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Is it odd to really like it?

I still hide that part of me. I didn't know Zoo was a thing, she made an advance and I, being the typical male (all balls, no brains), went for it.
 
WarHorse said:
Yes, she was.

I am a horrible person for even thinking such things.

She was wonderful.
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my mind set is if the animal does not show they dont want to or dont like it then its an issue. However sex is very natural and if it does nto cause harm then i dont see an issue. everyone is upset about "consent" do male dogs ask other dogs for consent before raping another male? i mean seriously. we are classy compared to other animals XD
 
I don't see an issue either, other than social norms.

If any of my mare lovers had an issue, I would have been cold and on a slab long ago.

Going on a tangent for a minute or three -

I should be dead. Dead. As in deceased, a corpse, incapable of respiration.

giggle "This is an ex-parrot!" giggle


Fifty-foot drop from a cliff. Face-first.

First re-supply convoy into Baghdad.

Never in more danger than carrying a bucket of sweet-feed into a broodmare pasture.

Putting the halter back on the "dangerous" stallion? (I think he started pulling it off just to get my attention).

I don't know why I still breathe.

I should be dead. There is no explanation other than - I am too stupid.

Oh, I was drifting off. I like mares.

After all of that, when a mare backs into me and lifts her tail, yes, I will do my best to oblige.

Outside the social norms.

But then, it wasn't social norms that got the food and water to my troops in Baghdad.*

All balls, no brains.





*Probably to you, that was a long time ago. To me, it was last week.
 
I definitely understand you! I had to end a lot of IRL friendships, now I just have online friends that are not Zoo's. But it is much easier to keep my Zoosexuality a secret from them, I still want some IRl friends that I can hang out with that accept/are Zoo's. I am not saying that I want people to share a sex life with, I am Asexual with people, but I do want to spend time with people that won't get weirded out if my Canine Boyfriend and I get a little frisky or show some PDA.
 
i hate hiding this part of me as well. i've tried to educate my friends a little on the topic of zoosexuality and bestiality before even thinking of coming out, but even doing that is very difficult... i wish it was easier to be open about this, i don't want to keep lying about who i am. the worst thing ever is having to listen to your friends talk shit about zoos right infront of you and not being brave enough to do anything about it.

hopefully, a day can come where we can be open about who we are. :)
 
happyrox said:
People tend to judge a lot and so I've hidden this part of me and I'm so sick of it. I want to make friends and people that know the real me..... is that normal? Anyone else feel this way?
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I've honestly been really troubled and torn for the past few years. Ever since my first time I loved it for how good it feels but I've constantly lived in fear someone would catch me or would get to know. Once it happened when my ex betrayed me and told my friends. Fortunately it was online so no one could really go after me IRL. Ever since that happened I've even been trying to give up on it; forget and move on, but the urges never go away. Now, on Monday I'm coming back home to visit my family and my dog. I haven't seen him in 4 months, we haven't mated in over a year. Part of me feels bad and finds it wrong; doesn't want me to do it, but the other just remembers how good it feels and really makes me want to do it with him again. It's going to be really difficult to resist the urge since I will most likely have the whole house for myself for the majority of the day. But to answer your question, I suppose you don't pick your sexual attraction, you like what you like and that's who you are. It's just the society that usually tells you different.
 
