I think the biggest thing I can recommend to the guys as a guy is to be patient. Most women don't think like men so just because they are on the site doesn't mean they will be wide open to rushing things with you just because they responded to your message. That's also not an open invitation to send them your dick picks
. If you are patient and communicate with them to show you are interested in them and not just your sexual needs you'll find that most women you talk to will continue to enjoy conversations with you at their comfort. Fake user accounts won't waste their time with someone taking things slow also.
With that said for women I advise the same. Don't rush to give out your information or photos. Get to know the guys on here before you trust them. Trust should be earned not given freely. You'll find that guys that aren't pushing you for photos or video just trying to satisfy themselves actually care to build a relationship with you that benefits you both. Most of you already know this so this is just for those that need to hear it.