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Question: about people seeking owners

Alina1002 said:
I already decided not to, so how about get out of my personal life, yea? If you're not gonna answer my question and just attack me telling me what I'm doing wrong based on your own opinions and beliefs then just don't comment at all. I'm not going to go and do anything with anyone's dog so back off and stop replying to me or you're getting blocked. K.thx.bye


He was only just saying he disagrees with what dartel said, calm your tits 🤣🤣🤣 people do different things for different reasons and have different opinions, let's not attack each other on my post, yea? 😊
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UNTIL you've been here long enough to recognize what's being said, and why, don't be quick to think you actually do. This character is likely a post Ban returnee cranking the screws because he didnt like being banned. The mods are trying to ascertain that as we speak.
But why else would I ask who he was Last month?

And nothing you put into "General Discussion" is 'your post' after you hit the big blue button.

Really not looking to fight....Id like to see you stick around.
 
saddlebum66 said:
UNTIL you've been here long enough to recognize what's being said, and why, don't be quick to think you actually do. This character is likely a post Ban returnee cranking the screws because he didnt like being banned. The mods are trying to ascertain that as we speak.
But why else would I ask who he was Last month?

And nothing you put into "General Discussion" is 'your post' after you hit the big blue button.

Really not looking to fight....Id like to see you stick around.
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Didn't know that. I'm literally only 2 days new lmao
 
Mare Lover 1975 said:
Two new accounts after this one actually, little princess and animegirl so far, both caught in the spam filter.
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that is a massive red flag, I keep accounts till the forum dies or I die, if you need to make new names all the time, some one needs to do serious self reflection on what is wrong with them selfs, as no amount of name changes are going to fix the core of the problem, them selfs!

As the old saying goes, choose wisely before you put a name to paper!
 
A possible reason for the second account was that she was not satisfied with the difference in opinion in her thread.
But I refuse to delete comments where the discussion could have been avoided if the OP practice the art of not replying.
Moreover they have already replied at the time of reporting it.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
Seems to me that the majority of owners dont bother to comment in threads like this.

Most just click in, and click right back out again. For the same reason most owners who ever go to the personals section for a look, click in, read whats posted there, or a part of whats posted there and click back out and go on with life as before.

There's a reason for that. And a reason most dont bother commenting. Its the same reason why there are a 1000 posts looking that have zero replies. And more being made everyday that will go the same way.

And too, there are a lot of posts like this, posts where whoever is posting insists they want no owner contact and how its not right that everyone who owns a dog seems to want something in return.

Its fair to ask why that's the case. Just as its fair to say no contact is what you seek. Everyone has an idea of what they want and what they dont want, thats as natural as breathing.

What we never see is an owner commenting from an owner perspective in regards to those who seek dog sex with no owner contact.

Unless its from the more zoosexual side of things and then the perspective is the same as if someone has asked to use someone elses wife or husband as a sextoy.

And, thats a fair comment. Just as fair as if it were entirely human context that were being discussed.

Owners rarely comment in these threads unless its in simp form pledging they only want to watch, be there, whatever.

What never gets said is that owners also have requirements or criteria based on things they want or things they are seeking just as much as anyone who is looking for a k9 has.

You want k9 sex, guys who own dogs that are members here are interested in women interested in k9 sex. That should not be too difficult of a concept to understand.

Where else would some guy who owns a dog and has this interest be likely to find a woman interested in this than here?

You have your interests, I have mine. Many people act like my interests are selfish while theirs are completely justified. And thats why there are so many of those empty personals ads here and why they will continue to be DOA as soon as they are posted.

At the end of the day, whether anyone acknowledges that concept or not, everyone here who is seeking this is going to be affected by it. That's the reality.

Many members here set themselves an impossible task by setting unreasonable restrictions. Most of them go out of their way to be clear about that in ways that come across as if they have assumed they get to dictate how everything will work.

While it is certainly their right to set their own terms, they somehow fail to also see its my right to not even bother talking to them.

There are plenty of owners here that are more than willing to provide what you seek with zero contact with you required, but what often happens is members come off entitled and selfish and THOSE owners dont want to deal with them either. So, no one meets anyone and no one gets what they want.

How YOU present what you seek has a very real effect on what type of results you get.

This is ALL mix and match and negotiation. Thats the reality. Its all give and take. I always tell people to discuss their terms in DMs and NOT drop that shit in whatever post they make looking for this. Because what always happens is they state all this shit in ways that comes across self-centered, entitled, and unreasonable and the end result is always the same. No or very very few serious replies and the high side of it is a million mouthbreather replies from internet masturbators who are just going to waste everyones time. They dont own dogs but they think if you fuck dogs, you'll fuck them anyway.

