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Is it ok to have sex with a female dog during her first heat, or should you wait for the second?

Is it ok to have sex with a female dog during her first heat?

  • Yes, it is both perfectly ethical and safe.

    Votes: 16 16.2%
  • Inexperienced owners are risking their dog's wellbeing, but for experienced owners there is no risk.

    Votes: 9 9.1%
  • Even experienced owners put their dog's wellbeing to some risk by doing this. Always better to wait.

    Votes: 30 30.3%
  • It's not ethical, similar to having sex with a 13 year old girl on her first period. Never do this.

    Votes: 44 44.4%

  • Total voters
    99
I think most are missing my point here. I have never advocated for anyone to do what I did. What I am advocating for is to have the rules clarified in the actual Rules section, so that others here in the future don't unknowingly make the same mistake that I have made.

I don't think it's possible for me to miss your point - but I don't see a mistake on your side at the moment (aside stirring this up right here, as the decision is already "over"), as well. Because the rules are unclear - that's it so far. And without a clear rule I would neither see your deleted thread as a "problem" or a "breaking" of the rules.

But I am - with as well dozens of years of experience with dogs, wolves and comparable (raising them up, d'Oh) on the side of those that call first heat as too early for penetrative interaction with dogs. And wolves, but that's another topic. :ROFLMAO:

Rules are "good to have", but not unproblematic. To have them in a clear way, understandable - that's a good thing, fully approved. In regards of what you did: like I wrote - neither mod nor judging you for it, as even if my opinion is different from your decision, you did not break a written rule as far as I could follow the topic.

And without this the deletion stays as an individual decision of mods / admins, which is fine (and understandable for me due to the dog's first heat being in the middle of attention and not your - probably, I didn't see the media before deletion and don't know your handling ways - adequate and loving care for your dog).


As such it's quite an unfortunate situation, you miss your thread, others were .. negatively stressed? Angered? Anyway, the thread is gone and that's the status quo, as long as no clear age minimum is set in the rules.

That's why I wrote (maybe unclear, as I didn't write it extensively): Why don't you just post your experiences and loving cuddles, maybe the all-day commando training or whatever you experience (non-sexual) with your dog in a new thread, leave your personal sexual decisions out of it (after all many users don't approve of it, mods as well don't approve of it, tho - at the actual age of your dog. That's a reason which counts even without a clear rule) and begin to write or show media files about the sexual aspects in the second heat. Or the earliest minimum age, if that ever gets set into the rules..

As such all is fine and all can be happy. Remember: you didn't lose your dog or your experiences, just some uploaded media files and texts. That's not really important.

And don't care too much about "other users doing the same mistake" (or plain error) - they will still do this, IF a minimum age is set in numbers at the rules.. like always, there's not a week where no unfitting and abusive stuff gets reported.

Would seriously love to read about the further development of your dog and you in another thread, just: without sexual information added before she's at least in second heat. Or minimum age, if embedded at a later time - whatever comes later. As simple as it is.
 
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Why don't you just post your experiences and loving cuddles
Actually, I'm all for this as well. I've always seen Salty's positivity as a good thing. Conflict only arises for me because one of the reasons he is here is to impart his 51 years of wisdom to other dog owners, which is a problem when he is giving out or acting on wrong information. For example telling some poor fellow that a female dog expects him to last 15-40 minutes inside, and that he needs to do training so that he can properly satisfy her (real example).

I think this has been a good experience, and of course I believe Salty when he says he would never have done anything to harm his girl knowingly. Most people reading this thread will go away with a better understanding of why sex during the first heat is discouraged, and for me that is a huge win.
 
For example telling some poor fellow that a female dog expects him to last 15-40 minutes inside, and that he needs to do training so that he can properly satisfy her (real example)
Okay - not sure where that was written, but.. my experiences with female dogs nowadays with minimum > 2k copulative activities over the years taught me that at least my partners don't expect 15-40 minutes of humping.

They would quite often get overly sensitized, because they came (multiple times) and if they're zooming, it's not possible to continue copulation anyway without enforcing anything and this I would never do. Following is a cool-down-time of minutes to hours or even days. Not all of them zoom, still: overly sensitized tissue takes a while to recover.

At the end that's personal experience. I've not yet found a female dog which would prefer 30-40 minutes of humping over varying activities, cuddling, laying beneath one, fingering until orgasm, licking, maybe rest a while - that's all variable, but at the end the human partner with his / her interests plays a big role in suggesting ideas and watching how the dog reacts to it and establishing what the dog is interested in.

I don't think every human or his / her dog(s) are on a biological layer limited to the same, as such it's all possible, who knows.. ?‍♂️

I think this has been a good experience, and of course I believe Salty when he says he would never have done anything to harm his girl knowingly.
I don't know him in detail and am very careful saying something in regards of "what others might do", as you can only go wrong most of the times with such projections.

But that he wouldn't willingly do her any harm, that's thoroughly plausible from what he wrote the recent months and what I read.
 