FriskyVixen said:
I've honestly been really troubled and torn for the past few years. Ever since my first time I loved it for how good it feels but I've constantly lived in fear someone would catch me or would get to know. Once it happened when my ex betrayed me and told my friends. Fortunately it was online so no one could really go after me IRL. Ever since that happened I've even been trying to give up on it; forget and move on, but the urges never go away. Now, on Monday I'm coming back home to visit my family and my dog. I haven't seen him in 4 months, we haven't mated in over a year. Part of me feels bad and finds it wrong; doesn't want me to do it, but the other just remembers how good it feels and really makes me want to do it with him again. It's going to be really difficult to resist the urge since I will most likely have the whole house for myself for the majority of the day. But to answer your question, I suppose you don't pick your sexual attraction, you like what you like and that's who you are. It's just the society that usually tells you different.
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yes. thats why i try to be as understanding as possible and figure out why someone likes something. There is always a root cause and for some reason i love learning about it. I understand that gets personal but i guess in a way i am kind of a counselor. Because of that i am of the belief that you cannot love someone you dont understand. But that its also very important that you love others. We are all in this life together and its up to us to help each other. We can not do that if we are bickering over who is more hated for what they like. Personally i am so sick of feeling locked up inside myself and i know people all over the world feel like that too. How can you love yourself if you hate yourself? We cannot change what we like. But we can change how we deal with it.

If you want to pm me and talk i would enjoy it and i will help where i can. Just please do not beat yourself up over this. Its not healthy and will only make your life worse.
 
also if you reply to 10 posts you can get out of lurker status. i did 10 in each category just to make sure i could unlock it.
 
happyrox said:
yes. thats why i try to be as understanding as possible and figure out why someone likes something. There is always a root cause and for some reason i love learning about it. I understand that gets personal but i guess in a way i am kind of a counselor. Because of that i am of the belief that you cannot love someone you dont understand. But that its also very important that you love others. We are all in this life together and its up to us to help each other. We can not do that if we are bickering over who is more hated for what they like. Personally i am so sick of feeling locked up inside myself and i know people all over the world feel like that too. How can you love yourself if you hate yourself? We cannot change what we like. But we can change how we deal with it.

If you want to pm me and talk i would enjoy it and i will help where i can. Just please do not beat yourself up over this. Its not healthy and will only make your life worse.
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Personally I'm among the people who just say "it is what it is" and then just suffer through stuff in silence. Even though I know how unhealthy that is I'm just used to that. I always feel guilty when I think of dogs, but then, I even often feel guilty just after masturbating. It's a weird thing that sits in your head and won't stop bothering you.
 
FriskyVixen said:
Personally I'm among the people who just say "it is what it is" and then just suffer through stuff in silence. Even though I know how unhealthy that is I'm just used to that. I always feel guilty when I think of dogs, but then, I even often feel guilty just after masturbating. It's a weird thing that sits in your head and won't stop bothering you.
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agreed. i feel like that is learned behavior. But its so dumb that we feel bad about doing stuff we all do. ive spent years feeling guilty for chasing that high when something gets me going. Its usually something i may never do but that gets me going. so i completely understand. I still cant share this stuff with others. so i feel i will lean on people i meet here. But im always terrified people will hate me for what i like. Because deep down i want to help. not hurt people.
 
FriskyVixen said:
Oh I'm just not that active you know, usually just literally lurk and watch content.
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well if you decide to do so i would enjoy talking. we seem to have a few things in common and id love to create a good friendship here. :3 i would look forward to it.
 
happyrox said:
agreed. i feel like that is learned behavior. But its so dumb that we feel bad about doing stuff we all do. ive spent years feeling guilty for chasing that high when something gets me going. Its usually something i may never do but that gets me going. so i completely understand. I still cant share this stuff with others. so i feel i will lean on people i meet here. But im always terrified people will hate me for what i like. Because deep down i want to help. not hurt people.
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I honestly stopped trusting most people. Someone who I loved and trusted, someone who praised me and encouraged me to do it. Even in the end asked me to do it for him and film it. Then suddenly had a change of heart and decided to spread the info and ruined my reputation around my friends. Now he's back to liking it and had barely any karma. Even on here I'm scared that someone might find me.
 
