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This whole "No Save November" thing is bugging me. I don't mind letting the beard grow out, but my mustache has a habit of curling into my mouth when it gets too long. Only one more week until December... you can do this Floofy!
You should save often, Newfie. ? What if your computer crashes?No Save November
Logically, it should not feel humiliating at all, since nobody know about it, and if they took part of that information they would still not know who it is about.
But emotional responses are seldom based on logic, and I can't stop feeling humiliated, ashamed and disgusted about it, even when I know that it is only me, and the one who shared that information in the first place (without further explaining who it is about (to the best of my knowledge)) that knows who it is about.
I intend on letting my beard grow further, I'm curious if I can beat last year's record of 2.5 inches in length. But the mustache, yeah that's getting trimmed back December 1st. It's a bit uneven now anyways.@FloofyNewfie
Are you going for a clean s(h)ave in December, or will you just trim it a bit and remain a guy with facial hair?
Thank you for your words.1Hmm. Then I visualize the problem more in the hands of that one who knows, as him / her could relate it to your person.
Different possibilities:
1) You did something or are resembling any activity or interest which manifestated. Let's say you did something to simplify this. You did it without intake of consciousness-related drug influence, out of your free individual will. You were not emotionally in uproar or confused:
Then there's no need to feel ashamed. It was a decision and life's full of "bad" decisions, but they are necessary for growth over time, for experiences. Take it as one experience which maybe wasn't good, nor recommended, but took place. Or some proprieties (not property, that was a mistake) which your experiences and knowledge are based upon. After all, each experience is a part of your character, of you.
Or maybe you even wanted this result and are just humiliated about the public knowledge. That's well possible, but then it's not helping to blame you for the situation, it would have to encircle telling the person about it, which couldn't keep it a secret. After all you did everything in your own possibilities to keep it a private decision, aside from telling this other person. As such the best bet would be to not tell anything related to such decisions to another person.
2) Same, but in a state of emotional uproar, as such confused in your own decisions, more prone for faulty decisions:
Then I would say, don't blame yourself for being not all the time in a state of emotional balance. That's normal as well. And if it leads to bad decisions or situations, that's something which everyone around you would've experienced in their life, as well. Quite often. They shouldn't take this as something to blame others for, as long as they are not faultless themself (which they are never).
No living being is faultless, don't let a decision in a situation which you didn't wish / wanted for ruin your mood nowadays. It's the past.
3) Same, but under influence of toxic influences, like alcohol or drugs:
Then you wouldn't be able to decide into a less humiliating decision, if it reaches levels which overtake your logical analytic thinking. It's not called "intoxication" for a cool name.
As well something which everyone around you can connect with bad decisions and situations. Everybody. The only thing you could actually "blame you for" would be the missing self control regarding the amount you consumed. It's still a quite small and self-reinforcing erroneous decision to miscalculate on the amount of consummation, it's something the people around you might do everyday (and that's really unhealthy..).
If you think about this the next time where such a situation occurs, then you might decide against it - as such the experience brought knowledge for healthy decisions in the future.
It's almost as if I were ChatGPT, but I am actually a living being. ? As such this took over ten minutes to write.
How have y’all been today?
Usually in the spring and summer I'll trim it all to half an inch, but as soon as August hits I'll let my beard grow until the spring when I shave it again. That said, my mustache needs a touch up 1 or 2 times a week otherwise it grows into my mouth. Nothing like the taste of facial hair... Yummy! Lol
Thank you for your words.
Actions was by my own choice, and those I feel no shame about. Documentation of those actions was not by my own choice, nor of my knowledge.
I feel ashamed that those actions were documented and, as I found out earlier today, have been accessible by whomever looks where those exist.
Logically, it should not cause any trouble as long as me and the documentation provider leave things as they have been, as some years have passed since those actions took place.
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ive been doing fine today, i just recently got my tree up, and am having some seasonally-flavored coffee right now. looking at some funny things on the Internet, and listening to some music while exercising
edit: there was a random newfoundland flag accidentally attached to my post LOL
None of those I have found would be able to be used as such.Ah, I see - hmm, as long as they are not easily recognizable and as such backtrace-able to your own status quo existence in the present, don't feel that bad about it, really.
Oh shoot, that reminds me, I probably need a Christmas themed avatar. Hmm... the last 3 years I created one in GIMP by hand. I'm tempted to go lazy this year and use AI.i just recently got my tree up, and am having some seasonally-flavored coffee right now
The Grinch! But a friendly Grinch.Oh shoot, that reminds me, I probably need a Christmas themed avatar. Hmm... the last 3 years I created one in GIMP by hand. I'm tempted to go lazy this year and use AI.
I could always generate an AI one, and then once I get some time create one myself to replace it.
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Oh shoot, that reminds me, I probably need a Christmas themed avatar. Hmm... the last 3 years I created one in GIMP by hand. I'm tempted to go lazy this year and use AI.
I could always generate an AI one, and then once I get some time create one myself to replace it.
Had more of a Newfoundlander (Vinlander) themed Grinch in mind.
Here's a few that I generated and liked... I'm kinda liking option number 2.
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Oof! The Gorilla Grinch... Gorillinch! Lol