
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I really needed to hear this
 
I went for "I'm not" because while I'm operationally zoo-exclusive, I wouldn't turn down a truly NSA/FWB offer of a boink with an attractive (by my own odd standards) human female. I say 'operationally' since I've not been making any effort toward finding a human female for sexual purposes for quite a while, now. It's been... Hmmm... I've lost track. Well, a long time. 20+ years?
 
For me it has never been traumatic. Years ago I have been with several men, some of them great, but there came a time when the appropriate conditions were met and I found myself living alone with a dog, with whom I began to have a healthy sexual relationship. And then a woman appeared, with whom I also had sex, but who did not quite accept my relationship with my dog, which I never gave up, of course. And later came another woman who, oh miracle!, was also interested in dogs. Perfect.
 
I've had human partners in the past, but the relationships never worked out because my sexual responses were muted and not very good. I was lousy in bed, basically. And that situation is more complicated than it seems sometimes. People start to wonder why you don't care about them when you seem to be bored with sex with them. Even if you do care.

Also, I just feel a lot more love towards animals. I can love people, but not the same way. My emotional bonds are stronger with animals. Again, people wonder why you don't care for them.

Sometimes life sucks. :D
 
For the last 8yrs I have been mare,cow,k9,sow exclusive.

Can only see that changing if I can find a zoo woman.
 
Love ALL ZOO Horse dog other! Love anything Pussy. And on my way fond some zoo DICK love to suck OFF !:husky_ohmy::pig_wink:?
 
Started in zoo at 9 female dog next house over ! been with some 7 women over my life ! The last 10 yrs ! HORSE in my life 40 +++mare sex so good, looking for more !
 
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