Opinions on strays?

[Panda Chen]

so in the middle of a party in the desert she needs to take that stray and go ask all the people in the party if someone wants to adopt it????

Not necessarily adopt it but at least get the dog to a better situation. Some dogs run off and get lost and can't find there way home. The responsible thing to do is at least try. It's different if the dog is too shy to approach and won't let a person help but this is not that. You seem to want to justify your friends behavior and likely what would be your own but that doesn't make it correct. As said we all do things that are not right at times. It is part of the human experience but actually caring about others mean one should put at least the minimum amount of effort into trying. But maybe having a good time at a party is more important than even making a half hatred attempt to possibly assist another living being. If you and her can live with that then good for you but maybe ask yourself why you feel the need to defend someone so badly that none of us know or probably will ever know. It might be possible you are trying to convince yourself more than us. People will do what they do and I will say what I think is right as will you and any one else. I don't expect to change you and you trying to act like I'm stupid is certainly not going to change me.

 

[danzuna]

Not necessarily adopt it but at least get the dog to a better situation. Some dogs run off and get lost and can't find there way home. The responsible thing to do is at least try. It's different if the dog is too shy to approach and won't let a person help but this is not that. You seem to want to justify your friends behavior and likely what would be your own but that doesn't make it correct. As said we all do things that are not right at times. It is part of the human experience but actually caring about others mean one should put at least the minimum amount of effort into trying. But maybe having a good time at a party is more important than even making a half hatred attempt to possibly assist another living being. If you and her can live with that then good for you but maybe ask yourself why you feel the need to defend someone so badly that none of us know or probably will ever know. It might be possible you are trying to convince yourself more than us. People will do what they do and I will say what I think is right as will you and any one else. I don't expect to change you and you trying to act like I'm stupid is certainly not going to change me.

its not about justifing it because obviously i disagree with you on this subject - being in a forien land with friends every is partying and drinking including her, she went to pee, did something with the dog and now you expect her in the middle of the night call the city cathcher? or take the stray to the party and start to ask who wants to adopt in a party full of drunks? its very nice to be the most moral person in words but sometimes there is reality

 

[Panda Chen]

its not about justifing it because obviously i disagree with you on this subject - being in a forien land with friends every is partying and drinking including her, she went to pee, did something with the dog and now you expect her in the middle of the night call the city cathcher? or take the stray to the party and start to ask who wants to adopt in a party full of drunks? its very nice to be the most moral person in words but sometimes there is reality

Calling it just reality is also a justification or at least a rationalization.

Reality is that most people are selfish and will do what is easy and gives them enjoyment and don't often care how it affects others. I don't expect people to care about other because most don't. Not really. Have your fun and leave and don't care what happens to the individual after but that doesn't make it right. Most people would do exactly what she did. It is the rare person that is willing to put themselves in even slight discomfort to help others. It is why humanity is what it is and why so many suffer but keep enjoying the party you're not the one hurting. It doesn't matter to you.

 

[voidnite]

you wont try to find a dog a house in the middle of a desert party

I have traveled to almost every country at least once for work and I can tell you I have at least three animals I picked up in other countries and not for that purpose if I want an animal from another country I will acquire it I once found an a very beautiful gelding andolusion I might be misspelling that one I paid every bit to get him home he is very beautiful temperamental but a project and a half that I love dearly one of my dogs I found on the streets of England she has been the most loyal friend I've ever had and I haven't even touched her in that way so to me if you love an animal that much that you're attracted to it and that way you owe it to that if you're going to allow it to stick it in you or vice versa to adopt it

 

[danzuna]

I have traveled to almost every country at least once for work and I can tell you I have at least three animals I picked up in other countries and not for that purpose if I want an animal from another country I will acquire it I once found an a very beautiful gelding andolusion I might be misspelling that one I paid every bit to get him home he is very beautiful temperamental but a project and a half that I love dearly one of my dogs I found on the streets of England she has been the most loyal friend I've ever had and I haven't even touched her in that way so to me if you love an animal that much that you're attracted to it and that way you owe it to that if you're going to allow it to stick it in you or vice versa to adopt it

I am glad for you that apperantly you make alot of money and you were in a work trip and you acuirred the dog specifically and went through all the process needed, it is still not the example I gave of a drunk girl in the desert in a party with her friends who probebly wait for her the comeback from peeing in order to continue the party\go to another party\go to the hotel

 

[danzuna]

Calling it just reality is also a justification or at least a rationalization.

Reality is that most people are selfish and will do what is easy and gives them enjoyment and don't often care how it affects others. I don't expect people to care about other because most don't. Not really. Have your fun and leave and don't care what happens to the individual after but that doesn't make it right. Most people would do exactly what she did. It is the rare person that is willing to put themselves in even slight discomfort to help others. It is why humanity is what it is and why so many suffer but keep enjoying the party you're not the one hurting. It doesn't matter to you.

helping a stray dog shouldnt be only in the case if you sleep with him... if the issue is that its a stray dog that needs a house then it would be awesome to help him even if she didnt have sex with him, but you probebly wouldnt expect her to adopt\help the dog in a forien land if it wasnt that sex part so it doesnt make sense to expect it even with the sex issue

 

[voidnite]

I am glad for you that apperantly you make alot of money and you were in a work trip and you acuirred the dog specifically and went through all the process needed, it is still not the example I gave of a drunk girl in the desert in a party with her friends who probebly wait for her the comeback from peeing in order to continue the party\go to another party\go to the hotel

I own horses and they are very expensive when shit goes south I can tell you vet bills feed for 2500 lb horses that are 18 to 19 and a half hand to import the ones cost a quarter of what it would for a week long vacation anywhere in my country what's the average cost of Disneyland or Disney World whichever you choose is anywhere between $5,000 to $9,000 all depending on what you do and where you go sure can I afford it yes but if you honestly want an animal they're an investment that you go for life I may be a bleeding heart for animals but it's worth it

 

[Panda Chen]

helping a stray dog shouldnt be only in the case if you sleep with him... if the issue is that its a stray dog that needs a house then it would be awesome to help him even if she didnt have sex with him, but you probebly wouldnt expect her to adopt\help the dog in a forien land if it wasnt that sex part so it doesnt make sense to expect it even with the sex issue

I would if the dog came up to her which he did. As I said before if the dog isn't letting one get near and won't let you help sometimes there is not much you can do. Though I will tend to still try.
The sex part is not insignificant though. Being willing to take the risk and time to do that which dogs can tie for a while. She is willing to risk getting caught like that but can't ask for or give assistance to the dog because it's just too much time or too much effort or too much It shows priorities but again if both of you are happy with yourself no opinions are going to change either of you. But maybe others reading who are unsure might consider their choices more.

 

[Adder]

There was a woman I spoke to once Who lived in a place with a stray dog problem. She said she would go to an abandoned building and fuck them. She would leave her house in nothing but a trench coat and they would follow her there, where there would usually be around four taking turns on her. She said she managed to get twelve different dogs to fuck her, not all at once but in total over time. She gave them stuff when she visited too. So if you can't take them in, or know someone who can take them in, I guess this is a good alternative.