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How did you come to terms with who you are?

Of course I struggled we are taught that those things are nasty. But the pleasure u get is boundless so I don't see it as anything but two beings pleasuring each other. And I have accepted who I am
 
I struggled with this being my most enjoyable sexual... orientation for a while and felt guilty but as some point as an adult you have to accept yourself as you are. For my wife, she has always been much more pragmatic/less romantic and is after the best feeling sex and while exposed to zoo didn't think that highly of it. Only my insistence had her try actually getting mounted and after a few times she realized that this is the most enjoyable sex with the most attractive partner (our dog) and is all in, she didn't require any acceptance of self.
 
familyAffair said:
I struggled with this being my most enjoyable sexual... orientation for a while and felt guilty but as some point as an adult you have to accept yourself as you are. For my wife, she has always been much more pragmatic/less romantic and is after the best feeling sex and while exposed to zoo didn't think that highly of it. Only my insistence had her try actually getting mounted and after a few times she realized that this is the most enjoyable sex with the most attractive partner (our dog) and is all in, she didn't require any acceptance of self.
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So awesome
 
i always tried to be both a lover of humans and animals it never worked out hiding from who i really was
 
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It took many years to fully accept that I am Zoo
have Been active with animals, long before I accepted it.
 
It seems I can remember having this tendency for as long as I can remember. Even went for nearly 30 years without doing anything, but yet it was always there. I don't know that I ever thought of myself as a monster or anything. But jumped in with both feet a few years ago, and haven't looked back.
 
It's still hard for me from time to time but being here knowing I'm nit alone has definitely helped me but sometimes i do wonder why I'm different then other people. But even saying I know I'm lucky that Cooper and I are so close with each other and share something like we do together
 
For 6 years I felt guilty about who I am, but once I shared my first zoo experience with a lovely bitch few years back, I couldn't stop thinking about how she licked me out and made me cum. I overcame my guilt and shame and just accepted that it's part of me and it will never go away. Doesn't mean I don't have human relationships but zoo relationships are much better for me.
 
I didn't really understand what I was feeling when I was younger and for a while felt guilt because I was from a religious family. Even the simple act of masturbation brought a feeling of guilt. After about 3-4 years of the shame and guilt, I noticed the attraction wasn't going anywhere and accepted it as part of me.
 
It felt very natural for me, I knew I was bisexual and I had come to terms with that a few years before, so I was somewhat experienced in learning to explore and accept my sexuality beforehand
 
For me it started way back in 1998 i was young at the time maybe to young so say here, so there was no flood of information i barly understood the concept of gay.
As i said in many post i had help from my older brother , i got into zoo with a simple conversation, ee were talking about me loving sucking and he just told me i love it right? Well our doggo who i love he is also a boy and he could use a blowjob. When he told me it felt like ye i should give him one, it might be my messed up mind but i felt nothing like shame or wieredness it just felt natural , and our boy got his first bj and there was no stopping from there.
My brothers attitude and well leta be honest grooming helped me not having shame and guilt about the things we did. I know a lot of pplnfrown when they hear this but i really dont care ?.
I know a lot of zoos dont have anyone to talk to to get advice from and they feel alone this forum helps ppl realize they are not alone in this , and this is a good thing.
 
I still strug
phi9 said:
Did anyone of you struggle to accept their beastiality side
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I still struggle with it, I know I will love it forever, once u go k9 there is never any going back, it's finding an owner or being able to become an owner again one day myself, but it seems like a distant dream these days, everyone is so scared to chat about things online, I just feellike I'm the only one sometimes even though I know others do, it's hard to find them to chat to about these thoughts or feelings and it's not like I'm going to talk to anyone else, like a therapist, it's a lonely life..
 
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For me it started way back in 1998 i was young at the time maybe to young so say here, so there was no flood of information i barly understood the concept of gay.
As i said in many post i had help from my older brother , i got into zoo with a simple conversation, ee were talking about me loving sucking and he just told me i love it right? Well our doggo who i love he is also a boy and he could use a blowjob. When he told me it felt like ye i should give him one, it might be my messed up mind but i felt nothing like shame or wieredness it just felt natural , and our boy got his first bj and there was no stopping from there.
My brothers attitude and well leta be honest grooming helped me not having shame and guilt about the things we did. I know a lot of pplnfrown when they hear this but i really dont care ?.
I know a lot of zoos dont have anyone to talk to to get advice from and they feel alone this forum helps ppl realize they are not alone in this , and this is a good thing.
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Sad that happened but happy that you accepted yourself. That's hard work. I'm still trying to accept it myself. I'm thankful my best friend is also Zoo, funny how it worked out. She just told me one day, randomly. Helps me so much though I still get a twinge of guilt here and there. Mostly from imagining what my friends will think when I get my pup and he's not fixed. If anyone has tips for that that'd be awesome.
 
