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Why to guys always go quite when you wanna arrange a meet lol.

Guessing most are acting out a fantasy online, but when it comes to things getting real, it gets scary. In a fantasy you are fully in control, when you meet with someone you loose at least part of that control.


Behind the keyboard in your house you are safe, practically no risk. When you go out to meet the risk increases. The sex may be disappointing, other person may not be who they claim to be, might get mugged, setup by police in case of zoo stuff, might get found out your cheating and so on
 
To play devils advocate - I tend to find it the other way round as I've arranged meets with "females"/"couples" and then its just static.

But as Blacksoul and Steve1982nl said it's likely due to them either being fake or nerves kicking in. For me that's not a problem - the problem is with the ghosting. They just have the decency to say they are nervous and I can then make other plans with my precious time rather than sitting about or going to the effort of travelling.
 
kiltedtech said:
To play devils advocate - I tend to find it the other way round as I've arranged meets with "females"/"couples" and then its just static.

But as Blacksoul and Steve1982nl said it's likely due to them either being fake or nerves kicking in. For me that's not a problem - the problem is with the ghosting. They just have the decency to say they are nervous and I can then make other plans with my precious time rather than sitting about or going to the effort of travelling.
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Yeah there is a lot of fake people out there who don’t wanna meet at all unfortunately x
 
kiltedtech said:
To play devils advocate - I tend to find it the other way round as I've arranged meets with "females"/"couples" and then its just static.

But as Blacksoul and Steve1982nl said it's likely due to them either being fake or nerves kicking in. For me that's not a problem - the problem is with the ghosting. They just have the decency to say they are nervous and I can then make other plans with my precious time rather than sitting about or going to the effort of travelling.
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100% ghosting is so childish. But at the same time now people are so sensitive they just avoid the conversation & responses all together.
 
I feel like allot of comes down to fear, fear of being outed to society fear of rejection and just general fear. It’s a daunting task to actually give into you desires and accept this is who you are mainly because of how mainstream society views this taboo.

But on a side not I believe you either reach out to me in the comments or pm and I just wanted to apologize if I didn’t respond, life’s been a mess lately but I’ve been more active these past few days, so feel free to pm me
 
doglover15130 said:
I feel like allot of comes down to fear, fear of being outed to society fear of rejection and just general fear. It’s a daunting task to actually give into you desires and accept this is who you are mainly because of how mainstream society views this taboo.

But on a side not I believe you either reach out to me in the comments or pm and I just wanted to apologize if I didn’t respond, life’s been a mess lately but I’ve been more active these past few days, so feel free to pm me
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I agree with that also. Getting cold feet definitely happens but I think a lot is the fear of meeting a cop or something in case they've discussed too many details that might get them in premeditated trouble.

I know its been a concern of mine.
 
CuriousK9er said:
I agree with that also. Getting cold feet definitely happens but I think a lot is the fear of meeting a cop or something in case they've discussed too many details that might get them in premeditated trouble.

I know its been a concern of mine.
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That is definitely a concern I think of everyone here, I’ve been worried about it since day one. But the more time I spend on here I realize there are no real horror stories on this site about those type things and I get a bit more comfortable, but I will definitely always be cautious, never want to be the first especially if it involves cops and shit.

Also I hardly see news or anything about people being caught for things like this at least from online, I’ve seen a few of like people reporting things or police discover it from like a basic animal abuse call but the only online bust im aware of was the French incident which the info on that is already posted here
 
CuriousK9er said:
I agree with that also. Getting cold feet definitely happens but I think a lot is the fear of meeting a cop or something in case they've discussed too many details that might get them in premeditated trouble.

I know it’s been a concern of mine.
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Also btw you have a very attractive pfp, ik your not even in the same country but props man you look great
 
doglover15130 said:
That is definitely a concern I think of everyone here, I’ve been worried about it since day one. But the more time I spend on here I realize there are no real horror stories on this site about those type things and I get a bit more comfortable, but I will definitely always be cautious, never want to be the first especially if it involves cops and shit.

Also I hardly see news or anything about people being caught for things like this at least from online, I’ve seen a few of like people reporting things or police discover it from like a basic animal abuse call but the only online bust im aware of was the French incident which the info on that is already posted here
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Ya I dont think its that easy to prove unless caught in the act. And watching it isnt ilegal. If it was it wouldn't be all over google search engine... lol.

But im definitely against the abuse and forcing animals. Thats where even having sex with female dogs and horses would make me uncomfortable cuz I wouldn't know if they actually wanted it. Which they wouldn't in the same way we do anyways I don't think. Unlike dolphins lol

But ya you're right there are never warnings or horror stories posted here. I am curious about how many active users there actually are men to women kind of thing. Probably 20:1 men to women.
 
CuriousK9er said:
Ya I dont think its that easy to prove unless caught in the act. And watching it isnt ilegal. If it was it wouldn't be all over google search engine... lol.

But im definitely against the abuse and forcing animals. Thats where even having sex with female dogs and horses would make me uncomfortable cuz I wouldn't know if they actually wanted it. Which they wouldn't in the same way we do anyways I don't think. Unlike dolphins lol

But ya you're right there are never warnings or horror stories posted here. I am curious about how many active users there actually are men to women kind of thing. Probably 20:1 men to women.
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I think their are laws around possessing zoo material like if you download it but I don’t think viewing it is illegal, and honestly it’s just one of those thing that aren’t heavily enforced, like governments have to worry about way worse things as you know so I think zoo stuff just flies under the radar.

