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Told my boyfriend

cumslut said:
A couple days ago I told my boyfriend that I was into bestiality. He asked alot of questions. He told me it doesn't bother him but it also doesn't turn him on :(.

We've only been dating for 7 months but I feel like he is the one. I asked him if I can have a couple dogs when we buy our apartment and he said idk. He doesn't know how he feels about them fucking me and him fucking me too. I did tell him I have had sex with a dog before and he still doesn't know what to think. Idk if I should have told him or not. I do want a man who wants to see me fucked by a dog regularly and gets super turned on by it. Idk what to do!
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I honestly don’t think anyone should just out themselves even to a romantic partner…too risky… You never know how things are going to turn out… or what that person will do with that information… One should always take the temperature first… Ask yourself: Is your partner kinky does your partner have any paraphilias themselves? For example watersports… are they open minded? do they accept/support other “non-traditional“ couplings? do they think it’s unusual if you were to buy a dog dildo from a bad dragon or a horse dildo? Or do they think it’s hot? have they seen furry porn? What are their thoughts of it? Have they seen FERAL (non-anthro) furry porn?

personally I don’t want to date someone unless I know from the get go that they are at least 100% fine with it. partially the reason I’m even on this site… to network with like-minded individuals who I might connect with on a deeper level… dating is hard enough as it is without having to keep being a zoo a secret…
 
You are very brave to open up to him. His reaction is at least not disgust, but I hope he realises how lucky he is and learns to embrace your desires. Good luck
 
cumslut said:
A couple days ago I told my boyfriend that I was into bestiality. He asked alot of questions. He told me it doesn't bother him but it also doesn't turn him on :(.

We've only been dating for 7 months but I feel like he is the one. I asked him if I can have a couple dogs when we buy our apartment and he said idk. He doesn't know how he feels about them fucking me and him fucking me too. I did tell him I have had sex with a dog before and he still doesn't know what to think. Idk if I should have told him or not. I do want a man who wants to see me fucked by a dog regularly and gets super turned on by it. Idk what to do!
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I acknowledged you for being honest and open with him with what you want. If it doesn't work out it's not meant to be, as hard as that is. There are plenty of great men who would love a gf like you, myself included. It's hard to find the right partner in the first place, but you need to do what makes you happy and fulfilled.
 
cumslut said:
A couple days ago I told my boyfriend that I was into bestiality. He asked alot of questions. He told me it doesn't bother him but it also doesn't turn him on :(.

We've only been dating for 7 months but I feel like he is the one. I asked him if I can have a couple dogs when we buy our apartment and he said idk. He doesn't know how he feels about them fucking me and him fucking me too. I did tell him I have had sex with a dog before and he still doesn't know what to think. Idk if I should have told him or not. I do want a man who wants to see me fucked by a dog regularly and gets super turned on by it. Idk what to do!
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I’ll be your boyfriend ??
 
DobieDogo said:
I honestly don’t think anyone should just out themselves even to a romantic partner…too risky… You never know how things are going to turn out… or what that person will do with that information… One should always take the temperature first… Ask yourself: Is your partner kinky does your partner have any paraphilias themselves? For example watersports… are they open minded? do they accept/support other “non-traditional“ couplings? do they think it’s unusual if you were to buy a dog dildo from a bad dragon or a horse dildo? Or do they think it’s hot? have they seen furry porn? What are their thoughts of it? Have they seen FERAL (non-anthro) furry porn?

personally I don’t want to date someone unless I know from the get go that they are at least 100% fine with it. partially the reason I’m even on this site… to network with like-minded individuals who I might connect with on a deeper level… dating is hard enough as it is without having to keep being a zoo a secret…
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I don’t think there are many women on here looking for a long term relationship with a man. It’s a really nice thought and I’d love to find a woman on here into the same things as me but I don’t think the women that are into the same things as me are looking for a relationship with a man????I could be wrong though??‍♂️I hope I am
 
Girl i admire you for being honest but also...werent you worried? 7 months seem very short? I had two boyfriends and both were not into zoo however i never told them i was just made some jokes to see their reactions...youre braver than me! Its hard finding a hook up let alone a stable relationship...with a zoo partner
 
cumslut said:
A couple days ago I told my boyfriend that I was into bestiality. He asked alot of questions. He told me it doesn't bother him but it also doesn't turn him on :(.

