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Behavioral change

I have been thinking about this a lot. My Shepard I think just acts naturally and ‘does his thing’. I on the other hand, have changed somewhat and I think part of that is the intimacy of having him inside me, his semen inside me and the repeated close contact. My body just reacts to him now and the intimacy has become very natural for me too.

I guess I have changed due to him!
 
DChing29 said:
Been lurking for a while and I've been wanting to ask this question. Will a male dog change his perception of you once you've done the deed? Would he be more dominant, less obedient, or maybe even overprotective? I kinda want to do it but I'm uncertain of what happens next. Thanks!
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It didn't change with my dog, he behaves the way he always has until I drop to my hands and knees.
 
Vakink said:
I didn’t read the responses and apologize but incase no one brought it up….I’ve always wondered this; if a man has a male dog who he lets “take him,” does the dog assume the alpha position?
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It doesn't affect your status at all as pack leader. The only way you could end up having any kind of negative behavioral feedback is if you let it happen. Just like any training/behavorial issue with a dog.
 
Dogs' social wiring isn't as ordered as wolves. I can't exactly speak for dogs generally, as my boy is more wolf than dog, but he was raised with great care by my brother and grandmother, along with myself though I was still a child at the time. Wolves naturally order themselves by seniority/parental supremacy, so the way he acts around my brother is different than around me. Sex probably did make him a lot more attached to me though, so he usually goes wherever I go, and it took a lot of training and experimentation to make him handle my absence without issue, or be able to go hunting with my brother.

There aren't really any fights for any "alpha position", at best there are miscommunications, where he doesn't understand what is going on, or I simply can't convey it to him, for example, I can't go into stores while walking him, because he won't remain outside and any leash will give up before he gives up on following me, but he doesn't have that issue with my brother when they are together.

I don't know if any dogs are similar in that regard though, as most dogs seem a lot more unruly and playfully care-free in my experience. Dogs aren't as smart, but I can't imagine them being completely rewired from their wild origins.
 
When I was young and stupid, I started having sex with my dog way before he was fully mature or fully trained. This resulted in some very bad behavior. We're talking marking in the house, fighting with the other dog and acting aggressive towards humans other than me. As I was still living with my parents and younger siblings, I had orders to either have him neutered or one or both of us would have to find a new home.

I had him neutered against my wishes. It took most of a year until the hormones wore off, but the bad behavior stopped and he was friends with the other dog again. (The other dog got neutered at the same time.) I continued having sex with both dogs (yes, they still wanted it and were fully capable, just no "liquid assets.") They got along OK, as long as I did any sexual things them in the correct order of dominance.

He was the first, last and only dog I got as a pup. All my later dogs have come to me as mature adults. Some were neutered, some were not. I have worked with all of them so they understand that sex only happens when I say so. It only happens in a special place and I do / say / wear something that I don't do at any other time. It's been over 40 years and 7 dogs, and none of them have done anything to 'out' me in front of friends or family.
 
It’s all in how you relate to your pup. He will take advantage of liberties you allow. If it’s under a certain dress, room setting or command, he will learn and adjust. If you give to his advances and allow him to control things, he will take the alpha role and be very forceful.

Just by nature, bonding with him sexually will make him more protective of his mate.
 
M_barberian said:
It’s all in how you relate to your pup. He will take advantage of liberties you allow. If it’s under a certain dress, room setting or command, he will learn and adjust. If you give to his advances and allow him to control things, he will take the alpha role and be very forceful.

Just by nature, bonding with him sexually will make him more protective of his mate.
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Lol. Yes mine has learned to take advantage of certain liberties. That is a good way to put it.

I probably give in to much but, but for us that works just fine.
 
Do I think cooper has chnaged somewhat since we became active together yes I do. In some ways it is harder but in some ways its better. Its harder because he wants to be around me more and always comes to me if we are in the same room together and he is more what I would say sexually aware then he was before since I he never had sex before we were together. Other then being a little more sniffy in general he is still good around other people nothing you cant atest to a dog being a dog. The better parts are when we are alone together and not even jsut the sexual aspects but obv those are amaizng but some of the best tmes are just when we are cuddling together enjoying the night.
 
My dogs would act different in some ways after we started having sex. First, they now knew it was on the table, and they liked it as much as me. They also got more interested in my dick altogether. They started to like to lick me off and lick up my sperm.

We still wrestled and cuddled the same however.
 
I'm going to say no.. If I'm on all 4s with my bare butt, then yes, he was expecting to have sex. But if I was working in the garden, or doing anything and being on all 4s but wearing something, then he was acting normal. He knew when he was going to be able to have sex with us.
 
