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Recently discovered I’m into cheating on my partner

Aspen Tuwal said:
I mean, technically the original poster didn't say that they actually cheated on someone, just that they find it hot and that they've been with humans and dogs, and I agree that finding something arousing, in and of itself, is not harmful. No one gets to choose what arouses them, but most people can choose if and how to act on those desires. If they did hurt someone by cheating on them, then yeah, that's certainly behavior to be rejected, but just finding the idea hot shouldn't be condemned.
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"I’ve experimented both with male dogs and human males" don't know about you, but I'm pretty sure that means they've cheated. Also the fact that if it was just a fantasy, I'm pretty sure they would've made that clear.
 
no, not only i think its dishonest , but an alarm... , if you need to cheat on someone then you aren't fine with such and you are just using him/her for some sort of support (but you do not respect the person at all)
Unless you both agree on cuckolding which is totally fine as it will be a part of the relationship kink.
 
This topic was a wild read and has me chuckling for everyone's collective "what the fuck?" especially the Fallout "Everyone Dislikes That"

I was looking for stuff outside the horny posting and that this was what I found, it made me happy.

I've been on both sides, have felt horrific after in all cases. Wouldn't recommend it.

That you've gone so far to do it (assumedly without their consent) speaks volumes to a likely deep dysfunction in your relationship, and honestly hope it's that you're a shitty asshole vs. the alternative that you've found yourself in an abusive situation which is the only time I could ever imagine myself condoning it.

Hope that life allows better for your partner and yourself soon either way.


If you just found the idea hot, that's what sublimating your desires and communicating with your partner is for.
 
Meg97 said:
I have to admit, that topic is well prepared trolling. Of course lot of people are triggered but user peperohno haven't responded yet. Maybe he is waiting for more drama? Who knows..

Typical common troll topic 🤔
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Sadly I am not do sure about this idea of trolling I have actually known some guys in the past who were genuine about how manly it was to be player and was to be expected to be considered a cool, "real" man no matter if your were married or in a serious relationship and promised to someone. These guys were sick, disgusting individuals and constantly bragged about their latest conquests, and how it really didn't matter what their significant others thought or felt about. The military has for a long time had what they call the wall of shame it is a place where a person or their spouses photo is displayed to show what an absolute piece of crap they were. When I was stationed in England in the air force the cheat rate was around 90% on base. It was the reason we instituted a two person policy if some had to go visit someone's spouse. We were a special ops base so folks were away quite often. Leaving the door open for all kinds of inappropriate behavior. It was even a mess at the Christian college I attended after I got out of the military. Folks were just as messed up there if not more so in some instances. It upset me to no end when I saw the number of lives it ruined. So yeah never underestimate the trash that is around us every day. Even the church I used to attend hd its share of proud cheaters.

As you can see I have my reasons for believing this may in fact be genuine bad behavior at its worst.
 
I prefer the companionship of a human male partner (im gay). So its hard to entertain my zoo side and have a partner without cheating sexually. I dont really consider it cheating though... its just sex.
 
Valkiria said:
Just as no one has taken away our right to be disgusted by dishonest and sneaky scumbags who have betrayed the people closest to them.
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That's true but all of that is your opinion the disgusted and scumbag are emotional responses to something you see as wrong. Others may see them as a kink and if you sit there and judge then you open yourself up to judgement this site is a "taboo" site and most "normal" people will judge and belittle all of us for just being on this site. All I'm saying is we shouldn't be the pot calling the kettle black.
 
I like the roll play aspect of it. Straight guy asked me once what a gay pick up line was. I said , "I'm married " he was like oh that's true, nobody wants you until you're taken.

Those bad bitches just want to wreck some homes. Regardless of gender. If that's what you're into just use protection. Maybe someday you'll meet someone who's into being cheated on. Stranger things have happened. If I was married to a porn star I'd almost expect it. I don't think I would mind. But the second I said I was ok with it I guess it looses your interest huh... that's a catch 22 there bud.
 
wanttowatchirl said:
That's true but all of that is your opinion the disgusted and scumbag are emotional responses to something you see as wrong. Others may see them as a kink and if you sit there and judge then you open yourself up to judgement this site is a "taboo" site and most "normal" people will judge and belittle all of us for just being on this site. All I'm saying is we shouldn't be the pot calling the kettle black.
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This is not your fuckin' "taboo" or a kink, this is flat out dishonest, mean and rude cheating on someone, who trusts you.
 
Valkiria said:
This is not your fuckin' "taboo" or a kink, this is flat out dishonest, mean and rude cheating on someone, who trusts you.
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And again the way you look at things are not the same way that other people see them. And yes it is considered a kink. "Mean,rude,dishonest. Thoses are all again feelings your feelings at that and maybe other people's as well but its still not any other persons right to judge other people.
 
wanttowatchirl said:
And again the way you look at things are not the same way that other people see them. And yes it is considered a kink. "Mean,rude,dishonest. Thoses are all again feelings your feelings at that and maybe other people's as well but its still not any other persons right to judge other people.
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Judge you? Look the fuckin' up, scroll the thread and see with your own eyes if anyone supports your "kink". Clearly everyone is individual and not influenced by others, but any sane person will tell you that - yes - cheating is mean, rude and dishonest. I cannot understand your insistence on proving that you are a deceitful wretch, disrespectful of your partner and willing to betray the one who trusts you. (n)
 
Valkiria said:
Judge you? Look the fuckin' up, scroll the thread and see with your own eyes if anyone supports your "kink". Clearly everyone is individual and not influenced by others, but any sane person will tell you that - yes - cheating is mean, rude and dishonest. I cannot understand your insistence on proving that you are a deceitful wretch, disrespectful of your partner and willing to betray the one who trusts you. (n)
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Like I said YOUR opinion. I haven't ever cheated on any of my partners but I have known people on both sides of this and people who stand in the middle on this because it's not their place to say anything. There are whole religions that allow people to take way more then one partner and not chose who they get married to or who they are paired with are they wrong? Are they disrespectful? Who are you to chose what's right or wrong? Are you perfect? Do you not have flaws? Oh and I guarantee there are way more people that support a cheating kink (because thats what it is) then a zoo kink and that's just fucking statistics. Also before you go calling names you may want to scroll the feed and see who the OP is dumbass and clearly you have been influenced by others or you wouldn't get so heated over a discussion. Maybe you have been cheated on and you never got closure so you manifest those feeling towards others.
 
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