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Looking for ideas on how to share some zoo content with husband to gauge his interest

melbournewife

melbournewife

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I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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For women it is difficult, but for men it is probably easier
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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Good question .....You can say that a video that was sent to you as spam by email or some social network, I would believe it and then you ask him if he had seen something like that and that you find it curious....and you wait to see what your husband tells you.
 
trumvn said:
For women it is difficult, but for men it is probably easier
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Why do you say that?

manugoven12 said:
Good question .....You can say that a video that was sent to you as spam by email or some social network, I would believe it and then you ask him if he had seen something like that and that you find it curious....and you wait to see what your husband tells you.
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I can't bring myself to do that. Ive tried. Just can not get the words out out of fear. I think the only way I can do it is if he somehow discovers it and brings it up. If he doesn't mention anything, than I kind of have my answer to. In theory at least.
 
melbournewife said:
I can't bring myself to do that. Ive tried. Just can not get the words out out of fear. I think the only way I can do it is if he somehow discovers it and brings it up. If he doesn't mention anything, than I kind of have my answer to. In theory at least.
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Not necessarily if he likes it he will mention it to you. He will also, depending on his personality, be a little embarrassed to tell you or propose it, creating a fake account and sending him videos may be an option until he mentions something to you about it.
 
manugoven12 said:
Not necessarily if he likes it he will mention it to you. He will also, depending on his personality, be a little embarrassed to tell you or propose it, creating a fake account and sending him videos may be an option until he mentions something to you about it.
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It's near impossible to create fake accounts on instagram or facebook now :(
 
melbournewife said:
It's near impossible to create fake accounts on instagram or facebook now :(
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Dm

melbournewife said:
It's near impossible to create fake accounts on instagram or facebook now :(
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If it is possible to create missing accounts, you have to do them from a browser with another phone number, but there is also gmal telegram or WhatsApp itself, although there you would have to use another sim or another phone but there are many ways to send content
 
melbournewife said:
I can't bring myself to do that. Ive tried. Just can not get the words out out of fear. I think the only way I can do it is if he somehow discovers it and brings it up. If he doesn't mention anything, than I kind of have my answer to. In theory at least.
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Do the one they do on TikTok where they tell their SO to google "ArtofZoo" and they record the reaction?
 
lovemysis said:
Hey there. I'm very new to the. Site. This is my first message. As a man, I can say that I depends whether ir hubby is.open to kinks,fetishes amd new adventures. If he is familiar with porn, u can suggest that every weekend one of you would play his/her favorite porn in order, so you can evaluate his attitude and reaction. Altterbativwlt, u can say " oh, honey Suddenly a porn site popped up amd it was zooporn! But it's not that bad and excites me" or sth like that to get how is he close to our kinks..
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We dont openly watch porn together. Our private time has always been our private time. It's sort of just gone unspoken.

manugoven12 said:
If it is possible to create missing accounts, you have to do them from a browser with another phone number, but there is also gmal telegram or WhatsApp itself, although there you would have to use another sim or another phone but there are many ways to send content
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Hmm I would need to get another phone number somehow then
 
there is a movie called sleeping dogs lie, that you could watch. It was fairly mainstream and involves a chick that gives a dog a BJ one night then years later admits it to her husband. There is at least 1 other movie with the same title, so you could always use that as an escape too.
 
Lonewolf said:
there is a movie called sleeping dogs lie, that you could watch. It was fairly mainstream and involves a chick that gives a dog a BJ one night then years later admits it to her husband. There is at least 1 other movie with the same title, so you could always use that as an escape too.
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I just read the synopsis, and I think this paints zoo in the wrong light. The film literally says it should be something to hide and be ashamed of.
 
Hi melbournewife,
Perhaps the fact you are scared to talk to him about your fetish and the desire to fulfill it might be an indicator of some more complex emotions you are having trouble processing. Don't worry, this is totally normal. We all struggle communicating various issue in our lives, especially ones where we are vulnerable. Essentially, you are the best person to judge if your hubby would be accepting of your zoo tendencies based on his previous behaviours around similar topics. Using anything else other than behaviour is 'mind reading' and that isn't a REAL thing. So, my advice is, make your judgement based on his previous behaviours around similar topics.
P.s. You'll always be supported here and hopefully loved by your pets.....over and over again!
 
