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Trusting the person that you are chatting with

Haha oops! ? I’m totally kidding everyone! Your rotty just makes me squeee so much lol
 
The guidelines Southy posted in the dark ages still apply. If you stick to being patient, your gut will tell you what your nether regions will not. Talk. TALK some more. THEN, arrange the meet and STICK TO WORDS...then you'll know what you need to. If you drag it out a little, cops will give it up as a loss and move on. It isnt rocket science.
 
I always have 100% trust in a female that has just joined ZV, young, great looking and looking to meet up with the first guy who makes an offer for her to be mounted by your male dog. No red flags there. Should be 100% legit right? It was extremely common on BF and not uncommon here too. But seriously, time is your best allie although there's people out there that I just completely clicked with and had a compelling gut feeling they were exactly who they said they were and quickly built a long lasting friendship which is awesome. Then your only common drawback is distance usually if you do really find a great connection but with the internet these days distance can be overcome.
 
Interesting concept floating on the cloud of methane in here....people afraid to do a one-on-one meet who think they're bold enough to brace the entire mundane world, regardless of numbers, for their "Rights"....
 
I think the original post was trusting the person you are chatting with.

Probably no real threat in just chatting as long as no personal stuff is reveiled that can trace you back to your home, school, community etc. I guess its the next step in actual meetng IRL that involves the real risk.

When I was young I sought out the company of like minded people. Meet quite a few. The only risk back then was just being found out and being embarrassed. Now days a lot of laws. But I think age has a lot to do with wantng to meet others too. When I was young I sought out others IRL, now being an old fart, I really don't care. I remember people sharing their animals willingly and openly, where now, I would not want anyone having sex with any of my animals. It would seem like I would be pimping them out. When I was young I did not have as close emotional connection to my animals as I do now.

Having a few people know of my animal attraction is good enough for me. I feel no need to share with strangers. Perhaps strangers is the key word there.
 
saddlebum66 said:
Interesting concept floating on the cloud of methane in here....people afraid to do a one-on-one meet who think they're bold enough to brace the entire mundane world, regardless of numbers, for their "Rights"....
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Can you word this another way? It's one of those things where I assume what you mean instead of knowing...
 
after chatting for awhile i like to prove i am a genuine owner by taking a photo of one of my dogs not a fully body shot normally a night knotty pic and hold a piece of paper next to it with the persons user name on it :) and ask for the same in return no face or anything that could identify the person just to see they really are say female
had it this week agreed with a couple to i proved i was genuine then they would do the same in return i sent my pic i got a thank you then nothing till the next day then a message asking what i wanted i said only what we had agreed on i then got a pic of a piece of paper on a table with my user name on it witha a message saying there you go ! the go check us out on a another site we are real ! its soooo hard to trust people !
 
If it were more common to be betrayed like this, why have there not been any posts about it? All of my interactions have gone smoothly and the ones that didn't, were quite obvious.

Trust your gut. No really, it's not just a saying. If you think the other side isnt being genuine, time to ghost. If it's from a user who has no posts or history. Get out. Dont give away personal info and even inject fake shit like that you are a airline mechanic or someshit.

Also remember that so long as it is only ever text... there is nothing illegal. Nothing they can use in court etc. So dont provide content to them ever. Even if they offer it first, since it could be stolen/ fake content.
 
Its about trust/faith in someones character. Its chance but if you have any form of compatibility then its worth the risk more likely. Taking the assumption the party wants to mingle more.
 
One does not have to only be worried about being outed by a non-zoo. Zoos do it to each other, revealing personal info in retaliation. So not only is the sexual orientation important, but ones mental state as well. After all, zoophilia does correlate with other behaviors. I am sure many had met others who would not qualify as a person to invite home for diner with mom and dad.

Pillar - If you can not take small steps, how can you take big ones?
 
PonyLove said:
One does not have to only be worried about being outed by a non-zoo. Zoos do it to each other, revealing personal info in retaliation. So not only is the sexual orientation important, but ones mental state as well. After all, zoophilia does correlate with other behaviors. I am sure many had met others who would not qualify as a person to invite home for diner with mom and dad.

Pillar - If you can not take small steps, how can you take big ones?
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Jump around and flail instead? ?
 
k9owner said:
after chatting for awhile i like to prove i am a genuine owner by taking a photo of one of my dogs not a fully body shot normally a night knotty pic and hold a piece of paper next to it with the persons user name on it :) and ask for the same in return no face or anything that could identify the person just to see they really are say female
had it this week agreed with a couple to i proved i was genuine then they would do the same in return i sent my pic i got a thank you then nothing till the next day then a message asking what i wanted i said only what we had agreed on i then got a pic of a piece of paper on a table with my user name on it witha a message saying there you go ! the go check us out on a another site we are real ! its soooo hard to trust people !
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Totally agree as you never know who you're actually talking to on here. I'd send a pic with my profile name just to gain trust.
 
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