You are not going about it the right way at all. You are blaming others as the cause of a problem in your own relationships. The person you should be examining for answers is yourself, not others.
Others have a right not to like you, cannot change that.
I have a buddy who actually I gotta tell often he cannot throw money at his relationships or the women he is interested in when he fucks up talking to them(he's cool, he's just a rich autistic prick). He can shower people in anything but he realized the women he really wanted are the ones money never worked on.
I recommend you to speak a professional therapist focusing on interpersonal relationships if you really feel this confused and are misdirecting blame towards frmales this badly.
I've tried, many many times. Most of my relationships have been with non-zoo, and as soon as I understood our non-compatibility I left it to them to do the breakups, but this last girl...I just can't figure it out.
I didn't try anything with her. I had just gotten out of trucking, I had a video game store, my store manager quit on me and I went to go work at Denny's and bk and run my computer and video game store myself. I didn't throw any money at her. I didn't even show the slightest of interest in her. She's even a user here on the site, I know she was honest about beastiality, we had an established communication. We had almost everything in common, and shared the strongest chemistry I've ever had. Why would she tense up when I tried putting my dog in place of me for sex?
Then she tells me a bunch of excuses on why she changed her mind after dumping me, that makes no sense. Yes, it's true, I definitely need to talk to someone, but zoos can't just go talking to a therapist, especially when they are an owner. The only zoo friend I could talk to about this was a long time friend and in a relationship with my former store manager where they both screwed me over big time, and supported this girl because he was jealous of me.
And that still doesn't help me any. I have found most women being with me when I'm flat broke, including but not limited to this last one, but she also has two growing boys and on a crash course of disaster for both her and her kids financially. I personally don't believe relationships should be founded on money, but I have known many women to need that, albeit none I've ever been with.
The problem I'm having is I'm a great suiter for just about any women. I can walk up to about any woman and land a date. There is nothing I can't show for it, and I've got a great personality and make friends easily, and very sociable, I need someone's help on finding why women can't hold down a relationship. I don't just say this for myself, but in general. That last girl hopped over 30 relationships at the age of 25, and she really wasn't good looking, I was attracted to her as a person, not her looks. The only women I've ever seen hold down a lasting relationship are either religious or being blackmailed, or in my friends' situations they get whatever bottom-of-the-barrel-woman they can keep, and I can say they certainly don't have much to show for in looks, personality, or anything else.
If I walked up to the gas station lady right now, and she accepted a date, I found out she likes video games and other things I do, and we find out we are zoo-compatible, what could I do to make it last?
The last two women that came onto me, it was completely unexpected, and I had given up long time ago. I can't be respected enough when I say "no", and I keep getting pushed into it, and then when I show interest they hate me. Women only find me attractive, they don't care about my feelings, or when I say "no". It's true I can point my finger all day long, and even be right about it, but it's also true that I'm doing something wrong. And whatever that is I have no clue what it is, I never get any kind of fluent communication from women I'm with. I always have to find out how they feel or what they like or want from their friends, or their cousin or mom, and I'm always the last to be informed, if at all. And of course that doesn't change the issue of communication they all seem to want to close down when I try and assess the issue or talk it out.
When I'm too recessive, I'm supposed to be more dominant. When I'm dominant, I'm supposed to be less so. When she afraid to tell me she fucked my friend and i find out the next girl likes that and I confess I actually like it too, then she tells me she doesn't want to because I'm not doing that with other women. It doesn't matter what I do or don't do, or what I say or don't say, I find myself getting barraged with anything and everything they can think of to simply make it impossible to please them or get anywhere in the relationship. Then of course I speak my mind, and oh, the slightest bit of anything that comes from my mouth is offensive and grounds to leave. Like men can't express themselves too or something. Then I'm attacked by women because they think I owe them my cock, or I'm obligated to do something for them when I turn them down. Men can say "no" too, yet it's obviously not adhered to. The last women I turned down and said no to, tried to ruin my life, simply because I rejected on from a date, and rejected the other from sex on the first date. They think the world revolves around them. They think we don't have the right to say "no", especially if they come onto me and I don't know if they are zoo-compatible. They think only they can express their thoughts and feelings when they're upset, but when we do it, we're the bad guys. It's not an equal playing field, and men and women need to learn from each other and apply it. I know I can point the finger, but I also know it's not a one way road, so all I'm asking is for advice from women here, on what I can do to make it last. I certainly wouldn't want to blackmail a women to do so, I want a true genuine relationship, but I can't seem to find a woman that wants that also. What can I do, or better yet, what can any guy do? What can men do for a lady to make a lasting relationship? I see all these guys laying their hands on their lady, or blackmailing them with illicit drugs, or paying them money. I don't want any of that, so I want an answer of how to make it last. Can no one share insight to the female mind?