Actually, I'm all for this as well. I've always seen Salty's positivity as a good thing. Conflict only arises for me because one of the reasons he is here is to impart his 51 years of wisdom to other dog owners, which is a problem when he is giving out or acting on wrong information. For example telling some poor fellow that a female dog expects him to last 15-40 minutes inside, and that he needs to do training so that he can properly satisfy her (real example).
Okay - not sure where that was written,

My girl will typically put an end to things if I haven't finished in 10. Not saying it can't happen that some female dogs might prefer long sessions, but the problem I had was with it being a generalization.
 
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I'm assuming this is a byproduct of your interaction with Saltydog?

I think most owner's attitudes are pretty unanimous when it comes to waiting until the 2nd heat at least before trying anything, for the girl's own physical and mental health.

While I'm not condoning what he's doing, he made it pretty clear he has her health in mind and decades of experience and it looks like his girl is happy so I'd just leave him be. You're only going to frustrate yourself more and reiterate what's already commonly accepted as a pretty strict rule in dog love.
Great advice!
 

My girl will typically put an end to things if I haven't finished in 10. Not saying it can't happen that some female dogs might prefer long sessions, but the problem I had was with it being a generalization.
Ah, I see.

From my experiences: 40 minutes are nothing near the common case and if you add foreplay (which all my past and actual partners love(d) a lot, some more than actual copulation - they can orgasm multiple times in quite a short time span, which wears their endurance down for a while and even without copulation it could make them sore or over-stimulated), then even under 10 minutes would be the limitation for my known dogs.

Without foreplay - why exactly should I start to hump a dog, then? After all I want her to enjoy the whole togetherness and I enjoy it if she lays twitching and panting, just stimulated there and enjoys her feelings. Surely the ones I have experiences with would keeping up with humping for a longer time, if no extensive foreplay was included.

Not a big surprise, they were less aroused, no orgasm before and so on. But even then more than 10 to maybe 15 minutes is quite rare and not the usual case.

Not to mention the zoomies - a zooming dog which just had an orgasm and wants to zoom around, there's no need (and without enforcing / holding her no way) to hump her further. Let her chill down, enjoy a rest, let her drink something(!), maybe even go pee after a few minutes.


The whole process with foreplay and everything can take a long time, that's no problem. There are resting breaks in-between. Playing and cuddling. And even the most horny female dog (beating me by miles) will get overly sensitized as my experience showed me.

But at the end: other people experience other dogs and they might get a different idea or "working scheme", who knows. Still: I don't see any real source or analysis in terms of "generalized are 40 minutes some duration that female dogs want" - that sounds to me like a brave wish.

This is all related to human-dog intercourse, tho. Probably everyone knows that dog-dog-intercourse has its longest time span after locking with the knot, if the individual sizes are a good fit - and that's not comparable to "humping her for XX minutes". If the sizes are a loose fit, then it's over quite quickly, as they could separate even with a swollen knot. ?‍♂️
 
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I never stated this as a "generalization". I was purely speaking from 2 points of my experiences.
If you keep reading from the link I provided, you very clearly intend it as a general statement. Here is the continued conversation:
Possibly it has been true of your dogs that they expect sex to last over 15 minutes, but it is not true in general. My girl in particular prefers long foreplay followed by short sexual encounters.
Actually, the reverse is true. How many dogs have you fucked? I've been doing this for just over 51 years with about 30 different dogs over the decades of my life. So, I just might know a thing or two.
If you only intended to speak from your own personal experiences, you would have agreed with me by writing something like: "I didn't intend it as a general statement, I was only talking about my own dogs." Instead you strongly disagreed with what I wrote. So tell me... if you were in agreement with me back then that one can't make the general claim that dogs expect sex to last over 15 minutes, what is it about my statement that you were disagreeing with?
 
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So what you are telling me is that regardless of age or breed that any form of contact with any animal is then defined as cruelty and abuse. This is regardless of whether or not both parties are consenting.

What? No, quite the contrary. ?‍♂️
There are more-or-less (aside a clear minimum age number) clear factors, variables and those define which material is acceptable for ZooVille.

And still random (often new accounts) people (re)post abuse up to cruelty quite regularly, get reported and in the best cases banned.

But: this case we discuss about doesn't even reach the borders of "cruelty" or "abuse", it's "unnecessary risks and a young dog with unclear minimum age @ rules" due to a missing minimum age clarification in the rules. Not even a direct rule break, but a grey area, as many have stated - which gets grey area handling (individual decisions by those that decide), that's to expect.

Nothing more, nothing less. Independently of not being "cruelty" or "abuse", it's still something which people (user) don't necessarily want to get presented on this site. That's all.

You will never end cruelty or rid it from the face of this planet no matter how hard we try.

That's self-explanatory. But it doesn't imply that people have to accept it here on this forum, even if at the end the abusive crap will forever stay in the .nets. And it's somewhat off-topic here in this thread due to the specific grey area discussed about.

