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If you've ever been knotted, what made you want to try again after experiencing how painful it was?

Katelyn said:
Might just be how I was raised with sex, but the "school" rules was always "It's going to hurt the first time". I was also a minor so that definitely doesn't help "large object in small object" logistics. Granted if I was more educated I would have made better choices, but I still enjoyed myself and I did cum. Also maybe some biological functions are added to women for "it hurt don't care get more dick".
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I think you're right. But for some it turned them off the lifestyle forever
 
Haven't been knotted yet, but even knowing it may be painful I'm still all for it when my pup comes of age and shows interest to do so. Have explored with large anal toys and been on the receiving end of some large humans as well. Looking forward to it ?
 
waarom170 said:
I wanted to pleasure him but I just cant accomodate a knot, too painfull. Tried it 2 times in my life, doubt I will again.
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I've also tried 2 times but every time I panic and pull It was a pitbull I've tried preparing with a inflatable butt plug but I still panic any tips/tricks would be helpful
 
Barebackmisty said:
For me I have always loved anal sex. I enjoy the pain and pleasure of it if that makes sense. So take a dog knot is so intense yet exciting at the same time. Plus it never hurts to do a little bit of coke to get things going ?
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Deffo right on coke one horny drug love it
 
Edenraed said:
Well it definetly hurts, but the pleasure is very intense and its something you never experience somewhere else, i feel dominated and used while he knots me, a feeling i can feel only by getting knotted by him
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Reading this turns me on
 
First time getting knotted was intense and painful as I didnt know what to expect but after he dismounted I knew I wanted to do it again and now I know how it feels and what to expect its much better and more satisfying and I always look forward to being totally dominated like that, no where to go except where you are in body and mind
 
Roxykinkybitch said:
First time getting knotted was intense and painful as I didnt know what to expect but after he dismounted I knew I wanted to do it again and now I know how it feels and what to expect its much better and more satisfying and I always look forward to being totally dominated like that, no where to go except where you are in body and mind
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I share your sentiments
 
go v slowly. it took a few years to train my cunt to be knotted by big dogs, know I can take the huge breeds. Still has to gradual but feels amazing.
 
[Written from the perspective of a male human taking the knot anally]

I've heard a lot here about the panic of the act, and I want to address that specifically, see if I can show you guys how to turn that around in your mind some, as well as answering the OP's why we come back to this even if it hurts.

Me, I have a sort of love/hate relationship with the knot. Or perhaps a better way to phrase it, an anticipation/dread of it. I'll look forward to it all day long, but I know to dread it too -- and that anxiety is part of the excitement. Call it a healthy fear. Particularly, its that very same pang of helpless panic in the moments when he starts expanding that gets remembered -- and, eventually, becomes part of the joy. Retrain your mind. With enough repetition, you learn to embrace that fear. You know it'll be over without any real harm, and you know you can take it, so you come around to liking the thrill of it, without overreacting. Hindsight too. There's the memory of it all, compelling you back to him. You feel a certain pride and satisfaction of accomplishment after the act. You're proud of yourself for having adapted your body and given it over to him, pleasured him fully & completely, wanting to go back for more despite the pain. Heck, if you did everything right, you even got yourself off too. You orgasmed despite the discomfort, and that's a challenge bested, obstacle overcome, feat achieved. Makes for a hell of a win, for both of you. There's a pride in it. Gay pride? lol

All of these things taken as a whole, become the cornerstones of the 'addiction'. It hurt, yes, but you'll come back for more because you love him ❤️, and the love won out. The pleasure triumphed over the pain. Like the songs say, it hurt so good, so you might as well face it you're addicted to love :LOL: ?

Some of it can be an adrenaline addiction too I suppose. We already understand that release of all the good chemicals will result in repeat behavior, getcha coming back to that knot again and again. Oxytocin, adrenaline, endorphins, I don't even know what-all, but its a perfect storm. The aforesaid thrill of fear (release of adrenaline rush) peaks in the moments he's expanding and slowing his thrusts, when there's only a second or two of transition -- that's when you know its coming, inexorably. Its that point of no return. The thrusting itself felt fine, pleasurable even (minus the initial probing stabs of an os bone, but these can be mitigated too). But then it happens. Very suddenly and with little or no warning, he slows up, and the dreaded-anticipated expansion begins. Its a pervading feeling of fullness and tugging back there that turns to pain when he reaches full diameter. That's when you start to worry. Pulse goes up, pupils dilate, breath goes shallow, cold sweat beads at the temples, and... a smile in the dark! Like MacBeth, you have done the deed. Now you're screwed, literally. You're his until this is over. Nothing left to do but ride it out. This is where you learn three critical skills: how to calm down and keep your wits, how to recover your flagged erection back up, and how to edge like a fucking boss!


