does the urge of being a Zoophile go away when you grow older?

Different folks fall under the "zoo" header for various reasons, I'm only going to talk about what I am familiar with and let others explain their perspectives.

I have always had an affinity for non-humans and when I reached puberty it seemed perfectly normal to me to explore that. I happened to live on a farm at the time, so I explored with the animals I knew and was familiar with. At the time, never having had a relationship with a human I just assumed that when I found a girlfriend I'd forget about it, but that was not the case for me. I had a number of variously unsuccessful relationships where I would try to forget my feelings about non-humans, but I was never able to be satisfied nor happy in such relationships.
After about a decade of trying and failing to make human relationships work, but inevitably always going back to or thinking about non-humans I spent some time soul searching and I started to accept that it wasn't a fault of anyone else, nor was it my fault, just an incompatibility and I stopped trying to shoehorn myself into relationships where I would never be happy (and ultimately, make my partner unhappy).

It's been many decades that I've sought relationships with non-humans. In that time I have outlived a few partners and deal with the sorrow and loss, but I always end up with another dog because sex or not, life is better with a dog than without.

I believe the current science suggests that for many zoos this seems to be something baked into us before puberty, I feel that is the case with me. If I could change it I certainly would because while I love my doggy partners deeply, it sure would be nice to grow old with a loved one instead of loving and losing them over and over. It's a blessing and a curse, to love another so much. Its certainly never relented.
 
I have been attracted to dogs for over 22 years now. Maybe longer. I've been sexually active with them for 15. There was a span of about 5 years were I was just going absolutely crazy, racked with guilt, doubt, anxiety, and anger at myself for fucking dogs. I hated and constantly fought in my mind for not being able to stop and wanting to have sex with nearly every intact male I could be alone with. This was mostly me exploring my sexuality in my early 20s, but also largely rebelling against how I was raised. It took a while to get past that conditioning. By the time I was 30 it was no longer this intense need to prove a point or something, but that I had let go of that internal conflict and accepted that I love dogs. That I preferred and desired them as companions and lovers to people. That took nearly a decade of experience and maturity to fully come to terms with that. I'm happily married to a beautiful kindred soul, we have 3 dogs, but I dont know if I didnt have her if i would be near that same nympho level I was previously or melo like I am now.
 
Yea, your pretty much stuck with that for life. A person can learn to control their urges better as they age, but that’s totally up to the willpower of that individual.
 
AtomicCookie said:
I have been attracted to dogs for over 22 years now. Maybe longer. I've been sexually active with them for 15. There was a span of about 5 years were I was just going absolutely crazy, racked with guilt, doubt, anxiety, and anger at myself for fucking dogs. I hated and constantly fought in my mind for not being able to stop and wanting to have sex with nearly every intact male I could be alone with. This was mostly me exploring my sexuality in my early 20s, but also largely rebelling against how I was raised. It took a while to get past that conditioning. By the time I was 30 it was no longer this intense need to prove a point or something, but that I had let go of that internal conflict and accepted that I love dogs. That I preferred and desired them as companions and lovers to people. That took nearly a decade of experience and maturity to fully come to terms with that. I'm happily married to a beautiful kindred soul, we have 3 dogs, but I dont know if I didnt have her if i would be near that same nympho level I was previously or melo like I am now.
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Nice post! Glad you are no longer fighting your feelings :)
 
egoldstein said:
I believe the current science suggests that for many zoos this seems to be something baked into us before puberty, I feel that is the case with me.
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This explains a lot...the day after I discovered how to man handle the ham candle, I remember desiring my female Chihuahua. (Spoiler alert: it didn't work)
 
Nope. I've been fixated on non-humans for longer than I've had a sex drive or even knew what a zoo was. I'm in my 20s now and I don't think you can just "get over it" with that kind of hard wiring. Then again, I'm still a young'un :p
 
i doubt it. seems like it becomes more depressing when youre not treated well for being attracted to animals. people cause this trying to make change look like a better option than being threatened and depressed. knowing they are wasting our time. they treat us like we are stupid if we dont hide it, and waste our time like this is supposed to be a game to them.

the only thing that goes away is having respect for people who dont respect themselves enough to have real interests and waste their time and my time trying to make me feel like im doing something wrong for the way my life is going.

if they play this like a game they are a gamer. games dont satisfy me. tired of slimeball peoples bullshit. i dont want to have to hate people because that gives the wrong impression about my interests. the people think my sexuality is supposed to creeps around in the shadows watching porn and telling sex stories instead fuck no.
when we get older we realize how much more people have wrong with them.
i want to like people but people want me to hate them because they dont want a responsibility at all. they just want to look like the hot shit with the money.
good news when i get older im still a real boy not ass hats with long wooden noses.
 
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AtomicCookie said:
I have been attracted to dogs for over 22 years now. Maybe longer. I've been sexually active with them for 15. There was a span of about 5 years were I was just going absolutely crazy, racked with guilt, doubt, anxiety, and anger at myself for fucking dogs. I hated and constantly fought in my mind for not being able to stop and wanting to have sex with nearly every intact male I could be alone with. This was mostly me exploring my sexuality in my early 20s, but also largely rebelling against how I was raised. It took a while to get past that conditioning. By the time I was 30 it was no longer this intense need to prove a point or something, but that I had let go of that internal conflict and accepted that I love dogs. That I preferred and desired them as companions and lovers to people. That took nearly a decade of experience and maturity to fully come to terms with that. I'm happily married to a beautiful kindred soul, we have 3 dogs, but I dont know if I didnt have her if i would be near that same nympho level I was previously or melo like I am now.
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So happy to hear your story. Glad it has turned out so good for you.
 
Probably. It’d be pretty difficult to keep it a secret once you’ve settled down and started a family.
 
Personally no, when I was younger I don't think I ever associated it with Zoophilia, it wasn't till my mid to late teens that I stumbled upon sites and the like. As I am now I say that I mellowed out a bit but still have the attraction but am also aware and more careful than in my youth
 
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