I don't know where most men get their sense of entitlement, or maybe they get angry because their pride gets bruised. I always had a lower libido and never really cared for sex much. Most all my relationships sex felt like a chore and was always about making my partners happy. I may have just dated that small group of women that have that similar attachment or response or whatever( Sorry I'm really tired....) that you're talking about in men. My ex-wife had the libido of these kind of men. She would turn into a raging cunt and make my life hell until she got something or enough out of me to satisfy her...or threats at times.... I wanted to less and less as the relationship progressed a lot due to her, and other women's obsession and what it did to their personalities just became more of a turn off. A rationale she once stated was that me not wanting to be inside her all day every day was it "made her feel unwanted or a gross person".
So, I am just as curious as you to know what drives most of these men to think they deserve a woman's service and blame them when they're turned down.
My father told me a of stories involving his escapades with women, but he would just put himself out there to anyone and everyone. If he got turned down he didn't care and still treated the women he was trying to "court" with respect after and just moved on to the next until he succeeded lol.
I dunno, I am tired and rambling a bunch of nonsense probably. Not even sure if I expressed what I was meaning to in the beginning....