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Why to guys always go quite when you wanna arrange a meet lol.

CuriousK9er said:
Correction 》 ** "why do guys always go quiet when you want to arrange a meeting"
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Ahhh. I'm a very literal reader, so I read what was typed, not what the person meant. Thank you.

I would say it's how the person comes across who is trying to arrange the meetup matched with if the guy was actually serious - or if the guy senses something is off. Maybe OP is triggering some red flags or setting off their radar somehow? If I were her, I would look at the exchange from where she makes the suggestion to the quiet part, do this with the cases where the offer vaporized and try to narrow it down. What may may sound innocuous to her may set the guys off and make them suspicious. Try and find out what that is, then stop doing it and see if offers start going through. Process of elimination, dear Dr. Watson.

Edit: or maybe the guys are lying about having a dog?
 
CuriousK9er said:
Ya shes likely getting messages from ppl who dont own or just got cold feet. Maybe shes too aggressive hard to say.
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Fr tho she’s a female on this website she’s probably getting blown up and I know she has a bf, so she’s probably being really picky about who she responds to
 
OwnThatKinkGirl said:
Ahhh. I'm a very literal reader, so I read what was typed, not what the person meant. Thank you.

I would say it's how the person comes across who is trying to arrange the meetup matched with if the guy was actually serious - or if the guy senses something is off. Maybe OP is triggering some red flags or setting off their radar somehow? If I were her, I would look at the exchange from where she makes the suggestion to the quiet part, do this with the cases where the offer vaporized and try to narrow it down. What may may sound innocuous to her may set the guys off and make them suspicious. Try and find out what that is, then stop doing it and see if offers start going through. Process of elimination, dear Dr. Watson.

Edit: or maybe the guys are lying about having a dog?
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Haha fantastic deductions Sherlock. I think given the number of risks that ppl will be triggered or set back by too much information once the "oh shit maybe i said too much before the meet" kind of buyers remorse haha

It would honestly be best to put no details of the potential meet up outcome. Just to "hang out". The rest can be said in person. I do think you can still share fantasies though cuz they are just that. Free speech and imagination isnt ilegal... yet.
 
CuriousK9er said:
Haha fantastic deductions Sherlock. I think given the number of risks that ppl will be triggered or set back by too much information once the "oh shit maybe i said too much before the meet" kind of buyers remorse haha

It would honestly be best to put no details of the potential meet up outcome. Just to "hang out". The rest can be said in person. I do think you can still share fantasies though cuz they are just that. Free speech and imagination isnt ilegal... yet.
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Tbh ive shared a fair bit of past experiences that might put me in danger but this site feels safe in my opinion but still im wary about the meet ups
 
doglover15130 said:
Tbh ive shared a fair bit of past experiences that might put me in danger but this site feels safe in my opinion but still im wary about the meet ups
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Nah. A lot of ppl play out fantasies without ever doing it. And they wouldn't know for certain if you were fantasizing, roll playing, or being legit serious. Like ive said before you just cant premeditate and do things on the first meeting. Simply plan a hangout with them and their pet and talk about it in person and id also recommend you have them start with the foreplay to know its not some kind of entrapment. Use things like "it would be so hot if" and comment on watching them. You'll be able to feel if its authentic or not you cant really fake this.
 
CuriousK9er said:
Haha fantastic deductions Sherlock. I think given the number of risks that ppl will be triggered or set back by too much information once the "oh shit maybe i said too much before the meet" kind of buyers remorse haha

It would honestly be best to put no details of the potential meet up outcome. Just to "hang out". The rest can be said in person. I do think you can still share fantasies though cuz they are just that. Free speech and imagination isnt ilegal... yet.
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Thank you, kindly good Dr. You may rest assured that your cogent research and well informed opinions have once again proven paramount whilst surmising my hypothesis. :D
 
OwnThatKinkGirl said:
I'm a guy. It's on my About page, but many people don't fill out their About page. Guess I'll add it to my sig too. Why does this site make it so hard to actually list their actual sex? I dunno.
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I just put it right on the where im from. Sorry I didnt look was just making conversation. Im open to talking with anyone of like.
 
