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Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

Like a friend said, you can only out you once and then you have to deal with it, you cant control it. In bad cases it can be like a smoldering fire..it can go on unnoticed for a long time and when it gets oxygen it suddenly burst into flames. The few people in close proximity that know it are also zoo with one exception: I told my best buddy who is a non-zoo about it. But I did it after 32 years of knowing him. We have been to so much shit so i was 100% sure he wont burn me. He took it well.
 
15 years ago when I met my ex wife I eventually told her just a hint of my fantasy.
We had been talking a lot and shared taboo desires with each other. What we fantasized about, what we might be willing to try, etc. I worked up the courage to tell her I might like to see a dog lick a woman. To my surprise she said she could do that. Not into it per se, but open to trying.

Fast forward after marriage - like a light switch flipped. It turned out that she had a personality disorder in which she would basically make herself out to be the perfect partner. In reality, she was totally different and very vanilla.
She used all off the fantasies I had told her as a way to shame me and manipulate me. Eventually she stopped harassing me about the zoo stuff, but it was a rough lesson.
 
I have told oh somewhere im the neighborhood of 8 people. One family member. The rest friends and my human girlfriend. Most reacted well, my family member seemed to just kind of not want to hear about it. My girlfriend is very interested and would like to try it one day. My friends all reacted quite well with varying levels of acceptance. But all in all not bad.
 
My immediate family knows because they have all caught me watching the videos or doing something, this was my teenage years. I think they all thought I would grow out of it. Every girlfriend i have had and my ex-wife, I have told. Several like to like to watch the videos and roleplay. Some let me do it on my own. My kids know because of a bad breakup and she tried to ruin me. Told everyone and showed pics etc.
 
truezoolove said:
My immediate family knows because they have all caught me watching the videos or doing something, this was my teenage years. I think they all thought I would grow out of it. Every girlfriend i have had and my ex-wife, I have told. Several like to like to watch the videos and roleplay. Some let me do it on my own. My kids know because of a bad breakup and she tried to ruin me. Told everyone and showed pics etc.
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Wow that sucks. This is why I don't trust humans ?.

Luckily for me it turned out well when I told my dad figure
 
truezoolove said:
My immediate family knows because they have all caught me watching the videos or doing something, this was my teenage years. I think they all thought I would grow out of it. Every girlfriend i have had and my ex-wife, I have told. Several like to like to watch the videos and roleplay. Some let me do it on my own. My kids know because of a bad breakup and she tried to ruin me. Told everyone and showed pics etc.
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This right here is why people are scared to be open in relationships. Sorry that happened to you man.
 
d7art said:
I just came back from visiting my dad, I went through the house looking for him and calling for him no answer so I went into his bedroom, he has a computer in there and there was zoo porn on it. My dad lives alone he wasn't home, I was thinking do I tell him I'm a zoo. I was deep in thought and didn't hear him come into the bedroom where I was sitting in front of his computer looking at all his beast porn. He was upset that I found out he liked beast porn. I broke down and told him I was a zoo, we talked he told me when he was a little boy he used to play with the dog and had never lost the that feeling tho he never again did anything about his feeling. I was happy I finally got to tell someone I'm a zoo, but I wish my day would have had the chance to follow is heart. Like I did. I wish I could help him but I'm his daughter so there is nothing I can do. So I'm happy and sad. He is my dad I can't tell him everything about me. lol
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I think you can verbally encurage him , tell him just try it out. It up to each person to make that first step. You are his daughter , u are the perfect person to tell him , he can be sure u wont betray his secret and u want only what is best for him , in todays world these 2 things are rare and special.
 
kinkygirl77 said:
(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
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I poked around with my wife just kinda seeing what she thought and she did the same to me just kinda playing off of each other. Eventually told her and she wasn't the least bit judgmental. She thinks it's hot and understands it since she had similar thoughts as a kid just like me. I think it brought us closer together but honestly you have to know them and how they'd react she's the only person I'd tell cause I trust her and love her.
 
