Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

[Akkala]

Yes my best friend and significant other.

 

[saddlebum66]

I've shared it with 6 other people on in the kink community. No one in my personal life knows. Even in the kink community it's very taboo in the AA community.

This little hobby is pretty much unacceptable anywhere but here. The Kink crowds elsewhere are so worried about their own proclivities being shut down or sat on, they want nothing to do with us.

 

[KweenBytch]

This little hobby is pretty much unacceptable anywhere but here. The Kink crowds elsewhere are so worried about their own proclivities being shut down or sat on, they want nothing to do with us.

Very true...

 

[saddlebum66]

Very true...

Tis so....its also a tad sad.

 

[KweenBytch]

Tis so....its also a tad sad.

Def due to kink shaming and self guilt from people around their own kinks...

 

[saddlebum66]

True....But also because theyre protecting their investments...the bdsm crowd is ALMOST respectable....we scare them. They dont want to get tarred with the same brush and castigated legally for what they perceive as our faults.

 

[saddlebum66]

Btw, miss....you have your ten posts now
< grinnn>

 

[KweenBytch]

Btw, miss....you have your ten posts now
< grinnn>

Yayy, I'm finally in the double digits...

 

[saddlebum66]

Yayy, I'm finally in the double digits...

My pleasure....Sign out wait a couple, sign back in and you're on your way....?

 

[saddlebum66]

Btw, miss....you have your ten posts now
< grinnn>

looks like you got it in hand now.?

 

[KweenBytch]

looks like you got it in hand now.?

Still learning but thanks for your help

 

[saddlebum66]

YVW, Miz Sugah....any time.?

 

[Unsub7]

I have told a few people, most were like... Okay, not my thing, but I won't hate you

 

[KweenBytch]

I have told a few people, most were like... Okay, not my thing, but I won't hate you

You've got some good open minded friends

 

[whiskeycolas]

You've got some good open minded friends

The same on my side ? we’re both relatively lucky I think

 

[FoxandtheHounds]

The same on my side ? we’re both relatively lucky I think

Have to say it, love your username!

 

[CAdreamin65]

One person knows and is willing to participate. I didn't tell her for a long time because I want sure how she react. I hinted with another closer friend who didn't seem interested but didn't freak out.

 

[Erja]

This is actually my first time coming out publicly about it, so I guess I'm telling you all.

Good thing you found this place

 

[TikiSM]

I probably have friends who wouldn’t judge but in my opinion it’s too much of a risk for too little to gain

 

[Erja]

I probably have friends who wouldn’t judge but in my opinion it’s too much of a risk for too little to gain

You re right. Why take the chance. I dont talk about my sexlife with friends either.

 

[Zooflyer]

Nope. Doubt I ever will. I don't want to lose any of the few people I would call friend. Some might be accepting, but it doesn't seem worth it. That's one of the reasons I came here. To be hopefully meet people that I know are into zoo, like I am.

 

[BaileyAffair]

The few people who know are the ones who got me into it and that's already enough people to share it with.

 

[Mare_curious66]

Never. I almost did once. I was about to tell my gf at the time that I had sex with a animal. Only because I thought having her join would be awesome. But when I said "I fucked a" her eyes got huge. I wish I could share with someone but it's too dangerous.

 

[KadeBoltz]

The few people who know are the ones who got me into it and that's already enough people to share it with.

Do you mind me asking how they got you into it?

Did you accidentally find out and confront them? ...or was it more playfully hinted at until you showed interest?

 

[Dobermany]

Yup old contacts from years ago made on Bf.
But id never drop it of the sleeve to somone how i never meet through a community of simialiar minds like this one.
Im bat S##t mad but even ive got my limatations ?

 

[biele]

None apart form the incognito online places. Wish I can meet someone I can open up IRL but not sure how is that possible

 

[Sabbathdeviant]

I have told two women in person and it wasn't the right thing to do either time, but it wasn't a disaster. Neither were someone I thought would have a strong adverse reaction but I hoped they may have similar kinks.

 

[GGsecretgirl]

I’ve definitely kept it very private from people I know IRL. A total of three guys I have told. One surprised me a lot when I confessed to it. He admitted he was curious. We spoke a lot about it before trying it in person. He actually bought a dog to become closer to me, sexually. We had some fun but then things got weird. We’re still friends but yeah, a lot changed. Some great memories though
If you want to tell people in IRL maybe choose carefully who you tell, tell those you can trust and feel comfortable with.

 

[Silence]

Some time ago, I've found a girl on one of erotic dating sites. From her profile, it was quite clear for me that she is into zoo - into horses to be precise. She has some experience with donkey, too. Now we know each others real names and we are friends on Facebook. We've never met IRL yet, because we live in different cities but we spoke many times about going together to some fetish parties if there were an opportunity. So I hope we'll eventually meet, sooner or later.

 

[gaspard]

Some time ago, I've found a girl on one of erotic dating sites. From her profile, it was quite clear for me that she is into zoo - into horses to be precise. She has some experience with donkey, too. Now we know each others real names and we are friends on Facebook. We've never met IRL yet, because we live in different cities but we spoke many times about going together to some fetish parties if there were an opportunity. So I hope we'll eventually meet, sooner or later.

That sounds great, wish you good luck!