OwnThatKinkGirl said:
I'm a guy. It's on my About page, but many people don't fill out their About page. Guess I'll add it to my sig too. Why does this site make it so hard to actually list their actual sex? I dunno.
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Btw how do you add sex to your profile and how do you fill out your about and tags?
 
Click on your profile pop up where it says account details right beside signature. Then scroll down a little and you'll see all the fields you can fill in.
 

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yankusa said:
After all the talk and promises why do guys always go quite when it’s time to sort a meet ?
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Simple answer....FEAR. I've said this many times....about 98 percent of these guys are afraid they'd wet their pants before they could ring a doorbell. Most of them aren't Zoos, they are voyeurs, and the majority of THOSE are rather incel-ish. You know....the kind of people who fail to attract a woman, or even another fellow, and then blame the failure on everything BUT themselves. Patience and luck may find a person who wants to meet...more luck and maybe it will become a relationship...but patience is a key. Do not hold your breath. I've met ten, thus far, and there are more on that list. They know whom they are. Good luck.
 
saddlebum66 said:
Simple answer....FEAR. I've said this many times....about 98 percent of these guys are afraid they'd wet their pants before they could ring a doorbell. Most of them aren't Zoos, they are voyeurs, and the majority of THOSE are rather incel-ish. You know....the kind of people who fail to attract a woman, or even another fellow, and then blame the failure on everything BUT themselves. Patience and luck may find a person who wants to meet...more luck and maybe it will become a relationship...but patience is a key. Do not hold your breath. I've met ten, thus far, and there are more on that list. They know whom they are. Good luck.
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Oof “incel-ish” hahaha
 
saddlebum66 said:
Simple answer....FEAR. I've said this many times....about 98 percent of these guys are afraid they'd wet their pants before they could ring a doorbell. Most of them aren't Zoos, they are voyeurs, and the majority of THOSE are rather incel-ish. You know....the kind of people who fail to attract a woman, or even another fellow, and then blame the failure on everything BUT themselves. Patience and luck may find a person who wants to meet...more luck and maybe it will become a relationship...but patience is a key. Do not hold your breath. I've met ten, thus far, and there are more on that list. They know whom they are. Good luck.
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Hey common, no need to call anyone out here considering that we are here to begin with.... everyone has their own reasons for that fear and its often from childhood trauma. I dont think its fair judging anyone for that.
 
CuriousK9er said:
Nothing i was just noting what its beside to help find its location haha

Ill put the screenshots here for others.
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Thank you though helped me get my profile right, I didn’t understand most of it but when you click my name without going to my profile what shows now? Just making sure I put it all in the right spot, a screenshot of it would help
 
yankusa said:
After all the talk and promises why do guys always go quite when it’s time to sort a meet ?
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For me honestly it would be nerves. I have been attracted to woman who are intimate with dogs since I was 17 (31 now) and I’m just now starting to talk to other like minded people. I’m normally a very confident guy but something about this makes me nervous.
 
johnrichard33 said:
For me honestly it would be nerves. I have been attracted to woman who are intimate with dogs since I was 17 (31 now) and I’m just now starting to talk to other like minded people. I’m normally a very confident guy but something about this makes me nervous.
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Being shamed. Its common and nobody wants it cuz we naturally want to fit in until we turn about 40 and realize it never meant anything or changed our lives anyways.

I just started telling all my girlfriends. And never had any negative feedback. Worse case "whatever floats your boat". Haha. And 3 of my exs were into it. Just make sure you are intimate enough that its safe sharing so you know she likely wont go tell the world. And if she does, remember that most ppl know ppl blow everything out of proportion when they are hurting. And also that most ppl have their own secrets and arent willing to act on them.
 
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doglover15130 said:
Being polite is definitely a must but this website doesn’t send notifications directly to a phone so sometimes it’s a lack of checking the website you have to take that into account, but generally ghosting is an immature and rude habit
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They still get a alert when they enter back into the website though. They can see there is a message there for them. So im not sure that is a valid excuse unless they never log back in..
 
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