FriskyVixen said:
I honestly stopped trusting most people. Someone who I loved and trusted, someone who praised me and encouraged me to do it. Even in the end asked me to do it for him and film it. Then suddenly had a change of heart and decided to spread the info and ruined my reputation around my friends. Now he's back to liking it and had barely any karma. Even on here I'm scared that someone might find me.
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That makes me sick.... stabbing someone in the back is a huge button for me. >_<
But you cant give up on people! I know it hurts. But it will hurt you more to let that stop you. damn now i want to talk to you more. its hard to find genuine people. However you need to learn from it and grow. I am guilty of it too. I have certain walls i have up but i keep trying. i realize ill get hurt but its worth it if i make one good friend. also i have a few things i use to make sure if i speak with others its only left in memory. Leaving evidence or videos can be risky. I am very sorry you went through that! You may not let me get close. But after that i want to. Its always the good people that get hurt like that... its such a waste of someone that should be cherished. ugh.... i hope im not upsetting you
 
happyrox said:
That makes me sick.... stabbing someone in the back is a huge button for me. >_<
But you cant give up on people! I know it hurts. But it will hurt you more to let that stop you. damn now i want to talk to you more. its hard to find genuine people. However you need to learn from it and grow. I am guilty of it too. I have certain walls i have up but i keep trying. i realize ill get hurt but its worth it if i make one good friend. also i have a few things i use to make sure if i speak with others its only left in memory. Leaving evidence or videos can be risky. I am very sorry you went through that! You may not let me get close. But after that i want to. Its always the good people that get hurt like that... its such a waste of someone that should be cherished. ugh.... i hope im not upsetting you
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Nah I'm fine. I kinda got over what happened you know. It's been like what, 2 or 3 years already. I changed my environment. There is only a few people who know. They're friends. We chat and roleplay together on Second Life. You can have a feral avatar there and have some fun.
 
FriskyVixen said:
Nah I'm fine. I kinda got over what happened you know. It's been like what, 2 or 3 years already. I changed my environment. There is only a few people who know. They're friends. We chat and roleplay together on Second Life. You can have a feral avatar there and have some fun.
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your not really over it. It left a deep scar. i have a few like that myself. one that is quite deep. But i am glad you have some friends. I used to roam on second life a lot. Met a great girl there and had a lot of heart breaks. I used to consider myself a furry. Honestly i am not sure anymore. I am unsure if i would even feel comfortable sharing that old account since it was linked to info ive long lost. However i could make a bare account. But i hate human avatars in SL XD very boring.
 
happyrox said:
your not really over it. It left a deep scar. i have a few like that myself. one that is quite deep. But i am glad you have some friends. I used to roam on second life a lot. Met a great girl there and had a lot of heart breaks. I used to consider myself a furry. Honestly i am not sure anymore. I am unsure if i would even feel comfortable sharing that old account since it was linked to info ive long lost. However i could make a bare account. But i hate human avatars in SL XD very boring.
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Yeah well, I am a furry, got a few furry avatars. Dislike human ones myself. And yeah probably I haven't fully got over that. Still feel a bit salty. But mostly for the fact that he never felt what I did. He only got slightly exposed after I tried to defend myself. At that point I was feeling very guilty about dogs and was trying to stop for good. I was even doing good progress when he mildly pressured me into revealing my secret. When I did he said it was hot and I was "the best girlfriend" etc. And in the end he said he wanted to see me do it. So that's what I used in my defence. I was talked into doing it. Worked just partially I suppose.
 
FriskyVixen said:
Yeah well, I am a furry, got a few furry avatars. Dislike human ones myself. And yeah probably I haven't fully got over that. Still feel a bit salty. But mostly for the fact that he never felt what I did. He only got slightly exposed after I tried to defend myself. At that point I was feeling very guilty about dogs and was trying to stop for good. I was even doing good progress when he mildly pressured me into revealing my secret. When I did he said it was hot and I was "the best girlfriend" etc. And in the end he said he wanted to see me do it. So that's what I used in my defence. I was talked into doing it. Worked just partially I suppose.
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ive talked to girls and helped them do it. But they never stay around probably due to fear. That is rough because its better with me if the other person enjoys themselves. if someone likes something i take great joy in helping them accept and work to it. While i do get greedy and ask for pics from time to time i would never do something like that to someone. Very few people know what kind of life shattering things can happen from people that do what he did. i am one of those people. Ive had my life torn apart from me piece by piece. he should have respected you and treated you better. You dont ever share things like that with others unless you talk to teh person it came from and be very clear on the limits of it. -breathes deep- im sorry i am very frustrated because that ticks me off. i am very protective of people. I guess thats why i was a tiger fur. It felt right since im always trying to protect people.
 
