Hush. My other hand is busy.Both hands. ?
And it's because I've given up on this place it's nothing but dudes and when you do find a girl in your area you literally have to take months to make them feel comfortable and then they find one thing to say no and then you're an asshole so it's pointlessYears? You have 31 posts. I've been here 2 weeks and have 168. I think that says it all.
Hush. My other hand is busy.
Key take always from all this, people are sometimes riddles that will never be solved. You just gotta learn to let it go. You obviously have a lot of pent up emotions you are dealing with and some animosity towards women as a whole due to bad history and some bad actors. You gotta see each person as an individual and try to not let your past paint how you see someone’s future. Biggest thing is, when something doesn’t go your way, you gotta step back, cool off, and keep on keeping on. The rapid fire messaging is not going to solve the issue and of anything make you out to be pushy/aggressive. You may not have meant it that way and you was just frantic but you have to relax. People are more attracted to calm, cool, collected.I used talk to text that's why I type a lot maybe that's why she freaked out because I literally do not type with my fingers I type with my mouth so I can literally put a whole paragraph together in seconds
And it's because I've given up on this place it's nothing but dudes and when you do find a girl in your area you literally have to take months to make them feel comfortable and then they find one thing to say no and then you're an asshole so it's pointless
That’s fair. We can all have our preferences. And it’s your time and energy. It’s up to you who you give those to.Just to clarify, this is becaus i'm not that chaty anymore ( got burnd alot ) and when it come to boys i'm just not intressted. Sorry
I wouldn't expect someone to meet even in a few months, bro. We're not just asking people to go get coffee. This is a fragile lifestyle that has risks. You clearly weren't making her feel comfortable. Hell, you're making me uncomfortable and I'm just giving feedback
I don't really care anymore do you really think guys want to spend months and months waiting for someone to maybe meet like that's just ridiculously stupid and if you think anybody has the patience for that then clearly you will never meet a guy with a dog you better off just getting your own and fucking it at home
Thank's well i use to love chating and i did it alot but i got burnd in a really bad way so now days i'm very careful ant that kind of take away the fun. Its not that i have trust issus but there are so many fakes out there.That’s fair. We can all have our preferences. And it’s your time and energy. It’s up to you who you give those to.
Sorry to hear about you having a bad experience. While there are lots of nice people on here, obviously there’s always gonna be some bad ones. It can suck a lot of the fun out of it if you’re always waiting for a new conversation to just turn sour or waiting to find out this new person is another fake.Thank's well i use to love chating and i did it alot but i got burnd in a really bad way so now days i'm very careful ant that kind of take away the fun. Its not that i have trust issus but there are so many fakes out there.
Yes 100%Sorry to hear about you having a bad experience. While there are lots of nice people on here, obviously there’s always gonna be some bad ones. It can suck a lot of the fun out of it if you’re always waiting for a new conversation to just turn sour or waiting to find out this new person is another fake.
I have received several messages asking if I'm doing that dog in the profile picture; if I'm not, I should be! LOL. I just respond by telling them that's not me, but I'd love to be that dog!I bet you still get plenty of people claiming that all you need to become a zoo is to just meet with their boy. That’ll fix all your problems. ?
Hell I’d love to be that dog too. I mean, look at that ass….I have received several messages asking if I'm doing that dog in the profile picture; if I'm not, I should be! LOL. I just respond by telling them that's not me, but I'd love to be that dog!
I have had mental pause lately...and just simply forget to reply and then the messages get buried in my inboxYour profile pic must initiate sooo many messages lol. It’s just too eye catching.
I hate that sometimes I’ll have great conversations with people for weeks and then either they start to die off in the quality of the conversation or I do because I lose interest and I don’t know why. I like talking about all types of stuff and I’ll talk about sexy stuff sometimes. But sometimes my brain just goes, hey, how about we just lose interest here even though they did literally nothing wrong… but then they’ll message me again weeks later and we can start right back up.
I know! OMG! That's why I picked that avatar! As soon as I saw it I thought it would be perfect and it has been. Everyone loves it...lolHell I’d love to be that dog too. I mean, look at that ass….
Just leads to a lot of mistaken identity. But that just leads to more conversations I guess and some funny stories. So a good choice in the end.I have had mental pause lately...and just simply forget to reply and then the messages get buried in my inbox
I know! OMG! That's why I picked that avatar! As soon as I saw it I thought it would be perfect and it has been. Everyone loves it...lol
That’s fair. There’s so much competition for people vying for female attention. It’s difficult for any guy to really stand out and keep a persons interest when there’s dozens of other person trying every tactic they can to keep that persons attention on them. It is such a weird rat race. There’s plenty of interesting discussions and conversations going on in the forum to engage with. Whether someone has a hole or a pole doesn’t really matter when it comes many of those discussions.Chat...? Lol. I'm a guy so I chat with almost nobody. Used to it though so it doesn't bother me. I'm not about to start trying to compete with the thirsties on here for women's attention so if the convo peters off, no big deal. I comment on whatever interests me or catches my attention. Doesn't really matter who the person is as long as the convo is engaging.