dogsexromania said:
I think you can verbally encurage him , tell him just try it out. It up to each person to make that first step. You are his daughter , u are the perfect person to tell him , he can be sure u wont betray his secret and u want only what is best for him , in todays world these 2 things are rare and special.
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I wouldn't say encourage per say. Instead teach him the dynamics of zoo life/consent first
 
Reconscope said:
I wouldn't say encourage per say. Instead teach him the dynamics of zoo life/consent first
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You know it would be much easier for me to talk to you or anyone else about this than my dad. I really don't want to tell him about all the stuff I have done. I don't think I could answer all his questions. It's the details that I would have problems with, I'm afraid of the questions that might come up.
I thought about telling him to come visit ZooVille, I'm just not sure what would be appropriate for a daughter to talk to her father about.
 
d7art said:
You know it would be much easier for me to talk to you or anyone else about this than my dad. I really don't want to tell him about all the stuff I have done. I don't think I could answer all his questions. It's the details that I would have problems with, I'm afraid of the questions that might come up.
I thought about telling him to come visit ZooVille, I'm just not sure what would be appropriate for a daughter to talk to her father about.
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As a father, I can tell you having a conversation like this with my kid would probably be the worst experience. Much love and respect for you two, but I agree with you. That is definitely not the kind of conversation that would be best brought up by you.
 
d7art said:
You know it would be much easier for me to talk to you or anyone else about this than my dad. I really don't want to tell him about all the stuff I have done. I don't think I could answer all his questions. It's the details that I would have problems with, I'm afraid of the questions that might come up.
I thought about telling him to come visit ZooVille, I'm just not sure what would be appropriate for a daughter to talk to her father about.
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I am not a parrent so cant speak from experience i just know if 2 ppl who know about the other u can trust that person they can talk about almost anything , i dont think he needs every detail what u did , but he needs to know its ok to think about it , its ok to want it its ok to try it out , he needs to hear this from soneone who has been there done that , it might be unconfortable for you , but as i said he isnt interested in the small and juicy details , he will experience those himself , but he needs to hear how it impacted your life , if it made you happy , about the emotional bond you have with your pet etc , most important i think he needs to hear that it is ok to want this , and if that person is someone who does it as well it will have more weight , and its not a faceless avater in a chat room , its a person he knows in front of him. Ofc i dont want to force you to do anything , you know him and and you better then any of us.
When i started out i was young , but i was lucky i had my older brother who lead me into this, most of us going into this would be gratefull to any kind of encuragement and moral help we can get. But as i said all of us here we just give our opinnions , u know the situatrion best ,
 
dogsexromania said:
I think you can verbally encurage him , tell him just try it out. It up to each person to make that first step. You are his daughter , u are the perfect person to tell him , he can be sure u wont betray his secret and u want only what is best for him , in todays world these 2 things are rare and special.
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I don't think I should encourage him even though I would like him to purse it, if it is what he wants. I'm his daughter that's why I would have the problem.
 
Luke Ozvik said:
I had a very close female work friend many years ago who was always pretty sharp and intuitive. We'd have flirty lunches together (we were both in other relationships), in which we'd both dance around our sexual histories, hang-ups, wants, etc. I never mentioned it directly to her - but once said something like "there are things I think about that i would never tell anyone" - and later that day she called me and asked very straightforwardly if it was anything to do with animals... Which broke the ice - yes, it's about animals, but it's not about me with them, it's about women I know with them... She asked if I'd thought about her with animals, to which my response was "I have now", which made her laugh... I should note, she was not into animals, but she was into fantasy (hers was that she got turned on thinking about women she worked with being raped - she felt guilty about it, but tried to remember that we can't control what we think about). When we became more 'intimate' (we were together for a little under a year) - we were able to enjoy a few shared fantasies about women she worked with being 'raped' by dogs... And even though rape is not my thing, and dogs weren't hers, it worked...

