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Im a zoophile and Im disgusted by it

Why though.......I mean if in your mind your forcing yourself on them then yea....that's bad.....but I mean if you develop a geniune relationship with them and you feel connected to them and they want it just as you do...then where is the issue?
 
and this is hardly the best place to look for "a way to stop" to be honest. why even join this site? by all means, feel free to look around, but i doubt you'll find anything to solve your issue if "i want to stop" is the only thing you are looking for. maybe a therapist might work better?

the best i can give you is: if you wanna stop, then just stop. focus on other things so your mind doesn't stray to "horrible things". like a hobby or something. or get an animal-shaped dildo/masturbator, getting off with "not-the-real-deal" might help a bit?
 
If it’s causing you emotional distress, I highly advise speaking to a therapist. Depending on where you are, there may be some cheaper options for therapy, including some offices that operate on a sliding-scale (typically based on income). May be a bit of a waitlist for that route, but worth a shot.

If you’re trying to stop, this forum might not be the best place to start. I definitely empathize with you though, I’ve struggled with coming to terms with my attractions as well.
 
tntim said:
I'm horrified by the fact that I would even think of fucking a dog or horse, its the thing I hate most about myself and I need some way to stop.
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Keep in mind my friend that your sexuality is hard wired and not in anyway your fault. There is nothing wrong with you and everyone's mind wonders and fantasies about different things. Only a tiny amount of people here have even indulged so don't think that just because u have a feeling or thought that u have to act upon it. Most people here spend a life time trying to fulfil a fantasy and it never happens so why be so hard on yourself? Maybe learn to love the person you are rather than spending a lifetime hating yourself. Take care!
 
I'm also throwing into the hat of "speak to a therapist". It's not normal to hate yourself that much no matter what it's over and you're better than suffering in your feelings alone.

That being said I don't think joining a pro-zoo forum like this is your best bet if you want to get rid of it. There's no 'getting rid' of your sexuality in my opinion. I also used to hate myself. But the sooner I accepted things the better I felt. About this particular issue anyway.

Try speaking to some zoos here. We're normal people just like you, there's nothing wrong with our interests.

Also, even if you'd never do so in real life, a thought is not a crime, a thought doesn't make one gross or guilty.
 
tntim said:
I'm horrified by the fact that I would even think of fucking a dog or horse, its the thing I hate most about myself and I need some way to stop.
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Why are you here, then?...no one here is qualified to help you. You need a psychologist or therapist. Even if there is such a person here, they'd be risking the loss of his/her professional license just BEING here. Find a Shrink in the mundane World...if nothing else, check into pastoral counseling in a Church. You don't have to give them every detail, especially if you are merely thinking about this. Don't know why you'd hate yourself for thoughts, but I can see why you need help. Get out of here and find it.
 
nekdoneco123 said:
and this is hardly the best place to look for "a way to stop" to be honest. why even join this site? by all means, feel free to look around, but i doubt you'll find anything to solve your issue if "i want to stop" is the only thing you are looking for. maybe a therapist might work better?

the best i can give you is: if you wanna stop, then just stop. focus on other things so your mind doesn't stray to "horrible things". like a hobby or something. or get an animal-shaped dildo/masturbator, getting off with "not-the-real-deal" might help a bit?
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im inclined to agree with nekdoneco123 here....
Why did you join this site?
Im probably gonna get flames for this BUT here goes....
There seems to be a percentage of people who 'hate themselves' for who they are.....try accepting yourself instead...
Honestly I dont understand the 'self-hate' crowd.....be it self-hating gay guys or those that hate their gender...
Maybe the self-hate relates to some kind of ideal your trying to live up to (others expectations) or some form of psychological trauma...

(personally im not a fan of therapy - you HAVE the answer inside you I believe, and no 'agent of averageness' is better qualified than yourself to accept and deal with who you are)

Pete Burns - the singer from the 80's (you spin me right round baby) couldn't accept who he was and changed his gender....
which ultimately he regretted and sadly it destroyed him.
The grass may appear greener on the other side but its still just as hard to mow....

Be yourself - cause everyone else is already taken.

Best of luck on your journey to self.
Peace
 
Why come to a zoo site? What are you hoping to achieve? Are you trying to shame those of us who accept and enjoy what we are? Are you looking for support? (If you are, you're in the wrong place, you need professional help, not us!) I don't understand. Please explain.
 
saddlebum66 said:
Why are you here, then?...no one here is qualified to help you. You need a psychologist or therapist. Even if there is such a person here, they'd be risking the loss of his/her professional license just BEING here. Find a Shrink in the mundane World...if nothing else, check into pastoral counseling in a Church. You don't have to give them every detail, especially if you are merely thinking about this. Don't know why you'd hate yourself for thoughts, but I can see why you need help. Get out of here and find it.
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Going to a church, ESPECIALLY for a matter like this would be extremely unhealthy, I definitely wouldn't recommend that.
 
I can totally sympathize and feel the same way myself sometimes too. Honestly, I feel a lot of guilt about this part of me and it depresses me sometimes.

I feel like I am starting to accept it though. I can't change who I am, so it is better to just give in to it than fight it so hard.
 
my x gf felt the same way at first...we talked about about her emotions..which bounced from saying never...to maybe...to I want to try it... but after some time and viewing more vids she was ready to try, and was glad she did.
 
It's not even something you should be ashamed of.....I mean if your forcing animals to do something then yea.....it's not ok...but feeling a natural attraction to them as you would another person is nothing bad..... especially since animals can feel and express the same love and affection back to you....if it's consensual and you love the animal just as much as they love you then ...it's as natural as can be.
fawn said:
I can totally sympathize and feel the same way myself sometimes too. Honestly, I feel a lot of guilt about this part of me and it depresses me sometimes.

I feel like I am starting to accept it though. I can't change who I am, so it is better to just give in to it than fight it so hard.
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qqq said:
Join the club buddy. Everyone here is a degenerate. Some of us are just in denial and think our behavior is acceptable.
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What part about it isn't acceptable? Well, besides not being accepted by the general society, which are ignorant to the fact that a healthy zoo relationship can even exist. I have a female dog who goes absolutely bonkers over sex. She asks me for it via body language every 1-3 days. It's mutual pleasure for the both of us. So I feel no shame in giving her this pleasure. I'd hate to be a part of your club.
 
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tntim said:
I'm horrified by the fact that I would even think of fucking a dog or horse, its the thing I hate most about myself and I need some way to stop.
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Then try to be tasteful and ethical about it. Get a beautiful and honorable breed like a kengal or a great dane, and prove that you can practice a greater sense of respect toward that animal than the average dog-owner.

What the world does not know about zoos is that we are awesome.
 
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