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now I see why its so hard to find a beast gf

Mitsuro said:
But for me as a guy I think it will be also ringing bell if a girl starts first dating with revealing all her kinks and fantasies....
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oh that would be soo tough to handle, i mean if a hot or at least attractive woman said, " well i do like an occasional k9 experience and
if you'd like to meet a few "hot" bi women to play with now and then i'd be fine with it, or maybe an occasional spanking
as you pound my hot pussy, i'd love it so just sayingggggg,
yea i'd dump the her in a quick second, that's awfulllllllllllll, lol
 
PonyLove said:
The main problem with looking for a long term partner on say a site like this is you only get to know their likes and dislike on a very narrow subject. Yes you can PM and e-mail to get to know each other better, and that may work out. For me, in a relationship, the animal part is only a very very small fraction of what I would be looking for to find someone to be compatable with on a long term basis. And searching and all the time it takes to trust someone, let alone understanding the risk that other undesirable behaviors can run with zoophilia or bestiality. Of course I met quite a few, but it was only because we shared this one aboration with really nothing else in common.
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THIS! As hot and exciting as sex (with the right partner) is, it's only a small part of the relationship... especially over time. Finding a partner with zoo love as a primary component means all the day-to-day compatibility stuff, the stuff that really makes you want to put in the work for a relationship, is gonna get short-changed. Focus on finding someone you "click" with, who shares your humor, your cultural references, likes the food and entertainment you do, and who you can have great conversations with. You'll be much happier horn dog ;)
 
I'm a 41 year old guy and I've been hoping to be in a relationship with a zoosexual woman since I reached adulthood. I've had a couple of hookups say that they were interested, 4 of them. I was either moving to another town after that, or just felt they wouldn't actually do it without alcohol and BDSM, or they'd want me to keep being their Dom. So, I never helped a FWB woman to get the experience.

I have admitted my zoo side (I'm experienced, but I'm mostly a voyeur) to women that I was in a relationship with, or was about to get back with (my first love! ), and it has not gone well. It is at least part of the reason that I've never married.

I don't tell this the first time I discuss fantasies with a woman, but I do play it by ear, and it has been tempting to take risks and tell all again. I've been outed for this already though. So, I'm quite reluctant.

It really fuckin' sucks! This isn't my only kink. I'm not a dominant male. So, it's tough to find a woman that matches with me.

I don't come back to the zoo community for months at a time, and that's the reason. It gets too lonely for me.
 
Renee said:
I'm a 41 year old guy and I've been hoping to be in a relationship with a zoosexual woman since I reached adulthood. I've had a couple of hookups say that they were interested, 4 of them. I was either moving to another town after that, or just felt they wouldn't actually do it without alcohol and BDSM, or they'd want me to keep being their Dom. So, I never helped a FWB woman to get the experience.

I have admitted my zoo side (I'm experienced, but I'm mostly a voyeur) to women that I was in a relationship with, or was about to get back with (my first love! ), and it has not gone well. It is at least part of the reason that I've never married.

I don't tell this the first time I discuss fantasies with a woman, but I do play it by ear, and it has been tempting to take risks and tell all again. I've been outed for this already though. So, I'm quite reluctant.

It really fuckin' sucks! This isn't my only kink. I'm not a dominant male. So, it's tough to find a woman that matches with me.

I don't come back to the zoo community for months at a time, and that's the reason. It gets too lonely for me.
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I think its best just to try to find a women the normal way, and not through porn ads etc. The zoo side is important, but you have to figure, you'll be with that person 24/7, and zoo stuff is a small small time part of that. Its more important to be compatible in all the other aspects of life. But if you do find the one and true love, she will understand you feelings. She may participate and she may not. That has been my experience.
 
PonyLove said:
I think its best just to try to find a women the normal way, and not through porn ads etc. The zoo side is important, but you have to figure, you'll be with that person 24/7, and zoo stuff is a small small time part of that. Its more important to be compatible in all the other aspects of life. But if you do find the one and true love, she will understand you feelings. She may participate and she may not. That has been my experience.
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Thanks for some feedback on my reply here. I have had three loving relationships that lasted a year or more (one lasted over 6) where the woman knew about my interest in zoo sex. 2 knew of my past experience. The major thing is, I'm mostly a voyeur. I like to watch women. They were not into zoo, though one pondered it for a couple of weeks.

