Unfortunately we live in a world now days where intimacy is slowly dying off (not for everyone of course) and people see others as avatars more than a person. Between snapchat, onlyfans, movies, music, list goes on...we've created this world that preys on loneliness and wants people seen as objects. Like I said, not everyone is like that for sure, but society tries so hard to move in that direction and it's gross. So I completely understand where a lot of women come from feeling so reserved, especially on places like this.
But, I believe more threads like this are great. I guess as sappy as it sounds, don't let love be lost? lol I'm the type who wants that "forever" instead of a quick date or meet up, could never do a one night stand honestly. I tried and my emotions got the best of me, felt..guilty almost. Maybe I'm just an oddity.