Wondering about how to engage someone I know is into zoo properly

[Scrantonguy9934]

I wanna participate with said person but she isn’t really responding. Is there something I’m doing wrong. Is there code word

 

[Hugh Jasole]

I wanna participate with said person but she isn’t really responding. Is there something I’m doing wrong. Is there code word

Stand by, you’re about to receive a lot of attitude and opinion. Best I can say is be yourself, but if she shows no interest in sharing, respect that and move on. Otherwise, best of luck hope it works in your favor!

 

[Caniform]

I wanna participate with said person but she isn’t really responding. Is there something I’m doing wrong. Is there code word

Have you considered that she doesn't want you to participate?

 

[JazzyPaws]

1. Maybe she doesn't want you too
2. Most zoos don't wish to reveal themselves, often even to others who are into it, great risk follows.

 

[hhansare13]

Its a very intimate and secretive subject for people. A lot of people won't open up to this sort of thing unless there is 100% trust in your friendship / relationship

 

[Demigod]

I'm with the others, move on.

 

[moonstruckxiii]

Honestly, I wouldn't open up to someone I know irl about this, even if they were also into it. I would have to trust you, and *want* you to have that level of intimacy with me. If those conditions aren't met, for all I know, maybe you're just fucking with me. I would be more likely to tell a complete stranger about this kind of thing, than someone I know, but don't feel that close to. Strangers aren't as dangerous as people that know you, but that you don't completely trust.

 

[dogluver101]

A code word? lmao. May be no one wants to meet someone that you just messeged today.

 

[Hugh Jasole]

I wanna participate with said person but she isn’t really responding. Is there something I’m doing wrong. Is there code word

Oh shit, I completely missed the password, it’s ALWAYS: Pakistan Banana Stand!!!

 

[rocky_dp]

I would never reveal that aspect of myself to anyone ever even if I knew for absolute 100% fact the other person was a zoo. It's just not worth the risk. Not worth it to me and certainly not work it to my dogs.

 

[Intriguedbyu]

It’s a possibility that they just aren’t into YOU.

 

[Scrantonguy9934]

I stumbled on it on fetlife.

 

[waarom170]

I stumbled on it on fetlife.

Since this usually leads to banning or removal there, was is it you think you saw?

 

[Scrantonguy9934]

This was in her profile pics. And we are now talking

 

[waarom170]

This was in her profile pics. And we are now talking

And did you ask her about it, and she didnt respond? Then like others said, she doesnt want to share it or not with you...

 

[Hugh Jasole]

This was in her profile pics. And we are now talking

Good for you!