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I still strug

I still struggle with it, I know I will love it forever, once u go k9 there is never any going back, it's finding an owner or being able to become an owner again one day myself, but it seems like a distant dream these days, everyone is so scared to chat about things online, I just feellike I'm the only one sometimes even though I know others do, it's hard to find them to chat to about these thoughts or feelings and it's not like I'm going to talk to anyone else, like a therapist, it's a lonely life..
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I'm so sorry you are struggling with your feelings & how it seems there is nobody to chat to about who you are & what you are going through, there Are plenty of others going through the same feelings. If you need someone to chat to, you know where i am as are others, who will be willing to listen & possibly help you through this.
 
Yes. I miss when I was young and didn't know it was "taboo", when I could just enjoy the pleasure for what it is, pleasure. I truly didnt know i had to hid it, I only hid it back then because my household was very against nudity.

Very recently I told my FWB about the things I enjoy. He's been very accepting and reassuring and that's done wonders for my self acceptance.
 
I grew up in a conservative environment, there was only one way things should be, everything apart from this was weird or bad.
So yes, struggled a lot but with age, you are able to lokk behind facades.
 
I’m more afraid of losing friends if they knew about my interest in zoo yk? It’s not exactly an accepted way of life but other than that I am ok with who I am otherwise generally speaking like I know it’s apart of me that may never change and being gay my whole life I think kinda makes it easier for myself to accept this part of me that others don’t see bc I’m kinda used to it atp

I still have feelings for people and wouldn’t let a zoo companion stop me from seeking out a relationship with someone but I’m aware if I end up in a relationship this interest in zoo has to take a backseat so to speak unless the person I’m with somehow is into it too that would be unreal
 
I knew in highschool i was different. I didnt really act on it til then. I grew up in a strict catholic house hold and my step father would not have anything of that sort. He tried to raise me as a very prim and proper 70-80s women but it was the 2000s so that didnt really take. I was not even allowed to date til i was in highschool.

I dont think im fully understanding as i much prefer to hear the stories and watch then act on it. but it is very sexy in that primal sense. Im just a kinky girl that has her kinks i guess.
 
yes,as I became more aware of the fact that I was attracted to what society categorizes as something bad and perverted, at first I fought against myself, hoping that I would succeed.I spent a lot of energy on it and every time I thought I had succeeded, I actually went back to the beginning and what helped me was that I read a lot and I became more aware that I needed to accept myself for who I am and what I love and after that everything became much easier for me.
 
I always was a very different kid, never really fit in, very few friends and often bullied in school…I guess that taught me from early age on to just do my own thing and just ignore the talk and actions of the others and the main stream folks.
Combined with growing up in a very rural area with more livestock and pets in our tiny village than humans, the connections to animals came natural. I started horseback riding very early and beefed up my pocket money mucking the cow barn at the neighbours small dairy.
As a teenager then you heard the stories of guys ‘doing it’ with animals and who got caught doing what.
Sex with animals wasn’t accepted as a norm by any means, but it wasn’t blown up either. Bestiality was legal when I lived in Germany as a teen and if somebody got caught, it was just joked about, nobody got shunned, so really there were little consequences being zoo.
As I matured sexually and still wasn’t the popular kid in class, I needed an outlet for my sexual needs and being around horses and cows all day made access to animals very easy.
So for me it was a natural development and I had intercourse with cows and mares long before I ever intimately touched another human (and that was another boy, not a girl, so I definitely knew I was wired differently!)
My family (other than grandma) never was overly religious and we always talked open about everything, so I really never had to hold back a whole lot.
With 19 I met a girl and we actually hit it off well, so ended up getting married to her (still married to her for over 35 years) and yes, she know, accepts, tolerates and even supports my zoo and gay adventures…so do my 2 adult daughters.
I always accepted me and my sexuality as it was and got accepted by the people I cared about…it’s a small, but great circle of humans….all others I couldn’t care less!
So, I really never had to come to terms with my sexual orientation or my other quirks (there are many!)
Today I have made my life, build my ranching business and am generally liked within our community (at least I think so)
I am definitely widely known for some of my very obvious non-sexual eccentricities and have never joined any main stream movement.
I am still the very different, eccentric (weird) person I was as a kid, but fully embrace my lifestyle and my sexuality, found my happiness and my place in this world!
 
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