Unfortunately even if ZV bans people from this site they will only return under a different user name.

Probably. Some do, some don't. It's still no option to "just accept everything and let the whole forum get a dumpster fire". That's what rules and handling of those breaking them are for.

Nothing is fool proof but I think its sad that innocent people have been judged and banned or had their posts removed for following rules which arent clear and concise.

Which case do you talk about? As you can see: we (including original OP) actively discuss the topic and just the specific thread was removed. Granted, removal of the specific grey area posts would've been enough and I even support a partial deletion instead, but depending on how much work this generates or how confusing the remaining posts might be, it's the less problematic effort to remove it wholly.

Always remember one thing in life. What one person sees as being wrong doesnt always mean that it is wrong.

That is correct, but in this case it's to this time a grey area and the problematic age range is as well a given - not just a guess. Why else would the OP understand and actually support a clear age number limitation? Why would this thread with a discussion exist?

Answer this question for me.... Whats the definition of cleanliness?

In written text? Surely paragraphs and readability. ?‍♂️

We need to be more open minded and accepting of people and what they do or say. We cant just pigeon hole people. Show some compassion. There are people here who have good intentions and do things without any malice. Its hard enough with general society crucifying ZOOs without us outing ourselves as well.

That's basically the standard (non-)argument of all those which are outlined by rules: pedophiles, abusing or torturing enthusiasts, incest enthusiasts, those that think BDSM is fine with animals, those which want body modifications on their animals and so on.

No, just because "Zoophilia" is not accepted widely it doesn't mean that "anything should be accepted and welcomed". We as loving zoophiles are not the shit and waste of humanity, but for those with mentioned interests that's a different topic. And I am happy that they're mostly kept outside. ?‍♂️

Those which are respecting the rules instead partake in a discussion about why it was problematic or unclear, as @SaltyDog does.

All Im asking is that moderators/administrators be more clear and concise with the rules of this site and not to just delete posts because one person in the forum decides the post doesnt fit or suit their way of thinking. Thats just closed mindedness by one person.

There's a two person system established from what I've read in the past. And as you can see in regards of reports: there are more people than "Just one" which actually found the specific intercourse with copulation to be too far on the "not acceptable" side of rules grey areas.

Read through the forum and see what the general reactions towards a post is before deleting it.

Uh. Should I state it in easier words? "That's hot!" "Such a nice girl!" "A lovely pair!" and so on.

The same sort of comments you find under quite clearly abusive videos quite often. Like bound horses. Leashed dogs which are pulled on their tails (a sensitive extension of the backbone!). And so on.

It's impossible to judge based on the comments coming out of horniness of random fappers. ?‍♂️

.. and start to accuse them of being a rapist (as in the case of SaltyDog).

Where? :unsure:

I love nature and I love animals and Ive saved many creatures in my life and I will continue to save them. So what I have written does come from a good place without any malice. It does bring a tear to my eye knowing that there is so much cruelty in this world.

A good stance of mind if you mean it like you write it. Then you should understand why grey area rules are problematic and lead to unclear outcome. ?‍♂️

No one and I mean NO one had any issue with the thread ..

Uhm. It got reported multiple times, as you can read a bit earlier. ?

One liners dont explain what Im trying to say or the point im trying to make.

That's fine, but one empty line between paragraphs would ease up the readability by universes.
 
I actually remember this part of the thread. Saltydog is right. That wasnt "generalization" or "what people should expect as rule of thumb" and you (SaltyDog) did state that this is/was your own personal experience and is not to be taken out of context. How this got twisted to being "generalization" is beyond me.
I'm really not sure why you think you can just outright lie when it's such a simple matter for people to read it for themselves... as a matter of fact, that's how we'll settle it. Nobody here has to take my word for it, everyone who is interested please just read the discussion for yourself and reach your own conclusion. Once again, the link:

 
tldr sorry, not my language

My dogs also like short sex. The stroking can be a lot, but after 5-10 minutes of penetration, they don't want more. I adjust my orgasm to this as well, luckily it's easy because I usually cum in 5-10 minutes.

I think this is due to the mechanics of their reproduction, the male dog moves little and then becomes lumpy and motionless. The active part lasts 1 minute, they are anatomically built for this and I think the sensory nerve endings in the vagina are also tuned for this stimulation. If you move a lot in it, it will be uncomfortable for them.

It probably also depends on how big the penis, the vagina, the speed, how many times it is during slowly, etc. Female dogs are not the same.
 
Curious for safety: Is it ok to penetrate a spayed dog? Will it hurt them?

This question pops up almost each week, somehow.

Common response aka long story short:
Not recommended, high risks. If dog and human both kno/ew their sexual activities well over a long time and know how such a surgery can change and open up new risks as well as behavior changes and maybe not even any interest (anymore), it is sometimes possible, if the dog is still interested.

In those threads and many others are more extensible experiences and thoughts stated. And remember: each animal is an individual, different.


Not spaying-related, but might have experiences from owners of spayed female dogs:


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