Many owners which communicate at the forum actively don't want to "share" their animals. As they love them and respect them as a partner, not a sex toy, which is quite self-explanatory.
A few do or proclaim to be willing to, for thus there are the "Personal" areas. Mixed in those few is a big amount of catfishers, scammers and so on. ?
Your choice if you try to have that sort of "luck" which at the end can still resemble your worst experience ever - or if you just try to communicate with people and maybe later on (if a level of trust is established) you might meet with someone.
But "sharing experiences" is not comparable to "sharing animals". Experiences are written, talked or medially published about. The amount which really wants to meet others in real life is small. Many might ghost you even after establishing a longer-term connection due to personal fear or anxiety, who knows.