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So many fakes

I see so many fakes, but not from trying to meet in person, or chat. I just see accounts that are supposed to be a woman, but it's most likely a guy.

Yes, there are real women posting here, and also many t that are silently browsing, but the number of fakes on the sex question discussions is pretty high.
 
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Some people are real. If people don't look somewhere then it's no wonder love is more and more dead. There has to be a place for it.

Lot of fakes though. I just got someone in my own message box. "Type to u like dis" is a givaway for a start. If someone can't use proper words then they're either a bot or too lazy and not making an effort to keep communication clear. At least use proper words.

It's mostly going to be the accounts with only a letter (You don't count of course). Someone with a profile picture will at least have tried to make an effort to stand out more.

Keep in mind that real people that struggle with communication isn't people being "fake". That's just how arguments tend to go at first. If you ghost/block (etc) then that's your mistake. People aren't going to make it easy for you. Better get used to it.
 
I understand the desire to find someone. Hell, I originally joined because I wanted to find a partner who was into zoo, but quickly realized that a lot of people here are either faking or just want to quickly get off and then move on.
You just have to be careful, and also realistic with your expectations. I see a lot of people who ask if any owners would let them fuck their animals, and they’re idiots for expecting results. Anyone quick to offer you an opportunity for zoo sex is more likely fake than not.
That’s why I’m not even looking for that anymore, just looking to make friends now. And that’s obtainable by just having normal interactions with people and seeing if any of them eventually reach out. Hopefully you can find a genuine connection with someone, but don’t expect experience.

Also,
Mesond said:
Keep in mind that real people that struggle with communication isn't people being "fake". That's just how arguments tend to go at first. If you ghost/block (etc) then that's your mistake. People aren't going to make it easy for you. Better get used to it.
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Thanks for mentioning this. I feel like people would think I’m a fake because of my limited post history, and some of it being in the meetup section, when really I’m just really shy and nervous yet also looking to make a friend :LOL:
 
Renee said:
I see so many fakes, but not from trying to meet in person, or chat. I just see accounts that are supposed to be a woman, but it's most likely a guy.

Yes, there are real women posting here, and also many t that are silently browsing, but the number of fakes on the sex question discussions is pretty high.
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That’s so sad because I dislike talking to guys and I don’t consider myself a perv towards girls I like having conversations with them and it’s easier for me so makes it sad if their fakes that I talk to
 
Let's consider what fake even means.

Let's start with liars. Not the unintended assumptions. The intended lies. Some people will even say they prefer lies and would want to cling to delusions. I have one question for people like that. "How do you know if you can trust yourself?"

Cowards won't have the courage to communicate when they don't like what they hear. Worse then liars. To a coward people trying to communicate can be "fake". People with trust issues will assume that "they're full of it". But if people don't even hold converastions then how can they possibly know? Answer: They can't. People flee with their assumptions. You will lie to yourself first and foremost.

Let's consider that people live in denial as the norm. It's ingrained into us after all. If everything seems "fake", if it seems like you're living a lie then just why might that be?

Is it possible that You could be fake?

The first question I asked myself ten years ago was this. "Am I living a lie?" If that isn't the first question you ask yourself then you might want to make it one.

There's also the fact people can feel lost. Not exactly "fake". More "Unknown". It can make people feel disconnected. Even hollow.

There's a number of factors at play. What it boils down too is this though. If you're afraid of losing control then you already have.

People often settle for the illusion. In reality the best thing to do is to admit when you're afraid. That's when situations go better. When people admit what they do and how they feel and such. And yes, it can and does happen online. But only if you're traeting people as if they're "actually" there. Instead of ghosting/avoiding like you can wiggle out of consequences.

There's a lot more to it, but stick to the basics. If you're actually in control then you won't be afraid.
 
if u question a user u could call him/her out there and wait for a response:

Fake User Awareness Thread

Hey guys, So I've had a couple responses to my ads in the meet up section now, that have been fakes looking to speak to me, get to know me / meet me for whatever reason, but it is not because they are genuine owners. They are blatantly fake. I've just had another contact me today who...
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Tieplayer said:
Why are there so many fakes on here that claim to be owners and want to help. You start chatting and then come to find out, they only want pictures to satisfy themselves with. I'm super serious here and I really want to find someone that will help me. ::FML::
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I just realized that we have chatted since we live in the same area. I actually thought maybe you were a dude faking it at first. I think your husband also contacted me. ??? I'm not sure because I ignore most of my messages because people still think I'm the girl in the avatar. I was warned what would happen, and they were 100% correct. Lots of thirsty horny dudes (and lesbians) messaging me every day. I can only imagine what happens to actual women here.

I think I made the mistake of saying I was an owner when I first started posting here, not knowing what message that sent. Yeah, I don't want to pimp out my dog. Especially for a "price" of pictures/videos and/or sex which seems to be the going rate.

I'm a newb too and still learning but I'm not opposed to getting to know you guys better on here though. ;)
 
UR20Z said:
Fear? Of obligations? What obligations?
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You mean when you made the post about how people "don't have too" when you went on about how people aren't entitled to answers in the ghost thread?

I think I know what your concern was.

If someone actually says "you have too" word for word then that's a different matter (as opposed to just assuming). Even trained psychotherapists can make the mistake of saying something like "you need". I know this because I've challenged them myself.

