Issues with human relationships (how to date a zoo?)

[Doggiedays84]

This is the issue I’m stuck in. My wife would flip out. She found a video on my laptop years ago and flipped. I blamed it on my brother who had just left from visiting us. It bums me out because after 23 years of hanging on the side lines I’m reaping I’m bisexual which isn’t a problem but now my zoo is becoming peaked.

 

[nikii22]

I worry about this so much. Like I would LOVE to meet a guy who was into this stuff - like not worrying about being "outed" or whatever, as others have mentioned, this could have serious repercussions that are not just legalities. I have the fear that a meet would be a set up? And I wonder how you would be able to know they're legit before agreeing to meet?!

same here...