Scrantonguy9934
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I wanna participate with said person but she isn’t really responding. Is there something I’m doing wrong. Is there code word
Wondering about how to engage someone I know is into zoo properly
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Have you considered that she doesn't want you to participate?
Its a very intimate and secretive subject for people. A lot of people won't open up to this sort of thing unless there is 100% trust in your friendship / relationship
moonstruckxiii
Tourist
Honestly, I wouldn't open up to someone I know irl about this, even if they were also into it. I would have to trust you, and *want* you to have that level of intimacy with me. If those conditions aren't met, for all I know, maybe you're just fucking with me. I would be more likely to tell a complete stranger about this kind of thing, than someone I know, but don't feel that close to. Strangers aren't as dangerous as people that know you, but that you don't completely trust.
A code word? lmao. May be no one wants to meet someone that you just messeged today.
It’s a possibility that they just aren’t into YOU.
Scrantonguy9934
Tourist
I stumbled on it on fetlife.
Since this usually leads to banning or removal there, was is it you think you saw?
Scrantonguy9934
Tourist
And did you ask her about it, and she didnt respond? Then like others said, she doesnt want to share it or not with you...