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Is it odd to really like it?

happyrox said:
People tend to judge a lot and so I've hidden this part of me and I'm so sick of it. I want to make friends and people that know the real me..... is that normal? Anyone else feel this way?
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I def feel the sentiment, always open to new friends :3

As far as zoo in general goes, I’d say it’s rare but maybe more common in secret than people would believe, no one is just brave enough to expose themself, especially to anyone who didn’t know them as being into it beforehand
 
slurpypup said:
I def feel the sentiment, always open to new friends :3

As far as zoo in general goes, I’d say it’s rare but maybe more common in secret than people would believe, no one is just brave enough to expose themself, especially to anyone who didn’t know them as being into it beforehand
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I definitely agree and I have done a bit of "Social Experimenting" on social media, I would say that more than half the strangers I have come out to on my "Dummy" accounts have been positive. I won't say that they accepted me as a Zoophile, but the majority didn't seem to care about my sexuality and a few have even congratulated me on being brave enough to admit such a thing.
It may not be an acceptable thing to do in some other Zoo's eyes, but it is helping me build up the confidence to one day... hopefully ONE DAY come out to the people in my life.
 
KadeBoltz said:
I definitely agree and I have done a bit of "Social Experimenting" on social media, I would say that more than half the strangers I have come out to on my "Dummy" accounts have been positive. I won't say that they accepted me as a Zoophile, but the majority didn't seem to care about my sexuality and a few have even congratulated me on being brave enough to admit such a thing.
It may not be an acceptable thing to do in some other Zoo's eyes, but it is helping me build up the confidence to one day... hopefully ONE DAY come out to the people in my life.
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Damn, can’t believe they’ve been positive. I’d be afraid to like even do that on a dummy account fearing it would some how get traced back lol. That’s kinda cool to hear tho
 
slurpypup said:
Damn, can’t believe they’ve been positive. I’d be afraid to like even do that on a dummy account fearing it would some how get traced back lol. That’s kinda cool to hear tho
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I was more nervous to say it to someone that actually knows me! For months it was eating away at me, I felt that I needed to tell someone, I was desperate to be me with other ppl... it had been so long since I had spent time with anyone and the need to be seen as who I really am was driving me crazy. I almost told my cousin, he and I weren't exactly close. But when he came out of the closet, I was the only one that accepted him from the beginning. Our family took months and years to accept him, so even though we have nothing that connected us intellectually. I felt that he might understand the need to be seen as who I am, it was a close call... I was scouring the internet and found a Zoo Podcast that lead me here.

This site has made it easier for me to be in a state of solitude and not go crazy from loneliness. Some people have made me feel hope that I might find others to physically hang out with and be friends, as well as come out to family some day. That's why I made the Dummy Accounts and tested out how it might feel to come out to people, the name calling, the threats, the avoidance and even the accepting.

Oh believe me, there were enough that reported me and others just thought I was antagonizing and trolling. But for everyone that either didn't believe me or hated me, at least three... maybe four others would be positive. Could've been that the positive ones also thought I was trolling and just humored me, maybe because I was a complete stranger and it took nothing from them to be nice about it. It did feel good to say it and have ppl hear me... in a way it felt easier and easier for me to say it and be acknowledge.
 
I get it, I absolutely do, but the truth is, you’ll probably take this to the grave. Better come to terms with it sooner rather than later
 
KadeBoltz said:
I was more nervous to say it to someone that actually knows me! For months it was eating away at me, I felt that I needed to tell someone, I was desperate to be me with other ppl... it had been so long since I had spent time with anyone and the need to be seen as who I really am was driving me crazy. I almost told my cousin, he and I weren't exactly close. But when he came out of the closet, I was the only one that accepted him from the beginning. Our family took months and years to accept him, so even though we have nothing that connected us intellectually. I felt that he might understand the need to be seen as who I am, it was a close call... I was scouring the internet and found a Zoo Podcast that lead me here.

This site has made it easier for me to be in a state of solitude and not go crazy from loneliness. Some people have made me feel hope that I might find others to physically hang out with and be friends, as well as come out to family some day. That's why I made the Dummy Accounts and tested out how it might feel to come out to people, the name calling, the threats, the avoidance and even the accepting.

Oh believe me, there were enough that reported me and others just thought I was antagonizing and trolling. But for everyone that either didn't believe me or hated me, at least three... maybe four others would be positive. Could've been that the positive ones also thought I was trolling and just humored me, maybe because I was a complete stranger and it took nothing from them to be nice about it. It did feel good to say it and have ppl hear me... in a way it felt easier and easier for me to say it and be acknowledge.
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i met a girl on a site that told me about this place and i could not believe it was real. so here i am. But i feel like you. MANY people have blocked me online in chat apps and such. some girls want to try it and then vanish after. its lonely, frustrating and very painful. I just want a girl to accept me and love me as i am and have fun together.... but it seems that i may not ever get that chance
 
Zoophilia is a very common and re-occuring theme throughout human history. Is it wrong or out of the normal? Depends who you ask.
Should you feel bad about it? If you abuse animals, yes.
If you don't, then no.
 
happyrox said:
i met a girl on a site that told me about this place and i could not believe it was real. so here i am. But i feel like you. MANY people have blocked me online in chat apps and such. some girls want to try it and then vanish after. its lonely, frustrating and very painful. I just want a girl to accept me and love me as i am and have fun together.... but it seems that i may not ever get that chance
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I can only implore you to keep trying, giving up may lead to a deep depression and avoiding that is best. I feel that friendships of any kind can fill the void of romantic companionship, just stay positive and be open to other friendships... you never know, one of them might lead to something more.
I know that sounds cheesy, but I want everyone to succeed and to be happy.
Stay strong, I am here if you ever want to chat some more.
 
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