Eh, question is a little too absolute for my tastes. I voted "shaved", but it feels like asking if I want my lawn scoured of all vegetation and turned into a rock garden or left to grow rampant. Neither - I want the lawn maintained with the minimum amount of work required to prevent it becoming a total mess. Trim the grass down to a reasonable length at somewhat regular intervals, and, if necessary, occasionally burn the fence-row.
I have no strong opinion on pubes, but I consider shaved armpits an absolute must, for myself as much as anyone I'm with. Not sure why, but if your pits aren't shaved, I'm not interested in sex unless you leave your shirt on. I also shave two of my own toes, because they grow this weird, wiry, super-coarse hair that is totally different from all my other body hair, and it freaks me out a little to touch it. I never understood why leg shaving is such a thing. Unless a woman's legs are significantly hairier than mine, I hardly even notice. Maybe other people react to it like I do to armpit hair, but it just isn;t that big an issue to me.
Coming round to the actual point of the question, I can go either way on pubic hair. I don't exactly have a bald fetish or a hairy fetish (at least in real life: shaven all the way in porn, purely for the unobstructed view of the action). Clean shaven is a bit more convenient for going down on, but sometimes I kind of like to toy with hair during foreplay. I had never put much thought into this before, but I guess my ideal would be shaved lips, with a decent bush higher on the mons. See this random pic I just grabbed from a quick web search for reference:
As for my own body hair, other than the pits and toes already mentioned, I keep it however my girlfriend likes it. When I'm alone, like now, I don't see any point putting up the effort, so it just gets left natural. I've never had a woman request total hairlessness from me, but I have had my balls bald and my other pubic hair trimmed short for long periods of time. I also waxed my ass-crack once. Not particularly interested in doing that again, but if a woman was insistant, I might. Depends.
[...] I prefer smooth on my gentlemen friends. I also offer the same courtesy to them. My ex used to shave me. It can be very intimate and very hot.
Yes. Doing each others' intimate grooming is great, especially if followed by shower sex. If I get to participate, that moves me from "Eh, shaved I guess." to "Shaved. I definitely want some shaving going on." I think maybe my liking for this comes from the way the first porn novel I read started with the girl shaving the guy's balls, then sucking him off with no hair in the way. The story must have left an impression.
However the idea got into me at first, I still find it very hot. More than the obvious physical fact of touching each others' genitals, there is a strange kind of casual intimacy in doing simple maintenance tasks for each other. It's a sense of being let in on something. The magician is no longer inviting you on stage to help perform a trick; now you are called backstage before the show to help set up the trick, giving away the secret of how it's done. Not a great metaphor... it sounds like I didn't previously understand how shaving works, and has unwanted overtones of exhibitionism, but you should get my point. It's late and I'm too tired to come up with a better one. It's similar to how a woman might be a bit prettier with her makeup on, but it's nice that she feels OK spending time with you without it. Is that better? It feels worse somehow, but I don't know how... Well, time for bed.