Some bullet points come to mind:

- Beds with a mound of pillows under you or a narrow, padded weight bench makes a perfect mount. You want your abdomen/torso/chest resting comfortably supported on something so you can let go of all tension. Comfort throughout the rest of your body should not be overlooked. Don't forget you still have joints head to toe. Plenty else can start ringing in pain & strain besides your ass, diminishing the experience. Find a place, position, and arrangement that will maximize your comfort being on all fours for a long time. Your goal should be supporting your weight + his in such a way that allows for going completely slack, inert, at ease. Because being stuck pretzeled in a twister game with your dog and straining to hold the both of you up is a real boner killer.

- Practice makes perfect. Forget about BD or any fixed-size knot toys. They're all form, no function. Nice to look at, useless as a trainer. Shoving in something fixed-size only hurts and dissuades you even you more from trying. You need trainers that mimic actual anatomy/physiology. Elypse is the only toy maker I know of who has an inflatable knot that expands after its inside, like real coitus will. Worth every penny. When you can pump that thing 10-12x and sit with it inside for an hour any day of the week, you're ready. Conventional 'ammo-shell' style anal dilator kits in graduated sizes also helped immensely.

- Multi-orgasms are generally only possible for women; that's not a realistic strategy for men. If you're male, get good at edging and control, because you're going to want to hold that load in, riding the wave of endorphins for the duration of the tie. If you botch this and cum too early, the endorphins leave you. Then the pain takes over soon as you come down off climax and you're stuck riding that pain out til he's done. Instead, your release should only come at the very end of his, when he releases you. Right up to the moment you feel him soften and give a little. That's your cue. When you know the impending decouple is moments away, that's when you let go and cum hard yourself, just before he softens and pops out. Timing this perfectly is admittedly difficult and doesn't always work. Sometimes, you just can't help it, and you'll cum while he's still knotted. But do undertake the effort to train your edge game. Like anything else worthwhile, it takes effort. I promise, cumming-decoupling-collpasing in a cleanup licking afterglow is the best way.

TLDR: the anxiety and the thrill, the pleasure and pain, all of these are thrown together to color the experience and make it what it is. And what it is, is good overall, despite the pain. You love him so its something you want to do for him, want to get good at for his sake, and once you do get good, you find yourself reaping the rewards of a new kind of orgasm, too.
 
Daedalus said:
[Written from the perspective of a male human taking the knot anally]

I've heard a lot here about the panic of the act, and I want to address that specifically, see if I can show you guys how to turn that around in your mind some, as well as answering the OP's why we come back to this even if it hurts.

Me, I have a sort of love/hate relationship with the knot. Or perhaps a better way to phrase it, an anticipation/dread of it. I'll look forward to it all day long, but I know to dread it too -- and that anxiety is part of the excitement. Call it a healthy fear. Particularly, its that very same pang of helpless panic in the moments when he starts expanding that gets remembered -- and, eventually, becomes part of the joy. Retrain your mind. With enough repetition, you learn to embrace that fear. You know it'll be over without any real harm, and you know you can take it, so you come around to liking the thrill of it, without overreacting. Hindsight too. There's the memory of it all, compelling you back to him. You feel a certain pride and satisfaction of accomplishment after the act. You're proud of yourself for having adapted your body and given it over to him, pleasured him fully & completely, wanting to go back for more despite the pain. Heck, if you did everything right, you even got yourself off too. You orgasmed despite the discomfort, and that's a challenge bested, obstacle overcome, feat achieved. Makes for a hell of a win, for both of you. There's a pride in it. Gay pride? lol

All of these things taken as a whole, become the cornerstones of the 'addiction'. It hurt, yes, but you'll come back for more because you love him ❤️, and the love won out. The pleasure triumphed over the pain. Like the songs say, it hurt so good, so you might as well face it you're addicted to love :LOL: ?

Some of it can be an adrenaline addiction too I suppose. We already understand that release of all the good chemicals will result in repeat behavior, getcha coming back to that knot again and again. Oxytocin, adrenaline, endorphins, I don't even know what-all, but its a perfect storm. The aforesaid thrill of fear (release of adrenaline rush) peaks in the moments he's expanding and slowing his thrusts, when there's only a second or two of transition -- that's when you know its coming, inexorably. Its that point of no return. The thrusting itself felt fine, pleasurable even (minus the initial probing stabs of an os bone, but these can be mitigated too). But then it happens. Very suddenly and with little or no warning, he slows up, and the dreaded-anticipated expansion begins. Its a pervading feeling of fullness and tugging back there that turns to pain when he reaches full diameter. That's when you start to worry. Pulse goes up, pupils dilate, breath goes shallow, cold sweat beads at the temples, and... a smile in the dark! Like MacBeth, you have done the deed. Now you're screwed, literally. You're his until this is over. Nothing left to do but ride it out. This is where you learn three critical skills: how to calm down and keep your wits, how to recover your flagged erection back up, and how to edge like a fucking boss!


