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How do you guys deal with the loneliness?

KenGinMo said:
Have you shared any of your drawings yet?
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None of my NSFW ones, and I'm afraid of sharing them, should my zoo kink expose me and then I begin to see the disparaging remarks on my regular art account.
 
The best way to not feel alone is to watch a horror movie in the middle of the night by yourself. Instantly cures that alone feeling (stole from Facebook).

But seriously, I just find people who aren't zoos to hang out with. I have the usual family and friends to do things with, but I also found a few husky owners from the internet (not specifying for anonymity reasons) close by and we meet up once a month to go for a walk in the park or a short hike. They're older folk with chubby fluff balls so only short walks or hikes work for them. Good folks though.
 
420Fatty said:
Posting some racist bullshit in a heavily trafficked area of the forum for anyone to to see and regulars to remember, Is not stalking. It does amuse me that you think anyone here cares enough about you to stalk you. Clearly you think more highly of yourself than anyone else does.

Let's be real, The best thing about you is your avatar.
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Their message would have been left in the other thread, it was you who chose to make your bullying comment here and not leave it alone.

If you had of done nothing would have been mentioned here. Maybe you think too highly of yourself to not even see this.
 
Honestly I really don't know how I deal with it, normally it hits me hard when I sit and lay back listening to music. Ive been dealing with it for quite some time, I may be destine to be for ever alone maybe not but I to live my life and make myself as happy as I can cause sometimes loneliness will start to turn into depression and that is where I think a lot of my depression is coming from. Being productive keeps my mind off it
 
Dalone14 said:
Their message would have been left in the other thread, it was you who chose to make your bullying comment here and not leave it alone.

If you had of done nothing would have been mentioned here. Maybe you think too highly of yourself to not even see this.
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Thought, If you want to hide from me, STOP DRAWING MY ATTENTION YOU FUCKING STALKER!
 
420Fatty said:
Thought, If you want to hide from me, STOP DRAWING MY ATTENTION YOU FUCKING STALKER!
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Who is hiding from you? I replied to you directly. You are the one stalking the other person. Would you like me to explain it to? If you need help, I will...
 
Honestly? After you spend year after year after year after year after year being alone, you either get used to it, go crazy, or both.
 
Its really hard to come out to people, only done it twice. The first time was a massive mistake, the 2nd was to a close friend who is super non-judgemental and they genuinely couldn't care less lol.

I would love to have local people into this kind of things but the stigma around it makes it immensely difficult to just be open about it with potential friends/partners. Definitely down for meetups so long as people aren't pushy/creepy about sex, having friends is much more powerful since it can lead to having a larger more accepting group of people around you :)
 
Yeah. In the past the fellow zoos I found I enjoyed meeting most where those who already had animal partners because then the meeting was not about sex but more so just about having someone to hang with you can talk about things you can't just talk to anyone about. Nothing greater than the freedom to be yourself without being judged and talk about how you love your animal partners with someone who understands exactly how you feel. Those who just wanted some sort of sexual gratification turned me off quickly, especially if they made any hints to wanting access to my loves. Not that I would not mind human intimacy but that is something built over time from friendship IF that friendship develops into an FWB thing.
 
ThisIsKnotLove said:
Its really hard to come out to people, only done it twice. The first time was a massive mistake, the 2nd was to a close friend who is super non-judgemental and they genuinely couldn't care less lol.

I would love to have local people into this kind of things but the stigma around it makes it immensely difficult to just be open about it with potential friends/partners. Definitely down for meetups so long as people aren't pushy/creepy about sex, having friends is much more powerful since it can lead to having a larger more accepting group of people around you :)
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But creepers gotta creep! ?
 
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