I'm a guy and with my bf I just told him someone sent me some beast porn on a chat app. He wasn't into it but I showed him anyways. He still wasn't into it and I told him I'd never told to that person again. So now I know my bf isn't into it and if he finds stuff on my phone Ill say the app auto downloaded the vids. If he presses more I'll have to come up with a different excuse but we'll cross that bridge when we get there.
 
You did say he is open minded. Have you thought about looking at some sex toy sites like Etsy and browse their dildo selection? You can come across some dog and horse dildos and say to your husband "Look at this, I never knew the shape of a dog or horse penis!" Maybe then segue into a conversation and you can then start looking animal dildo porn and then the real thing.
 
zellers said:
You did say he is open minded. Have you thought about looking at some sex toy sites like Etsy and browse their dildo selection? You can come across some dog and horse dildos and say to your husband "Look at this, I never knew the shape of a dog or horse penis!" Maybe then segue into a conversation and you can then start looking animal dildo porn and then the real thing.
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Yes that is currently on my top idea list but still requires me to vocalise and I worry I will freeze on the spot.
 
melbournewife said:
I just read the synopsis, and I think this paints zoo in the wrong light. The film literally says it should be something to hide and be ashamed of.
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a bit maybe, but in the context of the movie, it's sorta correct. If you blew the dog once in college, it probably IS best to just keep that to yourself unless you are damn sure the person you are about to admit to is going to react positively.

It's a funny movie and may be a good way to get the subject in front of your husband. If you are looking for something nonchalant that follows all zeta principles, good luck!
 
Go to the bank. take out some money from your bank account. and say I will give you $1500 if you let me play with our dogs in front of you.
 
If by chance he reads erotica you could suggest a site like joinforjoy. See if he goes into the beast stories out of his own curiosity. links clicked on will turn from black to grey indicating they have been opened.
 
melbournewife said:
It's near impossible to create fake accounts on instagram or facebook now :(
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So make an account somewhere else, and then make a fake account, and send it to yourself. Then you could bring it up to him, just one day while you are on your phone and he is nearby. Send something to yourself, then pull it up and say something like "Ugh! I don't know who this person is but they keep sending me all this stuff!" If he is your husband I feel like that should be enough to draw him over to see what is going on. Then you wait for him to inquire and show him. Then gauge his interest based off of his facial expression when he sees it.
 
ILoveFemaleGSD's said:
So make an account somewhere else, and then make a fake account, and send it to yourself. Then you could bring it up to him, just one day while you are on your phone and he is nearby. Send something to yourself, then pull it up and say something like "Ugh! I don't know who this person is but they keep sending me all this stuff!" If he is your husband I feel like that should be enough to draw him over to see what is going on. Then you wait for him to inquire and show him. Then gauge his interest based off of his facial expression when he sees it.
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This is the best idea so far but still hard to create accounts and still requires me vocalising it which scares me.
 
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Lonewolf said:
there is a movie called sleeping dogs lie, that you could watch. It was fairly mainstream and involves a chick that gives a dog a BJ one night then years later admits it to her husband. There is at least 1 other movie with the same title, so you could always use that as an escape too.
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Where can I find this video ?
 
melbournewife said:
I've been active since I was a teenager with our family dogs, and we have a pet at home now although I'm not currently active. I am trying to think of a way for my husband to somehow accidentally see some zoo content to gauge his interest and hopefully start a conversation.

Unfortunately we don't really discuss fetishes or watch porn, although we're not vanilla. He's just a bit shy and so we never have and now it would be a bit awkward to just bring things up out of the blue.

I am hoping if he somehow stumbles across it, we can go from there...
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If you're not vanilla, bring up sex toys. Just browse toy makers on Etsy and point out how many canine ones you notice
 
melbournewife said:
This is the best idea so far but still hard to create accounts and still requires me vocalising it which scares me.
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Reddit is pretty easy. I have 5 accounts, one is my regular, one is the alternate to my regular where I post controversial stuff, and three of them are all secret throwaways that I've used to do AMAs about being a zoophile. You don't even need a valid email address.

If he hates reddit, find one of the good subreddits and use that as the reason you made an account, to interact there. Like me for example, I only use my main reddit account to get help with my 3d printer, because reddit is the best place for that.
 
You might tell him you were thinking of a puppy and accidentally stumbled onto a short video of a knotting and show it to him, gauge his response.
 
Theres been plenty of times coworkers of mine would randomly show me zoo videos trying to get a shock out of me, if you work any where you could say something along the same lines happened to you and see how he might react
 
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