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Looking for ideas on how to share some zoo content with husband to gauge his interest

If you are afraid of talking to him, then that's a different problem that needs to be addressed.

My partner and I started by talking about our fantasies...not things that we wanted to happen, but just what we fantasized about. Started with baby steps...flashing in public, having someone watching us have sex...and moved forward from there. We started then talking about some things we were willing or interested in having happen irl. On step at a time. Watching porn together is a great way to bring suggestions into the discussion since you can 'accidently' show vids that you 'didnt know' what is was about, but can judge if he has any interest or is just completely disgusted. Of course, don't drop your zoo interest right at the start. Small steps and work your way there...you two have the rest of your lives to get there.

That's how we got here...talking about fantasies and building trust. That we can accept each other, even if we don't want to partake in something our partner is interested in. We've found more than a few things that interest us both to keep us busy...
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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This is definitely a valid question, I would want to introduce my partner to this if they aren’t already a fan
 
MY second wife started out years ago by saying she heard of these things and asked me to look and see if it was a "real" thing and maybe find some pics so she could look at to convince her etc. She still won't confirm she did such things herself, but she sure has a lot of dog "fantasies" from her early teenage years she says and readily admits were very wild.
I enjoy them. And that is pretty much my reason for joining the forum.
 
I've had this idea of an gimmick fet-life account where all the pictures are just different "kink-list" graphs with varying details and specificity
then the profile is just "couples: send me your filled out kink-lists separately, i'll see what matches and send it back to both partners"

that way you couldn't cheat on it like the couples-kink apps by just selecting everything trying to find what your partner is hiding (and they don't offer bestiality as an option)

but it also sounds like a lot of work to match up kinks on pictures and also few people would trust it so...
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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Go on a porn site with both zoo and regular porn. And show a video of a girl fucking a dog and say wow that's crazy....etc
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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Try to be sincere. My wife one day on the internet came across a video where a girl was playing with her dog. She was curious thinking about it for a few days. When her curiosity got the better of her, she came to ask me if it was possible for a woman to mate with a dog. I said yes and that anatomically it wouldn't be difficult. After that she asked me for help because she wanted to try. At that time we had a German shepherd. I helped her for a while until she overcame her fears and then she started her solo flights. She was direct with me and unexpected, but it worked!
 
Is your husband also a degenerate? Is he high in openness? Describe your husband. In theory you should know him better than anyone, and peg where he might stand, or if he'd be open to the idea. Its a very taboo and I can see someone being rightfully repulsed. So if you think based off his personality it could have a broader effect on your relationship, I'd air on the side of caution.
 
Sandtail said:
Try to be sincere. My wife one day on the internet came across a video where a girl was playing with her dog. She was curious thinking about it for a few days. When her curiosity got the better of her, she came to ask me if it was possible for a woman to mate with a dog. I said yes and that anatomically it wouldn't be difficult. After that she asked me for help because she wanted to try. At that time we had a German shepherd. I helped her for a while until she overcame her fears and then she started her solo flights. She was direct with me and unexpected, but it worked!
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How fortunate for you! ????
I’m glad it worked out well for you and you can share this with her.
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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A lot of experienced people have given their opinions here, I hope you’re able to decide and choose something that suits your needs and desire to share this zoo interest with your husband. Good luck and may you have a positive outcome from this! ?❤️???
 
My wife and I had an open discussion about it at one point.

It came on a little weirdly, she was on medication that did weird things with her sex drive at the time. She wanted to talk more openly about her interests/kinks/attractions and we opened up. It turns out we had a lot of overlap in this area; mostly, we talked about fantasies that included having another participant or couple sharing our intimate/sex time. We very briefly touched on pets/animals. Mostly, we talked about what friends/couples we might approach about sharing that aspect of our life together.

Later on we dove into pets/animals in depth. Again, we had a lot of overlap. We've found a gay couple that we're occasionally active with, and we sometimes - just sometimes - watch some zoo porn during sex. We also bought a couple of fantasy toys from Bad Dragon that her or I will sometimes use during sex.

