I'm a millenial so I suppose phone sex doesn't appeal to me, but I personally don't think phone sex over sexting is worth the risks involved of having to exchange personal, traceable information, which a phone number is, it is not safe whatsoever. Yeah there is a meet up section and if you are to meet someone from it, then I still question why personal information such as phone numbers, telegram etc need to be exchanged, just name a time, a place and go. I don't think photos are even necessary either, because frankly until you meet someone, you won't know if they're legit or not. I'd just give a brief description of myself that can be applied to anyone and wear say a red jumper thats also not exact proof I'm that person if a bad person comes to meet me, but its also an indicator enough that I'm the person they're coming to meet, simple. Lol I'm female, I've got multiple ads in the meet up section, I'm primarily here for meet ups, I'm not going to lie about my gender. But saying you don't like the chat feature and tap tap tap is boring... I wouldn't buy those as legit reasons to move away from the website personally if someone asked me to, I advise for your safety and others to stay on this site.