And occasionally, someone ends up meeting someone who has no clue what they are doing and borrows a dog from friends or family and since you dont know any better, you just signed up for a bad experience.

Bottom line is, if you arent getting what you want, at what point do you actually change what you're doing? Its fine to have your own set of preferences, but, you need to understand that other people have preferences too which are as important to them as yours are to you.

You just have to match those up. Thats life.

And, you also need to realize that this is, and always has been, a sellers market. There are FAR more looking for owners than there are owners looking the other way. And, your preferences might not be working in your favor.
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Where does one fine the personals section lol
 
saddlebum66 said:
And, with 6 posts after a month of membership, we're supposed to accept a word YOU say? So who were you before you got kicked? Or are you one of the boys who creeps around behind the scenes soliciting .....ummm, making your services available?

FleshConnerz....whose flesh are you conning, chum?
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Accept my word or don’t. Certainly I am not the only gentlemanly pervert on this site that actually have a natural respect for women or just people in general and don’t feel the need to use the negotiation in order to get themselves laid. While there certainly are those out there that will attempt to attach their own pleasures being met in alongside their pets, that is absolutely not the standard. Just FYI I don’t provide my services to just any one that responds. I allow for a safe, comfortable environment in which to enjoy an experience, chum-bum
 
FleshConnerz said:
Accept my word or don’t. Certainly I am not the only gentlemanly pervert on this site that actually have a natural respect for women or just people in general and don’t feel the need to use the negotiation in order to get themselves laid. While there certainly are those out there that will attempt to attach their own pleasures being met in alongside their pets, that is absolutely not the standard. Just FYI I don’t provide my services to just any one that responds. I allow for a safe, comfortable environment in which to enjoy an experience, chum-bum
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Sorry, bub....but with that track record going for you, and no crowd attesting to your 'natural respect', its difficult to see you as anything different than the OTHER 200 k pervs that haunt sites like this.
 
saddlebum66 said:
And, with 6 posts after a month of membership, we're supposed to accept a word YOU say? So who were you before you got kicked? Or are you one of the boys who creeps around behind the scenes soliciting .....ummm, making your services available?

FleshConnerz....whose flesh are you conning, chum?
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That is harsh and judgemental. What makes what you say any more valid?
 
WI_GS_Owner said:
That is harsh and judgemental. What makes what you say any more valid?
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Twenty five years of watching "gentlemen" behave like pigs, and listening to the gals they took advantage of. If anyone is going to trust an online-initiated meet, what are they going to base it on? Thin Air?

And since YOU were not the original addressee, why are YOU so insulted? A little transference going on there?
 
I’m new here too, but as an owner I have met up with a couple of ladies in the same situation as you. I never expected or demanded to get involved. If the lady wanted to then of course I would, but it was never a prerequisite. My advice would be, keep looking, there will be some decent owners out there.
 
WI_GS_Owner said:
The only "requirement" that I have is that I get to watch. I make no depends of having sex, interacting with the woman, or recording. I will ask about recording and if she says no that is ok. If she asks about sex we would discuss it but it is not a requirement in order for her to be mounted by my dog.
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Great post. I wish you lived close!
 
saddlebum66 said:
Twenty five years of watching "gentlemen" behave like pigs, and listening to the gals they took advantage of. If anyone is going to trust an online-initiated meet, what are they going to base it on? Thin Air?

And since YOU were not the original addressee, why are YOU so insulted? A little transference going on there?
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No transference at all, just you sitting on your high horse being judgemental, that is all
 
It truly amazes me as an owner, how many woman and men think because your an owner you should share your dog with them without wanting anything in return.
Like, i have spent thousands of dollars on my companion and countless hours training him to behave and be courteous and polite, respectful around others etc. What, just for your benefit.? on the hope that id meet some random for a one night stand to satisfy your urges, wants and needs.?
Some people are delusional ..
I bring an experienced owner/handler and a friendly, healthy well trained companion to the party, That is going to give you what you want and desire..
What are you bringing or proposing to offer during this encounter. Nothing but selfishness and a list of expectations with a large feeling of entitlement to my companion, just because you woke up one day and decided you want to fuck a dog.
Fuck off..
I haven't invested all that money and time into him to just whore him out to some slut that is self centred and only in it for herself, just because she wants a cheap thrill behind her partners back. ( Deemed to be "not cheating" ).😆
It's not cheating is your partner is involved or is fully aware and comfortable with what you are doing. !
I want a loving caring healthy relationship for my companion and myself.
Im also a strong believer that you never get the full potential of a sexual partner from a one night stand.
It takes time to get to know your partner and build trust, connection, commitment, and bond with them in order to unlock the full potential they can bring to the sexual experience. A wham bam thankyou ma'am is not going to be a fulfilling encounter.
Even human partners in BDSM situations, i never go full out on the first engagement with them. I ease into it testing the boundaries and limits agree upon, this is to gauge the others reactions to the situations. It could take 3-6 meet ups before im comfortable to unleash "Sir" fully on a partner..
It's not a lot different with my companion, he needs to get to know you first, and i need to know how you react with him and treat him and vice versa.
 

