SlipperyWhenWet92
Tourist
I’ve met a couple of people. We built up a rapport beforehand and met in a public place for brunch/lunch. It was probably safer since none of us were owners, though.
FollowingHave anyone here ever met someone on this site? Is it even safe? If so, how did it go?
Well said!! Take like 6 years or so in between meets for me.Good things can take a loooong time. I'm a total newbie here, only signed up a couple of weeks ago. The people here seem pretty chill, and I hope to make some good friends here. Kinda wish I signed on years ago though...
In the same boat, kicking myself for how long I waited to reach outKinda wish I signed on years ago though...
After 6 days? Yes, because that's how much time it takes to get to know someone enough to trust them into an illegal "lifestyle". This is something that takes YEARS to build that level of trust.I'm beginning to lose hope??
And how do you propose that antis don't learn that code?Any low-key symbols or code words or anything to help zoos find other zoos (without giving away to the non-zoos what we're into?)
With more secret secret handshakes? (I kid)And how do you propose that antis don't learn that code?
They will learn it. There is no way to keep it a secret and would have change it every few months. Not feasible.And how do you propose that antis don't learn that code?
Very ? goodI sometimes go (with a friend) to one of the larger kink events in my region. It's a 4-day hotel takeover kind of event.
What I do is put a temporary tattoo of a dog paw somewhere on my body where its visible, usually on my upper hip or just below a collar bone, depending on the outfit I've chosen.
Most people I've interacted with at the event pay it no mind whatsoever. Some assumed it meant petplay. Once in a bluemoon someone asks if it means what they think it means? I of course throw the volley back and ask them what they think it means.
If they have to balls to say it, we might have a conversation about it. Often, they chicken out and don't say what they were thinking.
Which is fine. I admit nothing, directly.