I’ve thought the exact same thing too many times to count. Of course I just take it in stride. I know what I know and have done what I’ve done. Doesn’t really affect me if someone believes me or not.Why is it that most people ask if interest in animals is just a fantasty (as in I haven't done anything) or currently active?
There has to be plenty luke me who have experience but not currently active because I don't have a pet dog or access to one?
Interesting. I never thought of it as a "screening question". But the same issue still applies. And I think it's only men that ask me this question.I had the same. Most of users asking about that probably expecting we will share our sexual experience with dogs etc. They trying to avoid situation where they talking with "fantasy" people.
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I get that, but do people always assume it's fantasy or active? There's more options.Plenty of people enjoy the fantasy but will/would never act on it. That's why the question gets asked.
It was just a fantasy for me for many years before I actually gave in and tried it. I get the question.Why is it that most people ask if interest in animals is just a fantasty (as in I haven't done anything) or currently active?
There has to be plenty luke me who have experience but not currently active because I don't have a pet dog or access to one?
I guess they just ask because those are the main two.I get that, but do people always assume it's fantasy or active? There's more options.
I get that, but do people always assume it's fantasy or active? There's more options.