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MasterWhipYoAss said:
It truly amazes me as an owner, how many woman and men think because your an owner you should share your dog with them without wanting anything in return.
Like, i have spent thousands of dollars on my companion and countless hours training him to behave and be courteous and polite, respectful around others etc. What, just for your benefit.? on the hope that id meet some random for a one night stand to satisfy your urges, wants and needs.?
Some people are delusional ..
I bring an experienced owner/handler and a friendly, healthy well trained companion to the party, That is going to give you what you want and desire..
What are you bringing or proposing to offer during this encounter. Nothing but selfishness and a list of expectations with a large feeling of entitlement to my companion, just because you woke up one day and decided you want to fuck a dog.
Fuck off..
I haven't invested all that money and time into him to just whore him out to some slut that is self centred and only in it for herself, just because she wants a cheap thrill behind her partners back. ( Deemed to be "not cheating" ).😆
It's not cheating is your partner is involved or is fully aware and comfortable with what you are doing. !
I want a loving caring healthy relationship for my companion and myself.
Im also a strong believer that you never get the full potential of a sexual partner from a one night stand.
It takes time to get to know your partner and build trust, connection, commitment, and bond with them in order to unlock the full potential they can bring to the sexual experience. A wham bam thankyou ma'am is not going to be a fulfilling encounter.
Even human partners in BDSM situations, i never go full out on the first engagement with them. I ease into it testing the boundaries and limits agree upon, this is to gauge the others reactions to the situations. It could take 3-6 meet ups before im comfortable to unleash "Sir" fully on a partner..
It's not a lot different with my companion, he needs to get to know you first, and i need to know how you react with him and treat him and vice versa.
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Truth.

I'd like to say I'm astounded by the overall sense of general entitlement that is often in evidence here, but, I'm really not.

It's just too much in evidence overall to be surprising.

That being said, there are many grounded members here that DONT exhibit this type of attitude and over the years, I've spoken with many and met with a few of these.

At the end of the day, the results that people get here says a lot about the approach that's chosen. Those who get meets here have things in common, and those who aren't getting meets have things in common as well.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
Truth.

I'd like to say I'm astounded by the overall sense of general entitlement that is often in evidence here, but, I'm really not.

It's just too much in evidence overall to be surprising.

That being said, there are many grounded members here that DONT exhibit this type of attitude and over the years, I've spoken with many and met with a few of these.

At the end of the day, the results that people get here says a lot about the approach that's chosen. Those who get meets here have things in common, and those who aren't getting meets have things in common as well.
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Haha your right there.
And yes your right not all interactions have been negative.
 
WI_GS_Owner said:
No transference at all, just you sitting on your high horse being judgemental, that is all
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How is he being judgmental. It’s called having manners and respect for another human being. You sound like those assholes back in high school. A girls not a slut until she has fucked all your friends but won’t fuck you. Just because they enjoy being fucked by dogs, horses or whatever doesn’t mean they would enjoy fucking you or enjoy being talked to like their only worth or value in the world is that they enjoy taboo sex acts. Just don’t be so eager to get yourself off and be respectful until the time is right not to.
 
FleshConnerz said:
How is he being judgmental. It’s called having manners and respect for another human being. You sound like those assholes back in high school. A girls not a slut until she has fucked all your friends but won’t fuck you. Just because they enjoy being fucked by dogs, horses or whatever doesn’t mean they would enjoy fucking you or enjoy being talked to like their only worth or value in the world is that they enjoy taboo sex acts. Just don’t be so eager to get yourself off and be respectful until the time is right not to.
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Lol WI_GS_Owner was actually responding saddles first response to you. to your original post were saddle had no respect or manners toward you, and was attacking you.!
Read saddles original response to you and you would see saddle was being judgemental and harsh toward yourself...
 
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