To get experience? Be patient, be honest (As much as practical), be active.
Your posting history will be a resume as it where, so think of that as you build your character, it helps best if your IRL presence is the same as your online presence.
Sadly you'll have to wade through inconceivable amounts of losers, desperate horny net trolls, and just sad and pathetic husks of things that think they're humans, par for the course of internet land but once you breach those hurdles, get to know a few of the real ones then doors begin to open.
Any who just want to hook up for a quick fuck should all ways raise red flags, and those all ways should be taken with grave consideration, it is a dangerous world.