CaramelloSweets
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Ive always been interest in pet play, i think it would be amazing to be a pup and a zoo
Kinks and fetishes have always had a soft side, you have to be able to switch sometimes but If you have a partner that let's you be yourself and understands you it expedites the process. Finding some random kinkster or fetishist that you don't know can really be bad. But Having an understanding partner mean they know how to work with you to get you were you want to be. For me pup play is about dehumanizing myself so I can escape reality for a bit and become a hypersexual yet very submissive pup who wants to be ravaged by both my dogs and my husband simultaneously... after the sex though I'll still be in my pup headspace, but it changes from hypersexual to one craving love and soft touches and kind words telling me i am the perfect pup, and making sure I'm okay from the sex marathon. That's when the softer side of my pup kink comes in. And sorry I'm rambling. I'm exhausted due to running around cause of the holiday ?Wow. I couldn't help resurrecting this old thread. Anyone else feel similar to @ZariayaHusky about petplay?
You've just opened my eyes. This is the first time I've ever seen/heard anyone say anything like this regarding petplay. All I've ever known it to be is basically some variant of "degradation" kink/fetishism which is typically rooted heavily in speciesism (a trait I find repulsive in humans) and grotesque levels of misogyny. Which isn't surprising considering speciesism, sexism, racism and others are all inherently connected at their source. But I digress.
Perhaps I should post a poll about this. Now I'm really curious to discover how ignorant I've been. ?
Kinks and fetishes have always had a soft side, you have to be able to switch sometimes but If you have a partner that let's you be yourself and understands you it expedites the process. Finding some random kinkster or fetishist that you don't know can really be bad. But Having an understanding partner mean they know how to work with you to get you were you want to be. For me pup play is about dehumanizing myself so I can escape reality for a bit and become a hypersexual yet very submissive pup who wants to be ravaged by both my dogs and my husband simultaneously... after the sex though I'll still be in my pup headspace, but it changes from hypersexual to one craving love and soft touches and kind words telling me i am the perfect pup, and making sure I'm okay from the sex marathon. That's when the softer side of my pup kink comes in. And sorry I'm rambling. I'm exhausted due to running around cause of the holiday ?
No it's more along the lines of I want to escape the life of a human and become less, in this instance a dog because no matter how you cut it dogs are always lower than humans in societies mind. And with that comes lesser expectations, you become free in a sense by becoming lesser is what I mean by dehumanizing myself...cause I don't want to be human sometimes, I wish I could just check out of society, garden, forage and hunt (I can do all 3) and spend time with our 6 cats, and spend time with the husband and the 2 male dogs we are getting in the future, I put the hubby and dogs together because if that was my life I'd spend my entire time in pup mode making my husband happy helping him, playing with the dogs like a dog, train the dogs as much as possible to be good around others while still able to protect the family. And over course just spend my days happy and loving the family I built. And when the pups are old enough I'm going to present them my rump and see what happens...hopefully they will learn what presenting my rump means quickly so they can ravage me after the hubby takes his turn. Granted they may need a Lil encouragement In the form of a sheathe massage or minor handy j in the beginning to awaken their inner drive.The term dehumanizing has it's own derogatory connotations, I'm curious what you personally mean by that. Do you want to feel below, less than human, glorifying enslavement in your mind?
Also, Merry Christmas!?
Interesting! So would you say you share society's view of dogs then?No it's more along the lines of I want to escape the life of a human and become less, in this instance a dog because no matter how you cut it dogs are always lower than humans in societies mind. And with that comes lesser expectations, you become free in a sense by becoming lesser is what I mean by dehumanizing myself...cause I don't want to be human sometimes, I wish I could just check out of society, garden, forage and hunt (I can do all 3) and spend time with our 6 cats, and spend time with the husband and the 2 male dogs we are getting in the future, I put the hubby and dogs together because if that was my life I'd spend my entire time in pup mode making my husband happy helping him, playing with the dogs like a dog, train the dogs as much as possible to be good around others while still able to protect the family. And over course just spend my days happy and loving the family I built. And when the pups are old enough I'm going to present them my rump and see what happens...hopefully they will learn what presenting my rump means quickly so they can ravage me after the hubby takes his turn. Granted they may need a Lil encouragement In the form of a sheathe massage or minor handy j in the beginning to awaken their inner drive.
That's hot. I'm also a pub and a switch. Love eventsBoth a human Dog (I prefer it as a term for my headspaces over pup,) and a Handler for my pup, we are kink lifestylers and my puppy is collared.