I'm into cuckolding too ( I don't care about race, so no focus on that). So, I won't settle down with a woman that is not alternative to the mainstream, sexually speaking.

I'm going to post personal ads regarding non-sexual interest because I live an uncommon lifestyle. I'm also going to post kinky ads regarding my preference for a Dominant woman, or a switch, but I don't place all my hopes on the ads that mention kink. I still think it is worth casting that line out there though.
 
Renee said:
Thanks for some feedback on my reply here. I have had three loving relationships that lasted a year or more (one lasted over 6) where the woman knew about my interest in zoo sex. 2 knew of my past experience. The major thing is, I'm mostly a voyeur. I like to watch women. They were not into zoo, though one pondered it for a couple of weeks.

I'm into cuckolding too ( I don't care about race, so no focus on that). So, I won't settle down with a woman that is not alternative to the mainstream, sexually speaking.

I'm going to post personal ads regarding non-sexual interest because I live an uncommon lifestyle. I'm also going to post kinky ads regarding my preference for a Dominant woman, or a switch, but I don't place all my hopes on the ads that mention kink. I still think it is worth casting that line out there though.
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Years ago, I would go to what is called swinging parties where everyone had sex or did what they wanted. I had my dogs there at times. It was kind of fun. But that was early 70s, peace love dove movement, and in Calif. Maybe there is a website specific to your interest?? But then again, perhaps a bunch of crazies.
 
PonyLove said:
Years ago, I would go to what is called swinging parties where everyone had sex or did what they wanted. I had my dogs there at times. It was kind of fun. But that was early 70s, peace love dove movement, and in Calif. Maybe there is a website specific to your interest?? But then again, perhaps a bunch of crazies.
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Wow, that's awesome that you were able to bring your dogs to swing parties back then!

I have experience being a third for swinger couples, and then I dated in the polyamory community for nearly 10 years. A few poly women were more okay with beast fantasies than women I've encountered in monogamous dating. Those women had spouses already, and I'm looking for a woman that wants to live together one day (ideally), and also those women were not attractive. So, I didn't date many women in the poly community, just a rare few.

As for dating ads to mention that I'm somewhat submissive, Okcupid has been fairly good for that. I want to try it on Bumble. The way it is mentioned and it not being the focus is important though. I want to screen early to save her time and mines, but also I need to be balanced on my interests.

Fetlife is decent, and there's another that is coming up as a competitor to Fetlife, but those usually are not good dating sites. Still, it is a way to find out about local kink parties or munches, and then to go to those events to socialize. Hopefully in a few months those events will get going again.
 
I've pretty much written this site off also, I figured hmm maybe i could find a woman here, even if not local, to chat with
exchange ideas, and ya Never know by the slight chance i might, just might find a woman.....that has a common interest.
the reason i've written this site off and rarely come here, I was chatting with a young lady in australia, we were having a
great chat, then all of a sudden, she says, "hello, where are you, i don't see you as member anymore, oh well, some people
change their mind"....no i was trying to PM her back but for some reason, i can't talk to her anymore, i'm not sure what to
think, i feel to be honest, that the moderators here, saw we were "getting a little to close" so they shut off my pm link, and then
i saw the post " new members cant pm till they ve done 10 posts, and old members will be grandfathered in" i ve been around a while,
so i lost a friend, because this site will no longer let me talk to her, so you see, you come here for reasons......and then someone
steps in just when you thought hmm maybe this mightttt work....so i come here...............rarely...
 
been into this for years and had lost hope in finding ladies in my area into it, now I look back and realize the last 3 ladies I have dated have all been into it, with one of them fulfilling my fantasy of seeing a sexy lady mounted, so what I learned is patience is a virtue
 
Most other girls I've spoken to that are into zoo don't use these kinds of sites since they know many guys don't see us as humans with emotions and instead just want to wank off to seeing us take a knot.

If you want a relationship with a woman who will do that kind of stuff with you, then its better to just start a normal relationship and work your way into telling her your sexual preferences.
 
SofiaPop said:
Most other girls I've spoken to that are into zoo don't use these kinds of sites since they know many guys don't see us as humans with emotions and instead just want to wank off to seeing us take a knot.

If you want a relationship with a woman who will do that kind of stuff with you, then its better to just start a normal relationship and work your way into telling her your sexual preferences.
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Yes, you're right! The spam is ridiculous!