Some bullet points come to mind:

- Beds with a mound of pillows under you or a narrow, padded weight bench makes a perfect mount. You want your abdomen/torso/chest resting comfortably supported on something so you can let go of all tension. Comfort throughout the rest of your body should not be overlooked. Don't forget you still have joints head to toe. Plenty else can start ringing in pain & strain besides your ass, diminishing the experience. Find a place, position, and arrangement that will maximize your comfort being on all fours for a long time. Your goal should be supporting your weight + his in such a way that allows for going completely slack, inert, at ease. Because being stuck pretzeled in a twister game with your dog and straining to hold the both of you up is a real boner killer.

- Practice makes perfect. Forget about BD or any fixed-size knot toys. They're all form, no function. Nice to look at, useless as a trainer. Shoving in something fixed-size only hurts and dissuades you even you more from trying. You need trainers that mimic actual anatomy/physiology. Elypse is the only toy maker I know of who has an inflatable knot that expands after its inside, like real coitus will. Worth every penny. When you can pump that thing 10-12x and sit with it inside for an hour any day of the week, you're ready. Conventional 'ammo-shell' style anal dilator kits in graduated sizes also helped immensely.

- Multi-orgasms are generally only possible for women; that's not a realistic strategy for men. If you're male, get good at edging and control, because you're going to want to hold that load in, riding the wave of endorphins for the duration of the tie. If you botch this and cum too early, the endorphins leave you. Then the pain takes over soon as you come down off climax and you're stuck riding that pain out til he's done. Instead, your release should only come at the very end of his, when he releases you. Right up to the moment you feel him soften and give a little. That's your cue. When you know the impending decouple is moments away, that's when you let go and cum hard yourself, just before he softens and pops out. Timing this perfectly is admittedly difficult and doesn't always work. Sometimes, you just can't help it, and you'll cum while he's still knotted. But do undertake the effort to train your edge game. Like anything else worthwhile, it takes effort. I promise, cumming-decoupling-collpasing in a cleanup licking afterglow is the best way.

TLDR: the anxiety and the thrill, the pleasure and pain, all of these are thrown together to color the experience and make it what it is. And what it is, is good overall, despite the pain. You love him so its something you want to do for him, want to get good at for his sake, and once you do get good, you find yourself reaping the rewards of a new kind of orgasm, too.
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This is a good post for you to add to the how too section for the newbies to get more understanding

For some of us this very similar to our experiences and for some not as much but lot of it applies in many ways.
The majority of us that did have a painful experience at some point Went Back for More or tried again thinking of ways to make it less painfull, but we still tried it again. Then became addicted to it.

Even the folks that do not tie after the first time, still got addicted to a good ass pounding, men and women both.

It is the entire experience that makes it so amazing, and also overwhelming mind numbing.
The sounds of his hips slapping yours, the squishy sloshy sounds of the knot pumping back and forth, the feel of those hips thudding against yours, the feel of those dew claws dug into your sides, the feel of the cum running out and dripping off and down your legs while he pounding away that often takes your breath away .......
 
Abelard said:
Cervix is a sensitive part. How is it that pain became pleasure ?
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The cervix is sensitive, yes, and more so at some times of the month than at others. What usually happens though, is the tip of the long or large dog penis will go up beside the cervix and past it by 2 or 3 inches. So, the vagina is stretching in deeper. There is a hard limit, eventually. It's not like some people think and always just left up to how high arousal is.

In fact, it's not that super high arousal makes the vagina "tent" even more, which it might, slightly. An overlooked side effect of very high arousal is about a 120% increase in their pain threshold.

Some "poking too deep" can still happen even with high arousal, but that's likely not what most of the women describe here. It's mostly going to be from the girth of the knot. As others have pointed out, it swells really quick! In the ideal situation, the dog's penis enters the vagina when nearly still at it's smallest size, or when semi erect and maybe 40% enlarged. Within about 3 to 5 thrusts the knot is full width.

They often plunge in rapidly too. Some medium and larger dogs with experience with a woman will move their hips a little slower till they feel the tip of their penis start to enter. Very few push all the way in a slow at first entry. It's more that they plunge it in. If it's no more than half erect on the first thrust, that's rarely too deep. In 3 to 5 seconds it will be full size though.

So, it's typically the width, and some women don't feel much discomfort from a large girth. It really varies a lot from woman to woman, and if she hasn't been taking larger penetrations lately, a larger dog cock will likely cause more discomfort than it would had she been mating with him at least a couple of times a week.

Women that use really large dildos tend to see a loss of stretching progress after about 2 weeks without penetration from anything above average in size. Some of them, not all of them.
 
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