I'm the king of dropping the ball!I hear that sometimes it really is just tough getting that conversation flowing. There’s lots of times where someone just messages me saying “hey, how are you?” for that first message. I’ll give them a chance and give them something to work with by saying I’m doing good and explaining a bit of what I’m up to. Something they can form more conversation around and let me know what they are up to as well with some details. Some people will roll with it and get a good flow going. Others just drop the ball and give next to nothing back for me to work with.
Yep, but it's not usually that big of a deal. I can handle a couple of messages a day. I would have changed it right away if I was getting bombarded. But it really has been a great conversation starter. So, I guess that my recommendation for someone who wants to get messaged more is to get an eye-catching picture. lolJust leads to a lot of mistaken identity. But that just leads to more conversations I guess and some funny stories. So a good choice in the end.
That's pretty much me mostly because I'm LAZY and don't want to put in the effort when I think it's not worth it anyway...lol, I see your replies and think, what kind of drugs is she taking in order to have such excellent replies to everything? I need some of those! lolI’ll give a “sup” a chance to turn into some actual conversation since I know many guys either aren’t great with starting conversations or they already told themselves that I’m not gonna reply because I’m a girl. So why put in effort if she’s not gonna reply anyways. It’s all about what comes after that sup that can make or break a conversation.
I feel like it’s really hit or miss. Many people only want to talk with a select few types of other people. And if you too are only trying to talk to the same small group of persons, it’s gonna feel like no one wants to talk. Even if you will talk to anyone, it’ll still feel like no one wants to talk since so many people are only focused on chatting with their target group. But I can’t fault people for only wanting to talk with certain people.People don't want to chat here. I don't get it.
There's only so manyHow many different people do you chat with on a daily or semi daily/regularly basis on here? Are you a guy that only talks to women? Are you a woman that only talks to guys? Is there a decent mix? How many messages do you end up ignoring usually because of dud conversations?
I’m just curious what people’s chatting habits are on here. It feels like most of the time I message someone, they respond so quick I can’t get to my other messages.
I’m a woman and the vast majority of my conversations are with guys. I have about 15 people that I regularly chat with on a daily basis. Only 2 are women. Only 3 of them have I really gotten to know very well and they know me very well. I have maybe 10 or so dud conversations each day that I can’t commit the energy to reply to the same questions over and over again or that are just “hey how are you” copy pasted every day.
Everybody be complicating things. The bad ones ruin it for the good ones too.I feel like it’s really hit or miss. Many people only want to talk with a select few types of other people. And if you too are only trying to talk to the same small group of persons, it’s gonna feel like no one wants to talk. Even if you will talk to anyone, it’ll still feel like no one wants to talk since so many people are only focused on chatting with their target group. But I can’t fault people for only wanting to talk with certain people.
I feel lazy too sometimes and my replies may be one liners. But sometimes I’m just not in the headspace to make thoughtful replies. And I’d rather at least get a bit of something out there than nothing. Otherwise people start thinking I’m ghosting them.That's pretty much me mostly because I'm LAZY and don't want to put in the effort when I think it's not worth it anyway...lol, I see your replies and think, what kind of drugs is she taking in order to have such excellent replies to everything? I need some of those! lol
I wholeheartedly agree that bad actors ruin many people’s perspectives on potential friends or conversations. 99% of the guys that are usually a waste of time start a conversation with ” hey how are you. You’re beautiful” or some variation of that. So then when someone who isn’t trash comes along and says the same thing just trying to be sort, sweet, and kick things off, my brain is gonna lump them in the category with they losers. It’s not fair but that’s just how it goes.There's only so many
Everybody be complicating things. The bad ones ruin it for the good ones too.
Yeah I know. It is what it is I guess.I wholeheartedly agree that bad actors ruin many people’s perspectives on potential friends or conversations. 99% of the guys that are usually a waste of time start a conversation with ” hey how are you. You’re beautiful” or some variation of that. So then when someone who isn’t trash comes along and says the same thing just trying to be sort, sweet, and kick things off, my brain is gonna lump them in the category with they losers. It’s not fair but that’s just how it goes.
Haha, love it!hole or a pole
lol. It’s the simplest terms that make sense to me.Haha, love it!
Yes. That is how it is done. To think otherwise demonstrates you have no idea what being a zoophile is. Which you can not have, because you are a fetishit.you literally want to take months and months and months to feel comfortable
If you are no longer interested in your account, feel free to ask for it to be deleted.And it's because I've given up on this place
Lol an actual "nice guy" following the nice guy formula of turning into an insane guy the moment they are rejected.I am too nice