I called attention to this website for my girlfriend, but she isn't interested. Her fetlife account and another site and inundated with creepy shit from dudes. They're so rude, overtly forward, say disgusting shit to a complete stranger, etc. That being said, why would she join this site knowing it might be just as bad or worse. Dudes like that give people like me a bad name.

Sorry for rant, but I literally was just showed her inbox and I can't believe some of these fuckers on the internet. :rolleyes:
 
Too many dudes think that just because they see a woman in a video that there’s just hundreds of them in their local area who will do that too.

Plenty of women into it but they don’t want to be approached by a bunch of creepy guys going ‘hey, wanna fuck my dog’ or whatever. Same issue on FL. Thankfully I’ve been with someone a decade who shares the same kinks and just doesn’t use these kinds of sites. It’s like feeding time at the alligator enclosure when someone mentions they’re a woman.

Just because someone is discussing their fetish doesn’t mean they want to do things with you or that they’re a slut for just anyone.
 
SofiaPop said:
Most other girls I've spoken to that are into zoo don't use these kinds of sites since they know many guys don't see us as humans with emotions and instead just want to wank off to seeing us take a knot.

If you want a relationship with a woman who will do that kind of stuff with you, then its better to just start a normal relationship and work your way into telling her your sexual preferences.
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a dog foot tattoo always helps
 
I've had a few, but I never really tried to share my interests with other partners. I found it's best to hint at it only are certain times. Kind of like anal sex, unless she's into butt stuff too, it's really hit and miss.
Trust is another thing, I stopped trusting just anyone a while ago. Usually they are the ones that first mention that it is disgusting but low-key look that shit up online out of curiosity ha!
 
SigmatoZeta said:
The best way to meet somebody is to just keep on being social.

The worst way EVER to get laid is to try to meet people with the intention of getting laid. It is self-defeating, and counter-intuitive, and even on the occasions when it does work, it tends to lead to poor relationship outcomes.

The best way to get laid is to just meet people, and that means meeting them under any pretext at all.

Be open and fearless about yourself, and learn how to laugh just because it feels good to laugh. Get involved in things that are worth you getting involved in them. Maybe you could volunteer at a community garden or help out at a Habitat for Humanity construction site. There are still plenty of outdoor events going on, even at the height of COVID-19, and they have really started to make a social resurgence because they make social distancing easier.

In other words, be social. If you just learn to like being around people, then it will simply follow suit that people will eventually like you back.
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This is really great advice. I'll take this to heart!

I'm trying to be better and reach out to more people in the forum to make more friendships. :)
 
mare_breeder2 said:
I like to use omegle to find beast girls and they're all either pretending to be a woman or just skiddish as fuck, too bad video chat would work for security reasons as like I consider myself pretty attractive. Ugh I hate how society disagrees with what we enjoy.
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location location location is a helluva thing, especially when you're from a region where its highly taboo, meeting a curious or that kinda girl is like a drop in the ocean, a social platform such as this is our only option
 
As someone with autism, I don't know what a "normal" relationship even is. I don't even know if it exists. Maybe that's not even my autism speaking, maybe it's true? I can't possibly know, myself.
Either way, yeah, on Omegle anonymity is both its biggest strength and its biggest weakness. It's nice that people don't have my face to put next to "zoophile" but being someone with any kind of honest intentions on a site like Omegle, or even Reddit or Fetlife or fuckin Tinder.... Seems fruitless.

After my last relationship, I vowed to not settle for something so vanilla. I pursued a girl off and on for 9 years (I am aware of how desperate that sounds) and when the moment finally happened, it was... meh. And it wasn't like we weren't close. She just liked getting as much dick as possible in a missionary position. And my interests felt written off in favor of her being, frankly, lazy in bed. Takes two to tango...
Plus, I fear that being unhappy sexually in a relationship feels too shallow of me to base the whole relationship off of. And those people I'd rather just be friends with. Plus, I don't feel like I could ever reveal to anyone that I already know that I have interest in zoo. Even being 100% inexperienced, an "animal rapist" accusation would surely stick, and ruin my life, should it be too much of a shock to someone.
I've already had a pregnancy blamed on me by a vindictive ex-roommate, which wasn't mine. Known for years, and thrown under the bus in an instant to save her reputation. So trust issues are a valid concern. After all, if you both have the same interests, there's at least a threat of mutually assured destruction should things go south.