Communication is key and bearing yourself to anyone, being vulnerable about something like this, can be daunting. Our conversations started by her asking "are there any fantasies or desires you've wanted to express, but keep to yourself?" - I would start with something like this. If he says yes, offer that you do as well. If he says no, ask him if he could take some time to listen to yours. Make it clear that it's not in response to any sort of deficiency/inadequacy on his part - guys can get very defensive if they feel like they aren't doing enough/good enough/etc.

How to broach the topic: the suggestions here about sex toys as a starter aren't bad. You can tell him you stumbled upon an ad for one of the fantasy toy makers (Bad Dragon, Exotic Erotics, to name a couple) while you were on a regular adult site (pornhub, sextube, you name it - they run all kinds of ads, I think I may have even seen a sidebar ad for BD or EE on pornhub a few times). Pornhub's got a bunch of CG videos with werewolves, dragons, etc.

You can explain that you were intrigued by what you saw and would love to try out one or two of the toys from these sites - looking for new sensations, new ways of enjoying your intimacy together. Most guys will jump all over something that will lead to more sex. The fact that the toys are sold as "fantasy" toys generally, gives you an out if he seems put off - being turned on by the thought of sex with a dragon or werewolf, which are fictitious, might sell better than thoughts of an actual dog, depending on how he takes the reveal that this might interest you.

I see it going three possible ways:
1 - it all goes over well, maybe he's even kept similar thoughts from you, and you have a new thing to explore together.
2 - he's surprised by the revelation, but open to trying new things with you.
3 - he's not interested. Hopefully it's not this one, but if it is, you'll hopefully have at least gained better insights into how to satisfy each other in general in the bedroom.

Hope this helps.
 
Hello, I think there is something you can do and see the reaction without having to resort to such elaborate strategies. Simply tell him that you saw a news story on the Internet about a known case where there was bestiality or simply tell him that everyone in Spain is upset by the legalization of bestiality and there see the reaction, what he says, what he thinks.
 
beastwol said:
Hello, I think there is something you can do and see the reaction without having to resort to such elaborate strategies. Simply tell him that you saw a news story on the Internet about a known case where there was bestiality or simply tell him that everyone in Spain is upset by the legalization of bestiality and there see the reaction, what he says, what he thinks.
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That seems like introducing the idea in a negative manner.
 
Find some of the more harmless zoo cartoons from the "zoo magazines" thread, share them with him and judge his reaction.
 
What websites have normal porn and also animal porn where we could accidentally stumble across something? Something without popups and that doesn't look too seedy.
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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You could always try and get “busted” watching something whilst stimulating or even just mention one morning about a strange dream you had and give him subtle signs showing you were intrigued. If he knows you he will pick up on signs. But tbh you’re married to each other just straight up say what you want otherwise what’s the point of being married
 
melbournewife said:
What websites have normal porn and also animal porn where we could accidentally stumble across something? Something without popups and that doesn't look too seedy.
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Look for some early 1970s magazine cartoons, Playboy, Penthouse and such. There were a surprising number of zoo cartoons in those magazines back then. Both the Playboy and Penthouse cartoon archives are available online if you do a little google search work.
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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There's a movie about a college girl that blows a dog on prime I believe it might be a easy way to see reaction about it
 
The fake message is the best option for me...
I helped a friend that way, it was the "trojan horse" she needed.
 
I have to agree with @FluffyLittleRabbit in talking with him first. You can start by expressing some more main stream desires/fantasies that you have, like being discreetly played with in public, and work up from there. This will take more time but I think you both need to be comfortable talking about these things first before showing him your interest in k9.
 