I've also 'confessed' my interest to my wife. Told her that the idea of a woman willingly, happily, giving herself to an animal is an incredible turn-on to me. She knows I've thought about her with dogs - again, like the ex, she has no interest in ever doing it herself, but she seems tolerant of my fantasies just as long as I don't go on and on about them. Any conversations on the subject are almost entirely one-way, but it's nice to be able to say something every now and then. I don't feel quite so alone.
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I'm very glad you found someone you are able to be open with about it. Congrats :)
 
Luke Ozvik said:
I had a very close female work friend many years ago who was always pretty sharp and intuitive. We'd have flirty lunches together (we were both in other relationships), in which we'd both dance around our sexual histories, hang-ups, wants, etc. I never mentioned it directly to her - but once said something like "there are things I think about that i would never tell anyone" - and later that day she called me and asked very straightforwardly if it was anything to do with animals... Which broke the ice - yes, it's about animals, but it's not about me with them, it's about women I know with them... She asked if I'd thought about her with animals, to which my response was "I have now", which made her laugh... I should note, she was not into animals, but she was into fantasy (hers was that she got turned on thinking about women she worked with being raped - she felt guilty about it, but tried to remember that we can't control what we think about). When we became more 'intimate' (we were together for a little under a year) - we were able to enjoy a few shared fantasies about women she worked with being 'raped' by dogs... And even though rape is not my thing, and dogs weren't hers, it worked...

I've also 'confessed' my interest to my wife. Told her that the idea of a woman willingly, happily, giving herself to an animal is an incredible turn-on to me. She knows I've thought about her with dogs - again, like the ex, she has no interest in ever doing it herself, but she seems tolerant of my fantasies just as long as I don't go on and on about them. Any conversations on the subject are almost entirely one-way, but it's nice to be able to say something every now and then. I don't feel quite so alone.
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Hi! You’re not alone. I have a bit similar experiences with my wife. She’s a darling but she isn’t into delicious zoophilia??‍? Not yet
 
d7art said:
You know it would be much easier for me to talk to you or anyone else about this than my dad. I really don't want to tell him about all the stuff I have done. I don't think I could answer all his questions. It's the details that I would have problems with, I'm afraid of the questions that might come up.
I thought about telling him to come visit ZooVille, I'm just not sure what would be appropriate for a daughter to talk to her father about.
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Everybody is different which is why I understand. I suppose the most neutral thing is 'I found a similar website if you have any questions about the orientation"
 
Luke Ozvik said:
Sadly, it's never enough... It's amazing to be able to say out loud that you're thinking about taking your wife away for the weekend to be fucked by a Labrador... Knowing that it's never going to happen... But what I really want is for her to join in the fantasy - not to actually want to go away for the weekend to be fucked by the Labrador, but to share the fantasy of it - to talk about it for my pleasure... Selfish, I know... But aren't we all, on some level.

In reality, I know that if she talked about it, I'd be happy for a while - but then I'd start complaining that she talked about it, but wouldn't do it... And all that stuff about not actually wanting to see her do it would go out of the window...
:rolleyes:
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We want the things we can't have and can't have the things we want. c'est la vie
 
I recently met someone in my life who was dropping hints about being a zoo. I asked them in a very direct but understanding manner and they opened up to me about it. It was extremely refreshing to be able to share experiences and fantasies with someone I care about deeply. They also have a pretty close inner-circle of like minded individuals so it’s extremely exciting being able to meet others in person with similar views. I however am still very, very reserved about this part of my life though.
 
I’ve only told guys online but maybe two or three in years as we both hinted at it when talking about taboo fantasies etc. I’ll never telll anyone I actually know unless I see them partaking in zoo lol
 
No. I had 2 friends who watched it with me years ago, but it was just guys watching gross online videos. They never got into it like I did
 
sh2564 said:
15 years ago when I met my ex wife I eventually told her just a hint of my fantasy.
We had been talking a lot and shared taboo desires with each other. What we fantasized about, what we might be willing to try, etc. I worked up the courage to tell her I might like to see a dog lick a woman. To my surprise she said she could do that. Not into it per se, but open to trying.

Fast forward after marriage - like a light switch flipped. It turned out that she had a personality disorder in which she would basically make herself out to be the perfect partner. In reality, she was totally different and very vanilla.
She used all off the fantasies I had told her as a way to shame me and manipulate me. Eventually she stopped harassing me about the zoo stuff, but it was a rough lesson.
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That's a nightmare scenario... thinking you found someone perfect then turning out to have used your secrets against you
 
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