It's a matter of discipline.
You teach your dog that he may mount only when you ask for it, or "present" yourself to him.
Otherwise no.

Unruly dogs who hump legs and furniture are probably not horny, but frustrated.
Go out and DO stuff with them. The humping will cease.
 
I feel like sex has made me and my dog closer. Normally we're by each others side and just enjoy one another's company. He know how to get across to me what he wants and don't really act much differently then a "normal" dog in my opinion he's not super sexual unless he asks or I ask
 
Im wondering what sort of dynamic or relationship people had with their dogs before they started having intercourse with them? Did it change drastically as soon as you crossed this boundary?
For example maybe you had a wholesome platonic relationship your pet and never had the thought to have intercourse with them, then maybe down the line that changed and you crossed the boundary where it was no longer simply a"owner of a pet" or "like family" dynamic.

Were there behavioural changes? Problems that occurred because of it? Conflict of interest?

Please post positive and negative experiences thank you
 
nothing really changes or changes, sex has no bearing on them being "a family" to me or not.

his behavior did change a bit. dunno if it's like a protective gesture from him or something, he tries to lay at my feet a lot. it is kinda sweet, but i'm counting days until my computer desk finally gives out. he's 70kg and doesn't really fit in there, he doesn't care tho.
 
There were a few changes for me, at first, he'd get a bit more aggressive whenever he was in the mood, like, try to mount me, lick my pussy/ass out of nowhere, jump playfully but eventually get more into wanting sec etc, at least thats how I saw it. And I would mostly find that hot too and give in. Though that's changed as someone pointed out that it kinda works as me encouraging the aggression. Overally though, other than them getting a feel of " If i am horny, this is where I come", not too much beyond that. Though, we definitely feel a lot closer
 
InuSky said:
There were a few changes for me, at first, he'd get a bit more aggressive whenever he was in the mood, like, try to mount me, lick my pussy/ass out of nowhere, jump playfully but eventually get more into wanting sec etc, at least thats how I saw it. And I would mostly find that hot too and give in. Though that's changed as someone pointed out that it kinda works as me encouraging the aggression. Overally though, other than them getting a feel of " If i am horny, this is where I come", not too much beyond that. Though, we definitely feel a lot closer
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I understand the dilemma, tremendously hot when a dog initiates and you submit to the knot but then you can have him trying to mount you when you have company
 
Yes it does. The male becomes more dominant and allows himself to do more things and become less obedient if not properly trained. You need to draw boundaries of when and where you are allowed to engage in an intercourse. If you make it 100% clear to him that he can mount you only in your bedroom and only when you are completely naked, then it won't cause anyone any problems. There is an entire guide about that posted on the forum. https://www.zoovilleforum.net/threads/womans-guide-to-male-dogs.94055/
 
The one girl I was talking to years ago said you need to train them when it's allowed and forbidden. Otherwise they might try and take you in front of company or even try humping the company. Probably would be the wrong kind of stuffing at the family Thanksgiving! She used different triggers to let her boys know over the years when it was allowed. One was a blanket she would take and lay out, another was a specific t-shirt she would wear. These were the triggers (Pavlov's dog?) that now they were allowed to mount her. Once they knew this, she never had a problem with them misbehaving and doing anything to embarrass or even give her secret away. She recommended this to anyone first getting involved and training their boy. Either a shirt, blanket, towel, throw rug, but something that was never seen or used unless for their time together. I think she also used something bright that would stand out from anything else she might have similar. This way she remains boss until it was his time to dominate her. Of course, I've also read women post here and elsewhere that they don't care about being in control, they say they submit anytime he wants it. So maybe in the long run it's up to how much control you want.
 
It depends on the Dog, but moreso on the Owner.

Dogs are noted for "Training" their Owners, but that really boils down to Habituation. In other words, if you let them have every inch, eventually they have the Yardstick in their possession. Pick your battles, and that doesn't happen. Be the owner you're supposed to be.
 
I was curious to see what everyone’s experience was for those of you that have bought your mare from a non-zoo owner.

I’ve been working with my friends horses and they are not a zoo. The mare has a very calm temperament and is somewhat of an older horse (10-15 years old). This post isn’t about this mare. Shes just an example.

Given this is the kind of horse a beginner horse owner would want (temperament wise), what are some changes one could see (if any) in building a relationship with a mare? I’m sure they become more loving, but outside of that, do they just act like a normal horse? Do they become more temperamental?

I ask because not all horses are presented “zoo love”. One concern I’d have is the mare “acting up” if friends or family were over. While I know people won’t automatically assume there’s something going on between the owner and the horse, it’s still a concern I think a lot of new zoos have. I’m sure every horse is different, but I wanted to see what your experiences were.
 
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