The loneliness

[Puhp]

Man, this thread took a dark and slightly abusive turn. Lots of judgment and name-calling.

I gotta tell you, there's an absolute GRIP of folks who get off on edging, and plenty of people (men and women alike) who LIKE AND PREFER orgasm denial. Orgasm - especially in men - can bring about a calmness and a lack of desire for sex known as the refractory period (time between orgasm and being ready again). Some people prefer the sensation of being aroused constantly, and find pleasure that state, at which point orgasm removes that "edge."

Beyond that, masturbation - while it's natural and has PLENTY of benefits - has a few drawbacks as well. The sex drive pushes us to seek interaction, flirtation, and even sexual intimacy with others. Taking a month off from getting off could bear some significant fruit socially. Or it could help a couple rekindle their sex lives.

This is a pretty harmless approach - Just cause it's not for you, seems a little judgey to call people an idiot for attempting to enjoy their own sexuality.

Just my .02.

 

[topstud]

Man, this thread took a dark and slightly abusive turn. Lots of judgment and name-calling.

I gotta tell you, there's an absolute GRIP of folks who get off on edging, and plenty of people (men and women alike) who LIKE AND PREFER orgasm denial. Orgasm - especially in men - can bring about a calmness and a lack of desire for sex known as the refractory period (time between orgasm and being ready again). Some people prefer the sensation of being aroused constantly, and find pleasure that state, at which point orgasm removes that "edge."

Beyond that, masturbation - while it's natural and has PLENTY of benefits - has a few drawbacks as well. The sex drive pushes us to seek interaction, flirtation, and even sexual intimacy with others. Taking a month off from getting off could bear some significant fruit socially. Or it could help a couple rekindle their sex lives.

This is a pretty harmless approach - Just cause it's not for you, seems a little judgey to call people an idiot for attempting to enjoy their own sexuality.

Just my .02.

Don't you come in here with your facts! This is a fact-free safe space!!!

 

[Panda Chen]

Tonight I complete NNN, something a hyper sexual male, who is doped up to his eyes on some test boosters should be proud of.

I'm 29, I live in Scotland and I see my life going two ways. I either set and know my life will never be complete and I'll be living a lie or I find a girl who is into fucking dogs. (TOUGH TASK)

It's nights like these that make me think I'll never be truly happy, I'm a good looking lad, good build, job and I own my own flat...due to life I don't own a dog as it wouldn't be fair for him to be left 8 hours. Don't get me wrong I've considered it! I've had zoo pornstars on speed dial for sometime and they want me to get them a dog to dog them again, but it's just sex.

I want a connection to a woman, like me .... something real.

As my mind slips down a spiral I listen to my friends in the scene, telling me to contact onlyfans models and asking if they like this stuff or talking to Eastern European woman because apparently it's massive over there....I mean the likes of dogwoman and raven are beautiful but I'm not coming across them in a pub!

I hope you've enjoyed my Decent of madness and well wishes.

If you are like me, you're not alone and one day we'll dine in Valhalla

The fact is if you rely on others to create happiness for you, you will likely never be happy for long and certainly not your entire life. You have to find happiness for yourself and then share it with others. Or accept not being happy and figure out how to live with that. Find the joy in the sorrow and loneliness or something like that. It's your choice and up to you.