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How did you come to terms with who you are?

For me it didn't take that long.
Found it out during puberty, and I think I spent around 3 months going against it, and trying to get rid of it. But we all know that doesn't lead anywhere good. So I just accepted it. And it was probably the most liberating thing I've ever done!
In this horrible world you need to accept and love yourself or else you are doomed
 
I've been relatively open to trying to explore my stances on things for the past few years, taking the time to really try and learn a bit about myself. After a little while, I started delving into my sexualities, and how I fantasize 'intimacy', and I found that I tend to view intimacy as a really Raw, genuine thing. Originally I never had considered our furry companions, but coming to terms with the fact I view love and intimacy as what I do, I guess it just sort of snuck up on me? :gsd_laughing:
 
I do not struggle to accept it or didn't ever "come to terms" with it. Why should I? It's just is as it is, and It's beautiful and fantastic! I embrace it everytime I look at a beautiful dog, everytime I gently pet her or lick her pussy.
Feeling a sexual attraction to dogs is the most natural thing for me
 
It was a struggle at first. I became aware of my attractions at a fairly young age, and living in a very rural, Christian conservative area, it was pretty ingrained in me that what I was feeling was "unnatural" and not acceptable, even though it felt completely natural and right to me. Despite a lot of guilt, those feelings only intensified with time to the point where I realized it was genuinely a part of who I am. It wasn't until I actually started talking to and meeting other people like me where I was able to fully accept myself. Plus, going to therapy helped a ton, and I have been really fortunate to work with a therapist who knows my attractions and approached it with empathy and curiosity.
 
I grew up around animals of all kinds.
When these kinds of thoughts and feeling have been persistent for longer than any sexuality,
I eventually had to just stubbornly accept this is something that is a core of me,
and there is no reason to have it make me think less of myself.
The freedom I felt when I finally accepted it was great, it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders.
Now I just want to make up for the lost time :p
 
phi9 said:
Did anyone of you struggle to accept their beastiality side?
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Through this journey, I have learned that accepting one's beastiality side requires understanding and compassion towards oneself as well as others. It's not a matter of either embracing or rejecting one's desires but rather finding healthy ways to integrate them into your life.
 
I always loved animals ( non sexually) growing up and I do think I have so much to learn from them. Acceptance of being zoo has been a journey for me and it was not easy at all. But eventually I accepted that my sexuality around them is an extension of my love towards them. While, there are popular views on the morality , animal instinct etc, in my opinion there is a bond which surpasses the known perceptions.
 
HappyCuddler said:
I grew up around animals of all kinds.
When these kinds of thoughts and feeling have been persistent for longer than any sexuality,
I eventually had to just stubbornly accept this is something that is a core of me,
and there is no reason to have it make me think less of myself.
The freedom I felt when I finally accepted it was great, it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders.
Now I just want to make up for the lost time :p
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I can relate to the 'weight off the shoulders' comment, It has to be experienced to know I beleive just like everything else. I hope you are making up for the lost time
 
It was a mixture of drugs, sex, self reflection and later on plain old life experience.
 
Being an old fart, I never had a problem. I just accept who I am. I like dogs. I am attracted to Females of all species. Right now the species I am attracted to are canine and Human. I am more attracted to my dog. I don't have to worry about I I will piss her off, if I criticize her. I have mostly trained her to be good in public. She acts more like a service dog than as a pet.
 
me personally , no i never struggled with it because its just who i am , its not something i can change . i mean thats like asking black folks how they came to terms with their being black , or gay folks , or hell asking your dog how they came to terms with being a dog , we are who we are meant to be , nothing really to come to terms with .

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