lemonhead8D
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I have fought it for years and hid it and now I'm planning to pursue my desires but have to wait because I'm in school to get a new lover. I guess I just ignore it
Hey sorry I'm a dude lol, I just ain't sharing my real name or face so I'm kinda of in anonymityWe Cali, sister, you now have many like minded people to talk to. Always happy to share experiences with another zoo sister, just DM me.
How did you deal with the loneliness? ?
True that, I'm one of the few singles left in my social circle at 34. If one of the local ladies from this site would fall in love with me that would be great, k thanks haha!I feel that. I'm the only one out of my friends group that isn't married and/or has kids.
We always end up talking about family, kids ect and I can't say much cause I don't have that. Is what it is I guess. That and I'm constantly asked by friends and family when I'm gonna get married and have kids and the answer is always the same. "I don't know"
Yeah I feel that so much... Like I get that they are trying to show support by saying that but it feels absolutely like judgement and the opposite of support and here I am being open and trusting and the exact same person I've always been with you, you just know more about me because I decided to give you more trust and build a stronger relationship and the response just destroys it., the other just said "Well as long as you aren't hurting anyone" and it never came up again.
at first my friends jack and johnny. then slowly i started to accept me as me, and everyday i told myself, one day you'll find the one who will understand and you can talk to about how you feel. and i still search for the golden lotus.sooo this is a thought thats like gone thru my head alot. theres no one I could like talk to about what i feel and if I tried I would probably get in trouble haha. How did you deal with the loneliness? ?
I agree wholeheartedlyi don't think i feel lonely so much as longing. i so want to experience male k9 and have yet to. so my sense isn't of loneliness but longing desire. if that makes any sense
I surround myself with music and movies to keep my mind off of it.I work and stay busy mostly
I have a dog so I’m not truly lonely. However having someone else around with the same ideals is a plus.I surround myself with music and movies to keep my mind off of it.
That is a very caring, and mature, decision, lots of respect for making the choice that will possibly, or probably, spare someone from having their heart broken. Keep your chin up, the knowledge that you made the compassionate choice, in a tough situation should make you feel good. Not everyone can make the right choice in the moments that really matter, and you may have stopped 2 hearts from being broken. The world could use more people like you, I wish you all the best, and hope you can find that special someone, have a great week hon!Yer,
True Zoo and wouldn't form a Relationship with a non Zoo as I don't think it would be fair on her ?..
Makes it extremely difficult to even consider dating in the normal stream so yer lonely.
Even chatting with freinds is hard as you can't share half your real lifestyle.