Sandtail said:
Try to be sincere. My wife one day on the internet came across a video where a girl was playing with her dog. She was curious thinking about it for a few days. When her curiosity got the better of her, she came to ask me if it was possible for a woman to mate with a dog. I said yes and that anatomically it wouldn't be difficult. After that she asked me for help because she wanted to try. At that time we had a German shepherd. I helped her for a while until she overcame her fears and then she started her solo flights. She was direct with me and unexpected, but it worked!
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Love this....It's always these types of stories that interest me!!
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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What broke the ice for us was to drunkenly buy a fox tail plug. It's kinky and cute but hints more than says it. The more you use it and play it's all easier to kinda gauge interest. People not into beast do that to so it's good way
 
melbournewife said:
What websites have normal porn and also animal porn where we could accidentally stumble across something? Something without popups and that doesn't look too seedy.
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There is a great website, honesterotica.com, that has some vintage illustrations of women with dogs. Search for "Les délices libertines" to see a set of pictures from the 1930s that has dogs, along with many other kinds of sexual variety - exhibitionism, group sex, lesbianism etc. It's interesting how back then it all would have been seen as very taboo, but is now acceptable, even positive, except for the dogs, which still is taboo.
 
I've given breaking the ice a lot of thought. Ideally you need something with "plausible deniability" so that if the interest isn't shared, you could also deny interest. Her books have a number of other fantasies, so it wouldn't be apparent that you ordered them for the K9 content.

Years ago Nancy Friday compiled collections of women's sexual fantasies and put them into three books. A number included sex with dogs. You could get the books and maybe make a game of taking turns reading fantasies. Maybe use dice or something to random select fantasies. Anyway the three books in order of publication are..."My Secret Garden," "Forbidden Flowers," "Women on Top." At one time Amazon carried them, they still may. You also may find them on used book websites such as abebooks.com.
 
K9Evangelist said:
I've given breaking the ice a lot of thought. Ideally you need something with "plausible deniability" so that if the interest isn't shared, you could also deny interest. Her books have a number of other fantasies, so it wouldn't be apparent that you ordered them for the K9 content.

Years ago Nancy Friday compiled collections of women's sexual fantasies and put them into three books. A number included sex with dogs. You could get the books and maybe make a game of taking turns reading fantasies. Maybe use dice or something to random select fantasies. Anyway the three books in order of publication are..."My Secret Garden," "Forbidden Flowers," "Women on Top." At one time Amazon carried them, they still may. You also may find them on used book websites such as abebooks.com.
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You can also get the audio book on iTunes
 
melbournewife said:
What websites have normal porn and also animal porn where we could accidentally stumble across something? Something without popups and that doesn't look too seedy.
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There are some websites that have stories. Porn and “monsters”. The monsters get around the beast codes as they sometimes are werewolves. This could be a way in with him. Read some porn stories that you both share interest in, then one day wander into the monster room and find a werewolf story. This way you both share in the discovery phase.
 
You said "have a pet at home now but not currently active", why not? I say start playing around with the pet in private, get it at least interested, so it is showing you sexual attention and then let your husband witness it. Play around with yourself and get the juices flowing and then let the pet sniff and taste. Do this naked in the bathroom while brushing your teeth, or some regular situation where it might happen naturally, you're naked and the pet sniffs/licks you there. Do it regularlt to establish a routine so you can predict it will happen at the right time.
When he sees it happen you can act surprised and then see how he reacts. You can say something like "that was exciting ". Or "wow what was that, you bad dog, you're so naughty". You can easily play it off or even use it to start a conversation later. You could then say you searched the internet because rover did thus, say you were curious as to what it meant and then show him some porn you found in your searches, assuming he doesn't slam the door at the time of the incident.
I am a male so it is a bit different for me, dogs are not usually naturally interest in men, but I think they probably are more easily inticed by women, even naturally interested in your vagina scent and taste.
We had a male dog that used to eat the crotch out of my wife's panties for example. So I think it is probably easy to introduce yourself and get a dog interest as the icebreaker.
I am thinking about how to apply this idea to my situation but I just wished my wife would do something to open the door for me, or wish I had some other way to bring it up. I may go the sex toy route as some have suggested here. Just still not sure I want to break the ice to her in the fist place. One fear is what of she wants the dog more than me? Anyway...hope this gives you an idea from the husband perspective, Good luck!
 
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