So personally, I feel like being up-front about what your interests are in bed should be a good thing. But I guess only in theory, because it sure hasn't worked for me, and it sounds like it doesn't for most guys.
It doesn't help that pay services like Only Fans dominate so much of sex-based social media. Meeting people to meet people is hard enough without having to be a damn paypig. Online dating is more of a joke than ever, but it's a joke that's ruling the relationship world unfortunately.

But, at the end of the day, I'm only speaking for myself.
 
knottyfungrl said:
I've never come across any...I wish I could!
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I must need another cup of coffee.

Come across what? Guys looking for beast girls on Omegle?

I use to look for people using the terms "zoo" or "beast". At the most there would be 4 or 5 people. Finally gave up. Just not a zoo populated place.
 
bigeorge91 said:
As someone with autism, I don't know what a "normal" relationship even is. I don't even know if it exists. Maybe that's not even my autism speaking, maybe it's true? I can't possibly know, myself.
Either way, yeah, on Omegle anonymity is both its biggest strength and its biggest weakness. It's nice that people don't have my face to put next to "zoophile" but being someone with any kind of honest intentions on a site like Omegle, or even Reddit or Fetlife or fuckin Tinder.... Seems fruitless.

After my last relationship, I vowed to not settle for something so vanilla. I pursued a girl off and on for 9 years (I am aware of how desperate that sounds) and when the moment finally happened, it was... meh. And it wasn't like we weren't close. She just liked getting as much dick as possible in a missionary position. And my interests felt written off in favor of her being, frankly, lazy in bed. Takes two to tango...
Plus, I fear that being unhappy sexually in a relationship feels too shallow of me to base the whole relationship off of. And those people I'd rather just be friends with. Plus, I don't feel like I could ever reveal to anyone that I already know that I have interest in zoo. Even being 100% inexperienced, an "animal rapist" accusation would surely stick, and ruin my life, should it be too much of a shock to someone.
I've already had a pregnancy blamed on me by a vindictive ex-roommate, which wasn't mine. Known for years, and thrown under the bus in an instant to save her reputation. So trust issues are a valid concern. After all, if you both have the same interests, there's at least a threat of mutually assured destruction should things go south.

So personally, I feel like being up-front about what your interests are in bed should be a good thing. But I guess only in theory, because it sure hasn't worked for me, and it sounds like it doesn't for most guys.
It doesn't help that pay services like Only Fans dominate so much of sex-based social media. Meeting people to meet people is hard enough without having to be a damn paypig. Online dating is more of a joke than ever, but it's a joke that's ruling the relationship world unfortunately.

But, at the end of the day, I'm only speaking for myself.
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Well said, a familiar issue, sexual compatabilty vs lifelong frustration... being single is safety from evil minds.. i am happy with my k9 preference, no lies, deception or evilness there.. pure trust. To meet a fellow zoo, it is places like this to atleast try but the numbers are horrible.. 30 if not 50 to 1 active m to f.. and most f's seek other fems.. so its pretty much a lottery we will meet a fellow zoo.
 
KennelDad said:
No kidding.

Maybe I'm not good at picking up vibes. But I don't see how you can bring that up in any conversation.

For me it's finding someone with like interests on a site like this. But the curse of the internet. Find someone you seem to click with, but they are hundreds of miles away. ?
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Same here. I am looking for girls, but have guys asking to be with my stallion or mare and the willing girls are in Calif, Texas, Florida or the UK and I am in PA
 
KennelDad said:
No kidding.

Maybe I'm not good at picking up vibes. But I don't see how you can bring that up in any conversation.

For me it's finding someone with like interests on a site like this. But the curse of the internet. Find someone you seem to click with, but they are hundreds of miles away. ?
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Or in another country.
 
MissLauren99 said:
Yeah, I have been on a few dates, and I've never mentioned that part of my lifestyle. If I got the right vibe off someone I would when we started to know each other better, but likewise, I'd also be ringing alarm bells if the first thing that person said they were looking for was someone into the lifestyle.
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I definitely can understand this. I have never shared this fully with any of my past relationships or dates. I've tried to mention it very lightly to test their reactions in a general topic sense without saying I was into it but usually get the response of disgust pretty fast so never proceeded to tell more. It's a hard one to discuss with many.
 
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