Horses aren’t really something im attracted too but dogs, if you know them and their body language you can easily tell when they don’t want it or don’t enjoy it, and typically when a bitch is in heat she WANTS it they can be extremely horny when in heat. Dolphins are like the worst about fucking anything they can it’s hilarious.

Honestly I think there is definitely more men here but I don’t think it’s crazy like a 20-1 ratio, I see allot of women here too, you gotta think allot of women’s first experience is accidental like a dog coming up and licking while they’re masturbating or they want to try sex but don’t want the risk of getting pregnant, so I think it’s more common than you’d think
 
CuriousK9er said:
Ya I dont think its that easy to prove unless caught in the act. And watching it isnt ilegal. If it was it wouldn't be all over google search engine... lol.

But im definitely against the abuse and forcing animals. Thats where even having sex with female dogs and horses would make me uncomfortable cuz I wouldn't know if they actually wanted it. Which they wouldn't in the same way we do anyways I don't think. Unlike dolphins lol

But ya you're right there are never warnings or horror stories posted here. I am curious about how many active users there actually are men to women kind of thing. Probably 20:1 men to women.
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But on the abuse thing I absolutely hate it, and most porn the big sites put out is nothing but abuse and it’s sad, dogs want nothing more than to be a loyal best friend why take advantage of that and hurt the poor things
 
Communication is a huge thing weather in a relationship or not.
I think ghosting someone is quiet cowardly.
You have come to a public forum, put yourself out there, and said your available for chats to people and then arrange a meet up. Only to ghost them.
At least have the back bone to communicate with them and advise that they are not compatible or your not interested in what they have to offer, or your situation in life has changed and it is no long suitable.
What ever the case is, i dont think there is a need to ghost anyone unless they have displayed threatening or inappropriate behaviour. There is always a block or ignore button if they continue inappropriate messages.
To be honest i think ghosting shows maturity levels and it is probably an indication of a dodged bullet.
I will respond to anyone out of politeness even if i have no interest or compatibility with someone that reaches out to me.
Perhaps that is a generation thing, but i think a polite "no thankyou" response is far more mature than just ghosting or a no show to an arranged meet up. Both are rather disrespectful in my opinion.
You would think that someone living with a like-minded passion would understand the courage it takes for someone to try and open a conversation and/or be willing to meet up. And therefore deserves the respect of a polite decline at minimum if nothing else.
 
MasterWhipYoAss said:
Communication is a huge thing weather in a relationship or not.
I think ghosting someone is quiet cowardly.
You have come to a public forum, put yourself out there, and said your available for chats to people and then arrange a meet up. Only to ghost them.
At least have the back bone to communicate with them and advise that they are not compatible or your not interested in what they have to offer, or your situation in life has changed and it is no long suitable.
What ever the case is, i dont think there is a need to ghost anyone unless they have displayed threatening or inappropriate behaviour. There is always a block or ignore button if they continue inappropriate messages.
To be honest i think ghosting shows maturity levels and it is probably an indication of a dodged bullet.
I will respond to anyone out of politeness even if i have no interest or compatibility with someone that reaches out to me.
Perhaps that is a generation thing, but i think a polite "no thankyou" response is far more mature than just ghosting or a no show to an arranged meet up. Both are rather disrespectful in my opinion.
You would think that someone living with a like-minded passion would understand the courage it takes for someone to try and open a conversation and/or be willing to meet up. And therefore deserves the respect of a polite decline at minimum if nothing else.
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Being polite is definitely a must but this website doesn’t send notifications directly to a phone so sometimes it’s a lack of checking the website you have to take that into account, but generally ghosting is an immature and rude habit
 
MasterWhipYoAss said:
Communication is a huge thing weather in a relationship or not.
I think ghosting someone is quiet cowardly.
You have come to a public forum, put yourself out there, and said your available for chats to people and then arrange a meet up. Only to ghost them.
At least have the back bone to communicate with them and advise that they are not compatible or your not interested in what they have to offer, or your situation in life has changed and it is no long suitable.
What ever the case is, i dont think there is a need to ghost anyone unless they have displayed threatening or inappropriate behaviour. There is always a block or ignore button if they continue inappropriate messages.
To be honest i think ghosting shows maturity levels and it is probably an indication of a dodged bullet.
I will respond to anyone out of politeness even if i have no interest or compatibility with someone that reaches out to me.
Perhaps that is a generation thing, but i think a polite "no thankyou" response is far more mature than just ghosting or a no show to an arranged meet up. Both are rather disrespectful in my opinion.
You would think that someone living with a like-minded passion would understand the courage it takes for someone to try and open a conversation and/or be willing to meet up. And therefore deserves the respect of a polite decline at minimum if nothing else.
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What’s ironic though is the poster of this thread ghosted me…
 
MasterWhipYoAss said:
Well fuck....
That is ironic.
I go back to maturity levels. 😉
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I believe she’s 39 and I think why she ghosted me is she’s looking for a knot but my boy only enjoys licking(I believe he was previously abused by his past owner I’ve been working on it with him but it’s been 4 years and he’s still touchy about it) but she messaged me first and once she heard that she never responded
 
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