happyrox said:
ive talked to girls and helped them do it. But they never stay around probably due to fear. That is rough because its better with me if the other person enjoys themselves. if someone likes something i take great joy in helping them accept and work to it. While i do get greedy and ask for pics from time to time i would never do something like that to someone. Very few people know what kind of life shattering things can happen from people that do what he did. i am one of those people. Ive had my life torn apart from me piece by piece. he should have respected you and treated you better. You dont ever share things like that with others unless you talk to teh person it came from and be very clear on the limits of it. -breathes deep- im sorry i am very frustrated because that ticks me off. i am very protective of people. I guess thats why i was a tiger fur. It felt right since im always trying to protect people.
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Yeah well as they say, it is what it is. I've been trying to get more comfortable with myself and my kinks. I suppose I can say I've been doing some progress. Slow but still.
 
FriskyVixen said:
Yeah well as they say, it is what it is. I've been trying to get more comfortable with myself and my kinks. I suppose I can say I've been doing some progress. Slow but still.
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Well i hope maybe we could talk and get to know each other. If you do decide to do that and want to set rules up to help i wont complain. I am always honest and i would treat you how i would want to be treated :D If not and we dont talk i want you to know i am glad you replied and i loved speaking with you. I truly hope you are able to heal and be the wonderful person you are.
 
happyrox said:
Well i hope maybe we could talk and get to know each other. If you do decide to do that and want to set rules up to help i wont complain. I am always honest and i would treat you how i would want to be treated :D If not and we dont talk i want you to know i am glad you replied and i loved speaking with you. I truly hope you are able to heal and be the wonderful person you are.
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I don't mind talking more. I have plenty of time till October. Then I might be a bit busy because of university, but I usually try to respond to people.
 
FriskyVixen said:
I don't mind talking more. I have plenty of time till October. Then I might be a bit busy because of university, but I usually try to respond to people.
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a girl with a head on her shoulders is always attractive... um however that means the reverse is... nevermind XD
I want t talk more as well! But id prefer messages for some privacy. i feel that if i chat too much ill end up giving away something that can hurt me or others later. since i cant trust everyone that reads the forum.
 
happyrox said:
a girl with a head on her shoulders is always attractive... um however that means the reverse is... nevermind XD
I want t talk more as well! But id prefer messages for some privacy. i feel that if i chat too much ill end up giving away something that can hurt me or others later. since i cant trust everyone that reads the forum.
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Fair enough. I haven't learned how this website works yet, but if you want to you can message me. Unless there is no private message function.
 
there is but you have to put 10 comments or posts in i think General.

Private messages and why new members can't.

Seeing as how people can't search, I'll sticky this in every single area of the forum. Due to the amount of spam accounts, we have restricted the PM function again. -New accounts will be REQUIRED to make at minimum 10 forum posts in relevant sections (not fun and games) to gain access to the...
www.zoovilleforum.net www.zoovilleforum.net
here is the thread?
 
happyrox said:
there is but you have to put 10 comments or posts in i think General.

Private messages and why new members can't.

Seeing as how people can't search, I'll sticky this in every single area of the forum. Due to the amount of spam accounts, we have restricted the PM function again. -New accounts will be REQUIRED to make at minimum 10 forum posts in relevant sections (not fun and games) to gain access to the...
www.zoovilleforum.net www.zoovilleforum.net
here is the thread?
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Hmm, are comments enough or do I have to post something myself? If it's just about getting a Tourist rank I just did it a few minutes ago.
 
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