As I have said in the past, do not panic too much over this flurry of new laws targeting us. It is almost impossible to enforce a law that is directed at something that you do in the privacy of your own home. For it to ever threaten most zoos, your local police would have to be aroused into a full-blown Puritan witch-hunt, which really doesn't happen much except in the event of serious scandals where somebody was seriously hurt or killed.
In the 1990's, for example, gay sex used to be a felony in the US state of North Carolina, but that law was virtually never enforced. In fact, police were not even really aware of it. Our gay rights organizations were very pedestrian and law-abiding in how they did things, so there was not really any motive for the police to make any dramatic moves in trying to crack down on the gay people.
I mean it was different in New York City, for example. New York City has historically been a center of social unrest, and in places like Hell's Kitchen, the gay community was often mixed-up with the Mafia, which led to police having a weird outlook that homosexuality was linked with general criminality. That was a large part of why they were heavy-handed in the enforcement of their state's anti-gay laws.
In North Carolina, though, almost the only liberal centers we have are the educated areas. Yes, I know that Charlotte also leans left, but the Research Triangle Park area, even more so. Likewise, the gay community in Asheville was always centered around an old liberal arts university, and they developed a quiet and peaceful style of mildly center-left libertarianism in that city that resembles the spirit of Colorado. Practically the only reason why our anti-gay law survived at all was due to forces like the descendants of those conservative Protestant immigrants that moved to areas like Hickory, NC and areas like Southeastern NC, where they are still bitter because they can't keep black people as tobacco-picking plantation slaves anymore. Those people are so openly homophobic that no LGBT that have any sense of self-preservation want to be around them. In the places where gay people actually voluntarily lived their adult lives, they tended to get educated and to work in bourgeoise jobs, and they were really profoundly inoffensive.
As a consequence of the fact that our LGBT communities were centered around such laid-back, professorial types of areas, the anti-gay law in our state was essentially never enforced. Our LGBT leaders were very peaceful, law-abiding people, and by the time of Lawrence v. Texas, acceptance of LGBT in our state was steadily growing, anyway. Nobody was actually arrested based on that ridiculous law.
The lesson is this: if you are going to have a zoo rights movement, be peaceful and law-abiding, and keep up good relations with local authorities. No matter what the laws are, local authorities actually care a lot if you WANT to have a good relationship with them. It is a VERY BIG DEAL.
Our relationship with society means a lot more than these dumb laws. Those laws are a symptom of our poisoned relationship with society, not the illness. Those laws are unlikely to hurt most of us, but the poisoned relationship with society that those laws represent can.