We've only been dating for 7 months but I feel like he is the one. I asked him if I can have a couple dogs when we buy our apartment and he said idk. He doesn't know how he feels about them fucking me and him fucking me too. I did tell him I have had sex with a dog before and he still doesn't know what to think. Idk if I should have told him or not. I do want a man who wants to see me fucked by a dog regularly and gets super turned on by it. Idk what to do!
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I really hope it all works out in your favor :)
 
HappyDoggyLover said:
Girl i admire you for being honest but also...werent you worried? 7 months seem very short? I had two boyfriends and both were not into zoo however i never told them i was just made some jokes to see their reactions...youre braver than me! Its hard finding a hook up let alone a stable relationship...with a zoo partner
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It’s like damn near impossible to find someone into the things we are irl. It’s rough out there
 
HappyDoggyLover said:
Yes!!! Its so rough out there...plus that added stress of would they tell anyone if we broke up...thats why i decided the next person i date must be a zoo
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I took the opposite approach of denying myself what I’m into in order to get married?I’m not married yet so there’s still time
 
WolfLoverX said:
I took the opposite approach of denying myself what I’m into in order to get married?I’m not married yet so there’s still time
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Hahaha i realised that for me personally its not going to work out in the long run...my kinks and desires are strong...im going to be unsatisfied and unhappy and in turn will make my partner unhappy...i rather be honest and just wait for someone who gets it. I dont want to hurt someone down the line or deny myself
 
HappyDoggyLover said:
Hahaha i realised that for me personally its not going to work out in the long run...my kinks and desires are strong...im going to be unsatisfied and unhappy and in turn will make my partner unhappy...i rather be honest and just wait for someone who gets it. I dont want to hurt someone down the line or deny myself
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fair enough. It’s a lot harder to find women into it than men though I think?Idk I could be wrong but I haven’t had any luck so far; as far as women into animals that is
 
WolfLoverX said:
fair enough. It’s a lot harder to find women into it than men though I think?Idk I could be wrong but I haven’t had any luck so far; as far as women into animals that is
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No you're right...seems like more men are into it compared to women. I on the other hand cant find a man thats into and wants a stable relationship. Hahahaha so here we both are ?
 
HappyDoggyLover said:
No you're right...seems like more men are into it compared to women. I on the other hand cant find a man thats into and wants a stable relationship. Hahahaha so here we both are ?
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I can’t find a woman into it that both wants a stable relationship and is worth building a relationship with?At this point I’ve chosen to be single for a bit unless I meet someone I’m interested in pursuing you know?
 
Ted Danson Machine said:
7 months and you are already so sure he's the one that you told him something that could ruin your life?

I have a feeling you're young, and I mean no offense by that. Just, be careful. Many lives have been ruined by the "wrong" one finding out they were zoo. Good luck
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Is there really ever anyone you could truly trust? I don't think I'd be able to get there with anybody, even if I knew them for over a decade. How would you know?
 
Let that sank in. Give him some time. Do nothing else, no pressure. He'll not forget it.

Maybe he'll imagine it and find out whether he can get comfortable with it or not. You'll find out when the dogs arrive at the latest. But you have to assume that he doesn't find it alright or worse. The fact that he ultimately finds it hot would be a win in the lottery.

How sexually open is he? Is he quick to judge things/people/things that happen? Is he a jealous person? Does he have a small ego?
 
WolfLoverX said:
fair enough. It’s a lot harder to find women into it than men though I think?Idk I could be wrong but I haven’t had any luck so far; as far as women into animals that is
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I think it’s more common in women that most people think. However, for them I think it’s more of an experimental phase and they are either into it or not. From the stories I have heard where a guy meets a women that comes into it, they had previous experience in the past, or it was a thing they didn’t discuss until their partner brought it up.
 
So sorry OP that your bf is not into it. I told my gf and she laughed and thought I was super naughty. Didn't bother her a bit... Ha ha, we're still friends now. At least you were completely honest which I admire. Goodluck if he's the one ?
 
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