When people make mistakes like that it's like they can be "dishonest". Which they are when they make such mistakes and speak falsely. Leading to giving off a "fake" impression. In truth people just make mistakes.

In short I think your biggest concern is when people go "You have too" and "You need". If so then I can understand why.
 
Mesond said:
You mean when you made the post about how people "don't have too" when you went on about how people aren't entitled to answers in the ghost thread?

I think I know what your concern was.

If someone actually says "you have too" word for word then that's a different matter (as opposed to just assuming). Even trained psychotherapists can make the mistake of saying something like "you need". I know this because I've challenged them myself.

When people make mistakes like that it's like they can be "dishonest". Which they are when they make such mistakes and speak falsely. Leading to giving off a "fake" impression. In truth people just make mistakes.

In short I think your biggest concern is when people go "You have too" and "You need". If so then I can understand why.
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Try that again in something that at least resembles English, rather than randomly selected bits of whatever passes for your "stream of conciousness", and I MIGHT be able to figure out what the hell you're babbling about.

Hint: Complete thoughts, structured as sentences, rather than half-assed attempts to insinuate (but dear god, never actually say what you mean!) something, are a great aid in actual conversations.
 
pes said:
This is not a dating site.
There is no incentive for people to be genuine.
Do not use the forum for dating.
The meetup section exists so we have a place where to move the trash that would otherwise be polluting the rest of the forum which is meant to have useful discussiosorry, I just have to disagree with one thing. People should not need incentive to be genuine. That should just come natural.
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Mesond said:
. "Type to u like dis" is a givaway for a start. If someone can't use proper words then they're either a bot or too lazy and not making an effort to keep communication clear.
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To be fair some of us have disabilities. We're not lesser people for difficulty with buttons.
 
Spiderspooker said:
To be fair some of us have disabilities. We're not lesser people for difficulty with buttons.
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To be fair, using disabilities is often an excuse for bad habits.

That doesn't mean I don't understand people can't struggle. But people that go "I'm just like this and don't do anything about it" don't get any sympathy from me.

Can be easier said then done though. I try not to judge people too harshly for it. But there comes a point it becomes an excuse.

If people getting hit by a truck and suffering from life long injuries can do it then you can.
 
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Spiderspooker said:
To be fair some of us have disabilities. We're not lesser people for difficulty with buttons.
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Nope, you're not "lesser" - You're just lazy. Which, in my books, is even worse.

Find another (lame) excuse. This is a forum, not a text message - you're not limited to 240 characters, and you're under no time constraints.

And don't even think about trying to give me any guff about "difficulty with buttons" - a (now deceased, sadly) friend of mine was, thanks to a nasty accident involving not dodging fast enough when the hay wagon was backing into the barn for unloading, wheelchair bound, prone to anywhere from 5 to 20 "fling himself out of his wheelchair if he wasn't belted in" level seizures in a day, and had just enough vision left to be able to tell whether or not he was facing the sun. If HE could type messages in English (which he did, quite well), so can you. (or anybody else who isn't dead below the neck - and even most of them, once they get used to typing via sip-puff controls)
 
UR20Z said:
Gold star for catching the EXACT reference I was going for :) (Don't even need to click to play to know it's right)

Luv ya, Flash, ol' buddy! :) Now get me that bunny's address and tell her to be waiting in bed, nekkid.
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Oh I got the reference. I cannot walk into the dmv with cracking up
 
sarahsingletono98 said:
can I borrow your sarcasm for like 24 hours? I need your level of rapid fire insults for some customers. Preferably a Friday or Saturday night
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What makes you think that was sarcasm?

But sure - I can pencil you in for ... Hmmm... Looks like somewhere in the middle of June ought to be free.

My consulting fee starts at $1500/hour, billed from the time I step out the front door until the time I go back in, with a four hour minimum, plus all expenses (which includes, but is not limited to, travel, food, and lodging, all of which absolutely MUST be first class)

Shall I put you down for - Oh, let's say the 21st or 22nd of June? :)
 
UR20Z said:
What makes you think that was sarcasm?

But sure - I can pencil you in for ... Hmmm... Looks like somewhere in the middle of June ought to be free.

My consulting fee starts at $1500/hour, billed from the time I step out the front door until the time I go back in, with a four hour minimum, plus all expenses (which includes, but is not limited to, travel, food, and lodging, all of which absolutely MUST be first class)

Shall I put you down for - Oh, let's say the 21st or 22nd of June? :)
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By first class, I assume you mean Wendys dollar menu rather than taco bell. Travel and Lodging, you can sleep in the car. Since you prefer first class, you can sleep in the spacious reclining front seats. $1500 peso per hour is no problem (you did Not specify usdollar) if you are coming to me, you assume I am letting you leave? and please dear lawd do not take that sexual, I am clearly thinking Cathy Bates misery here. Yes june 21-22, the new cuffs should be here by then.
 
sarahsingletono98 said:
I will take all the one liners I can get.
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"You have nothing to fear but your own weakness and inability".

"The world is changed by your example. Not your opinion."

"Find a way. Not an excuse."

"Life is short, and every moment is precious."

"Self reflection is the school of wisdom."

"A lot of people will love you if you let them."
 
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